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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by bas
How could I even do something like that? And if I wanted to yell at Will I'd just do it under my name :p
Ok so now that I've actually read some of this thread, and you're finally sober, what exactly is the problem? You had a buddy and she called things off because you didn't want a relationship? |
things haven't really been "called off"...but we had a conversation like, "we need to stick to 'the rules'" so to speak. i spent the night...no sex, but then we ed in the morning. yesterday i went over and we just ate some food and watched TV and that was it.
but i'm kind of getting the thought that things may be over with as far as the sex goes. which, kind of sucks, but on the other hand the friendship is cool. so yeah.  |
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| nchs09 |
| drug addicts have problems. Having a fist in your ass is a problem. Sounds like you have a minor inconvinience. |
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| Dervish |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
things haven't really been "called off"...but we had a conversation like, "we need to stick to 'the rules'" so to speak. i spent the night...no sex, but then we ed in the morning. yesterday i went over and we just ate some food and watched TV and that was it.
but i'm kind of getting the thought that things may be over with as far as the sex goes. which, kind of sucks, but on the other hand the friendship is cool. so yeah. |
Good lad, least you both know where you are. |
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| bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
things haven't really been "called off"...but we had a conversation like, "we need to stick to 'the rules'" so to speak. i spent the night...no sex, but then we ed in the morning. yesterday i went over and we just ate some food and watched TV and that was it.
but i'm kind of getting the thought that things may be over with as far as the sex goes. which, kind of sucks, but on the other hand the friendship is cool. so yeah. |
So really there's no problem? |
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| Renzo |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
ugh. |
My only piece of advice is to stop using that word. Heterosexual men do not use that word. |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by bas
So really there's no problem? |
i suppose not. but was still a bit frustrating that what i thought i was just normally doing (me being me type of stuff), was coming off as "next step" actions. and this is the 2nd time this has happened.
oh well
| quote: | Originally posted by Renzo
My only piece of advice is to stop using that word. Heterosexual men do not use that word. |
what should i be using then? hgu? |
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| Beat Blog |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
So, i'm a scorpio. and i've always really felt like i fit the description very well.
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lately, however, it seems as if the scorpio is getting the worst of me. i've always been a pretty passionate person, so much so that its just normal for me. example: when i kiss...i really do KISS...its not just some put my tongue down your throat or whatever. in bed, i always like things to last a long time...not just some quickie (at least, not all the time...nooners are fun every once in awhile, but both parties have to be cool w/ it).
but those (amongst other) things are coming off as "ways you express yourself if you want the next step in a relationship"...but to me it doesn't feel that way; and i'm not trying to portray myself as that, but i apparently cannot express that; and no matter what i say, doesn't make a difference to the other person.
i want to be able to avoid this (because its making me feel like ) but at the same time, i can't just pull a 180 and be all stand-off-ish; cause its just not who i am. i feel like i'm watching Vanilla Sky and the other person thinks i'm the cameron diaz character when i really don't feel that way. (seriously, just cause we ed 4 times, does not "mean something")
c0r version: what have you done to keep a "friend w/ benefits" simply just that? and have you ever been in a spot where the other party thought you were taking it "to the next step" when you really weren't? |
Dude, you do have problems.
That was the biggest load of panty-twisting gay crap I've ever read.
What kind of guy cites storylines from Vanilla Sky to illustrate his point? |
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| Beat Blog |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
drug addicts have problems. Having a fist in your ass is a problem. Sounds like you have a minor inconvinience. |
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| Omega_Blue |
| this thread delivers :stongue: |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by Beat Blog
Dude, you do have problems.
That was the biggest load of panty-twisting gay crap I've ever read.
What kind of guy cites storylines from Vanilla Sky to illustrate his point? |
:tongue2
again, i find it funny that people aren't actually anwering the question at hand.
also, wtf more people are reading the whole storyline isntead of the c0r version?:nervous: :nervous: what's wrong w/ you all???
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_Blue
this thread delivers :stongue: |
so does your ass, but you don't see me making a thread about that:rolleyes: :rolleyes:
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| bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
again, i find it funny that people aren't actually anwering the question at hand. |
You never really presented a question. Everyone is going to discuss your particular situation because the thread title is "i've got problems". |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by bas
You never really presented a question. Everyone is going to discuss your particular situation because the thread title is "i've got problems". |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
c0r version: what have you done to keep a "friend w/ benefits" simply just that? and have you ever been in a spot where the other party thought you were taking it "to the next step" when you really weren't? |
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