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Would you date a cheater? (pg. 7)
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by TheVrk
Cheaters would disagree... |
Yeah, but cheaters are self-serving s. |
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| Eis |
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| Fibonacci |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
... but i bet a lot of people never find out that their significant other has cheated in previous relationships. it's not something people like to freely admit, especially when it's someone they're interested in and trying to impress. and how many of us really give the third degree and ask tons of questions about cheating, number of sexual partners, etc. when we start getting serious with someone? |
Stupidity almost always surfaces, one way or the other. And if one is accustomed to that type of behavior, it's indicative in their personality. Just takes some time to see, if you are willing to see it. I've had girls admit that type of stuff to me before, and it usually ends shortly thereafter... |
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| trewqy |
I dont see the big fuss.. so what?
The way i see it cheaters cheat because they find their mates not good enough for them. The only thing is they lack the balls to tell em straight in the face and just break it off.
Yes I have cheated before, was going out with a great girl and then met another great girl. Reason i cheated was i wanted to weigh the options.
So its pretty simple, if you're good enough for him/her, you wont have to worry about them cheating. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by trewqy
So its pretty simple, if you're good enough for him/her, you wont have to worry about them cheating. |
This is such self-serving bull. I've seen people go behind the backs of their boyfriends and girlfriends without ever giving any indication to them that the relationship wasn't fulfilling their supposed "needs," no indication of how the other person might change their behavior so as to be "good enough," no sign that anything was less than satisfactory. They just go right ahead and cheat, attentive only to their own self-centered "fulfillment."
I have no sympathy for them and zero patience for their childish attempts to put themselves in a better light. |
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| Fibonacci |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
This is such self-serving bull. I've seen people go behind the backs of their boyfriends / girlfriends without ever giving any indication to them that the relationship wasn't fulfilling their supposed "needs," no indication of how the other person might change their behavior so as to be "good enough," no sign that anything was less than satisfactory. They just go right ahead and cheat, attentive only to their own self-centered "fulfillment."
I have no sympathy for them and zero patience for their childish attempts to put themselves in a better light. |
hear hear! |
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| bananas |
Yeah I would, I've cheated but I know I wouldn't if I'd be with someone I'm totally happy with. No one cheats just cause of sake of cheating.
edit: that doesn't mean I support cheating, or that those who cheat aren't guilty, I'm just saying that just cause someone has cheated before doesn't mean he/she'll do that again and again |
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| trewqy |
| were u part of these people's relationship? How do u know that they're *HAPPY* with each other? You dont. What? Just because they hold hands and smile in front of you means they're happy together? |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| Hey, if you're "unhappy" and "unfulfilled," then grow a ing pair and say it. Don't go around like a coward and deceive people. That's all I'm saying... |
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| dj_alfi |
| If I would date a cheater, yes. Try to have a serious relationship with one, no thank you. |
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| Lira |
Kay, so we all came to the conclusion that some of us don't have any respect for cheaters, and most wouldn't date one. Now, here comes the last question: Would you date a cheetah?
Unlike your average cheater, cheetahs may not only cheat on you with other cheetahs, but they can also devour you. They're also faster than any human, so you can't run (and, given their powerful olfactory system, you can't really hide either).
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| trewqy |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Hey, if you're "unhappy" and "unfulfilled," then grow a ing pair and say it. Don't go around like a coward and deceive people. That's all I'm saying... |
See thats the thing, cheating is only wrong when the other party finds out. I have an old friend whos actually cheating on his wife of 20 years. Great lad. Great father. Loving Husband. Before he found his mistress, he was always pissed off. Kept on complaining how ty his life is. Now hes like a changed man. Just looks at life at a whole different perspective and does everything with a spring.
Hes not harming anybody, in fact hes treating everyone much better; ESPECIALLY his wife.
You might not agree with my point of view, but i dont think humans are monogamous in nature. |
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