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Would you date a cheater? (pg. 6)
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
For a moment I thought it was another woman :( |
Give me a moment and you'll be the other woman;) |
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| EvilTree |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
You're all saying "no" but all this is assuming the person would actually tell you in the first place. What if you started dating a girl/guy and after you both became very attached to each other he/she admits to having cheated several times in past relationships? Would you dump your SO? |
I dunno. To my observation, stuff like this you'll find out eventually, through friends, networks whatever. People talk.
And once there is that doubt in a relationship, it's really hard to shake off that feeling, esp. when it concerns whether your SO is faithful to you or not.
I know couple of people who went out for several years, but once the doubt creeped in, the relationship was no longer attainable.
Would I dump a gf once I find out that she has a history of cheating?
To be honest, I dunno. But I give everyone one chance, but no second chance.
Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on you. |
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| EvilTree |
| quote: | Originally posted by Clovis
I already date a cheater. her name is bas. |
LMAO. |
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| iammesol |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
and anyone who is cool likes all Daft Punk's Albums. |
I was so close... |
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| EvilTree |
| quote: | Originally posted by iammesol
I was so close... |
Tricia has high standards. Hence why so many c0r whores get shot down |
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| leph555 |
I would
but i wouldn't call it dating |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by iammesol
I was so close... |
Better luck next round, champ.
| quote: | Originally posted by EvilTree
Tricia has high standards. Hence why so many c0r whores get shot down |
HAHA! |
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| lücid |
| of course no one is going to say that they would date a cheater. that would make them seem weak, vulnerable, and stupid... but i bet a lot of people never find out that their significant other has cheated in previous relationships. it's not something people like to freely admit, especially when it's someone they're interested in and trying to impress. and how many of us really give the third degree and ask tons of questions about cheating, number of sexual partners, etc. when we start getting serious with someone? |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
of course no one is going to say that they would date a cheater. that would make them seem weak, vulnerable, and stupid... but i bet a lot of people never find out that their significant other has cheated in previous relationships. it's not something people like to freely admit, especially when it's someone they're interested in and trying to impress. and how many of us really give the third degree and ask tons of questions about cheating, number of sexual partners, etc. when we start getting serious with someone? |
never. |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
This question is mostly for those who have never cheated in a relationship, but I guess those of you who have cheated can answer as well:
Would you date someone you knew had a history of cheating (say, two or more times) on significant others? |
i would let them think we were dating if they were really hot just to em. but id never call and act like a total jerk and only come over to screw. then they would break up with me and Id move on to the next broad |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
You're all saying "no" but all this is assuming the person would actually tell you in the first place. What if you started dating a girl/guy and after you both became very attached to each other he/she admits to having cheated several times in past relationships? Would you dump your SO? |
Naturally , if you don't know, then you can't really take action against it.
I have dumped someone I was with for 3 years because I suspected he was cheating on me. Turns out he was. That ******.
If I knew prior to dating someone that they had the tendency to cheat, I wouldn't bother with them. I believe in being loyal and monogamous, and expect the person dating me to be the same. If you need to look for something else in a different relationship when you're with someone, it probably means that A. you don't know how to communicate worth , and what good is a relationship without strong communication? or B. you're just a douche. |
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| TheVrk |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Cheating is not a mistake. |
Cheaters would disagree...meaning ur obv not one of 'em.
If i'm getting into a relationship, i look forward, never backward.
You can always find something, some reason why NOT to date someone..whether its them cheating or another reason
Dating a girl right now, and we've both cheated in the past.
I'm not worried about it at all.
Even if ur dating someone who CLAIMS (stress claims) they havent cheated, that doesnt mean they won't.
Plus i'm convinced a minimum of 80% (likely 90%, specially doods) have cheated |
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