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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
is it possible to have attachment in the sense that you only have one "friend w/ benefit" ? without it being a relationship?
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clearly you do not understand what a friend with benefits mean |
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| squirrelly |
Let me clue you in. For MOST girls, you ing and making dinner for only ONE girl = "maybe he likes me... I think he likes me. He's just confused when he says he doesn't want a relationship. I can fix that!"
Which is why FWB can't go past a couple of sessions, or you run into "feelings" territory.
It's kind of like, if you ed Theresa. By two, she'd be calling you her boyfriend. |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by Yohan
clearly you do not understand what a friend with benefits mean |
oh god:( |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
and that's what makes you a whore, my good friend Jenny. :)
does sex with someone you know always have to mean "something", however? can't it just be a way to satisfy some of those needs on maslow's hierarchy of needs? (i'm thinking physical needs, not emotional)
is it so much to ask to and then watch Sopranos?
i mean, you're a chick---if a guy s you do you automatically think that he wants you as more than just a benefit?
lol, its funny that you mention alcohol; because the first two times we hung out was around booze. but neither of us were really drunk.
one of the first things i mentioned when we met too was that i was leaving in a few months....so a relationship wasn't possible...was just looking for a cool friend to hang out with. then we ed. and then we ed again. since then its been a mixture of hanging out (we cooked vodka sauce the other night); and ing. except last night i got "the conversation" about "are we still on the same wave-length?" (like cmay mentioned)
admittedly, i do have a little bit of a crush. that sounds so juvienelle, but its just that....like infatuation, not like, "omg i wanna spend the rest of my life with you" type of scenario.
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lol maslow's pyramid |
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| squirrelly |
PS being FWB and making dinner for only ONE person and spending all that time with them = dating.
FWB = ing one person while dating others because others won't put out. Or even if they do, just to get more on the side. No dinners, no "talks". |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
Let me clue you in. For MOST girls, you ing and making dinner for only ONE girl = "maybe he likes me... I think he likes me. He's just confused when he says he doesn't want a relationship. I can fix that!"
Which is why FWB can't go past a couple of sessions, or you run into "feelings" territory.
It's kind of like, if you ed Theresa. By two, she'd be calling you her boyfriend. |
:haha: :haha: :haha: LOL ok that made me laugh, thank you. i needed that.
i get what you mean, tho. i just guess i've been naive.
down in new orleans it was always just about a one-night stand, random (safely, of course). but up here, its like...well...we're both still in town....soo.....i'm hungry...and i want sex....so why not kill two birds w/ one stone?
but i see what you mean.
its just weird that I'M the person that i guess deep-down subconsciously is getting attached. cause usually that doesn't happen.
then again its been awhile since i've had any long-lasting relationship. and even that wasn't really "long-lasting".
ugh.
ps, lol@ mikey mike's comment. of all the ing assclowns on this board, i'd pick him to actually listen to i have to say, then come up with some "witty" remark. bravo, assface, bravo:stongue: :stongue: :stongue: |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
No dinners, no "talks". |
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:gsmile: ?
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by wienerschnitzel
lol maslow's pyramid |
lol at first i almost said "pavlov" and then i was like, "wait a ing second, that was the dude w/ dog":stongue: |
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| squirrelly |
| easy solution. someone else. |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
easy solution. someone else. |
or don't at all, since poor william seems too emo to be going around ing random broads |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by Yohan
or don't at all, since poor william seems too emo to be going around ing random broads |
i wasn't that emo down in new orleans tho. then again it was the mind-set of being in a different city, and never seeing that person again.
different feelings i guess when you're on your own turf.
ugh. i'm a mess:( |
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| squirrelly |
Will, ONE NIGHT STAND & FWB do NOT equal the same thing.
You ed a whore in New Orleans and didn't talk to her again. THAT is a one night stand.
You're ing some girl on occasion but actually dating other people, THAT is a FWB.
You're ing the same girl and not dating anyone else and making her dinner, THAT is dating. |
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