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Sex with ur ex? (pg. 12)
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| Spin Laden |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
You also have to remember that most of the women's nerves are centered right around the opening of the vagina, and hence most of the sensitivity will be felt in the first 2 inches. There are very few nerves wayyy up inside where the tip of the penis would be. |
- who told you this? Skillton? :p |
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| yankeeBaby |
| haha nope my professors :) sex therapy ftw :) |
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| Ania_xox |
| quote: | Originally posted by infinity HiGH
Keep up the good work mate. You're giving lots of retards all over the world hope that they too can pass off as normal human beings. |
i just laughed out loud at that in the library and now everyone is staring lol |
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| Spin Laden |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
haha nope my professors :) sex therapy ftw :) |
jk.. I've heard this before but pinkydicks like him probably theorized it :) |
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| Porky |
| quote: | Originally posted by drgoodvibe
I've found ex-sex to be generally a terrible idea. It digs up old feelings on either party and by the end of it when your ready to move on it's as if you have to breakup all over again.
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+1
If things ended badly I usually don't double dip, it's not worth the headaches. |
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| MissK |
If we are speaking purely sexual:
yes, I think it is entirely fine to rekindle an ex as a sexual partner with no strings attached. It's comfortable.
If we are speaking back into a relationship:
this is probably a bad idea, as spitty said, you probably broke up for a reason. |
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| EvilTree |
| quote: | Originally posted by MissK
If we are speaking purely sexual:
yes, I think it is entirely fine to rekindle an ex as a sexual partner with no strings attached. It's comfortable.
If we are speaking back into a relationship:
this is probably a bad idea, as spitty said, you probably broke up for a reason. |
Even a purely 'buddy' relationship, wouldn't it be rather awkward doing it with a ex, considering it's someone you used to care a lot about?
I dunno many people who'd be that emotionally detached to hook up with an ex for sex, and not have any sort of emotional feeling |
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| Cosmic Fur |
| quote: | Originally posted by EvilTree
I dunno many people who'd be that emotionally detached to hook up with an ex for sex, and not have any sort of emotional feeling |
Maybe they didn't have emotional feelings about the other in the first place. :p |
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| EvilTree |
| quote: | Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
Maybe they didn't have emotional feelings about the other in the first place. :p |
or it was all about the fight sex in the first place? :p |
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| MissK |
| quote: | Originally posted by EvilTree
Even a purely 'buddy' relationship, wouldn't it be rather awkward doing it with a ex, considering it's someone you used to care a lot about?
I dunno many people who'd be that emotionally detached to hook up with an ex for sex, and not have any sort of emotional feeling |
Well, I think it depends on the situation....
From personal experience, the years apart took away the attached emotions and left me with a friendship love, and it was pure comfortable...as long as the 'rules' are laid out prior and all parties are a go... it's a dandy thing ;)
some people differ |
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| The Wiz |
| quote: | Originally posted by rabbitjoker
Dude - get over her and move on. |
Best advice. |
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| Jeff Button |
Plenty experience in this field. LOL
Let me just say (from my personal experience) it's never been a good idea, period. But it's tempting as hell. Towards the end of any relationship, the sexual part of it (along with everything else) tends to fizzle out. When you break up, but continue to with 'no strings' - theres a certain excitement factor there... because you know you're not supposed to be doing it. Sure, you can both sit there afterwards all hot and sweaty thinking you're in freaking sex heaven... but guess what? You're about to enter sex with ex hell.
Soon enough, one or both of you will start to see the other qualities that you valued in one another - which will lead to feelings that were once there. This will continue to grow with each thrust you take, and before you know it - you're right back in the relationship you didn't want to be in in the first place.
Chances are - if it didn't work the first time, the second time will prove the same results. You'll just be wasting your time on somebody who will eventually let you down again (or vice versa), when you could be spending it looking for somebody who is actually good for you. It's easy to go back to someone you're comfortable with, simply because it's better than being single. But seriously re-consider that before making that move, you'll more than likely be thanking yourself in the long run. |
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