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| kadomony |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
ok, that's what i thought you were referring too, lol
i've always (at least for the most part), have just been myself. sometimes it worked, and lots of fun was had...and other times it didn't, and no fun was had. it's not really about *your* actions or *his/her* actions...its about *both* people's actions. if there's chemistry/spark, then you'll freakin' know it right off the bat. if you feel like you're sitting at the dr's office waiting for a tooth to be pulled, well then, maybe you should cut your losses and move on (unless you're into that sort of thing:nervous: ) .
i think this goes w/ regular friends too...you can't force people to be friends with you....you just have to act like you normally would, and if they clik with you, then great. |
that being said, it's still up to the guy to do all he can to make the experience as enjoyable as possible for both parties. if he's done all he can and the girl still isnt into the whole thing then she's probably got some emotional/mental problems that are best left alone haha |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
I would. Think of all the stamina this girl must have! :tongue2 |
isnt there an anime where the girl farts and thats why she's a virgin |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by kadomony
that being said, it's still up to the guy to do all he can to make the experience as enjoyable as possible for both parties. if he's done all he can and the girl still isnt into the whole thing then she's probably got some emotional/mental problems that are best left alone haha |
since when is it the guys responsibility?
ffs chiks should do that too
imo, i think its hot when the girl makes the first move
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the *right* one that i can click with.
there are some that do that, and it just doesn't ing work at all, lol :(:mad: |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
isnt there an anime where the girl farts and thats why she's a virgin |
I don't know, but it does sound Japanese enough to me :D |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| if a chick makes the first move she's gonna wear tthe pants for the rest of the relationship.. |
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| noikeee |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
ok, that's what i thought you were referring too, lol
i've always (at least for the most part), have just been myself. sometimes it worked, and lots of fun was had...and other times it didn't, and no fun was had. it's not really about *your* actions or *his/her* actions...its about *both* people's actions. if there's chemistry/spark, then you'll freakin' know it right off the bat. if you feel like you're sitting at the dr's office waiting for a tooth to be pulled, well then, maybe you should cut your losses and move on (unless you're into that sort of thing:nervous: ) .
i think this goes w/ regular friends too...you can't force people to be friends with you....you just have to act like you normally would, and if they clik with you, then great. |
Yeah, I agree. Altho leading the whole thing consciously somewhere, instead of letting it flow, can be useful in some occasions - but you can't really force it past a point.
Your friends analogy is spot on. That's what I find so frustrating myself, I hardly ever get things to "click" with girls. |
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| kadomony |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
since when is it the guys responsibility?
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since gender roles were assigned to all sexually reproducing creatures. |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
if a chick makes the first move she's gonna wear tthe pants for the rest of the relationship.. |
nah, not necessarily. |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by noikeee
Your friends analogy is spot on. That's what I find so frustrating myself, I hardly ever get things to "click" with girls. |
sorry :(
is it absolutely necessary to do that at your stage in life right now, however? i mean, do you *have* to be with someone? why not enjoy single life, and hang out w/ your good friends? you know? |
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| wizniz |
guys arent there other forums for this? ;)
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| Lira |
| That's why I like short women: My farts are far more devastating than hers. |
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| Frenchie |
| Why are you afraid of a girl to be able to take charge sometimes? Doesn't mean she's going to play boss. |
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