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How often do you face moral dilemmas in your life? (pg. 2)
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by spanglo
What would you do if you promised to keep a secret between you and friend A, but then friend B asks you a direct question regarding the secret that requires a yes or no answer? |
I would say, "I don't feel comfortable answering that." |
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| spanglo |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
I would say, "I don't feel comfortable answering that." |
Did you sleep with friend A? "I don't feel comfortable answering that" is not an acceptable answer. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by spanglo
Did you sleep with friend A? "I don't feel comfortable answering that" is not an acceptable answer. |
Well, to begin with, I would never sleep with someone who would make the sex conditional on never mentioning it.
That seems kind of ridiculous to me. |
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| spanglo |
So you deal with moral dilemmas by avoiding them? That's rich.
Are you going to answer my original question or run away from it?
Friend A could've asked you to keep it a secret after the fact... |
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| Zild |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Well, to begin with, I would never sleep with someone who would make the sex conditional on never mentioning it.
That seems kind of ridiculous to me. |
What come on man! Half the girls I've slept with I've never told anyone about.
One thing I hate about America is leftover remnants of Puritain morality. I wish those s had all sank somewhere in the Atlantic instead of bringing their bull morality with them. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by spanglo
So you deal with moral dilemmas by avoiding them? That's rich.
Are you going to answer my original question or run away from it?
Friend A could've asked you to keep it a secret after the fact... |
They might ask me to do so, but I would not agree to that unless they had a very good reason. I'm trying to imagine one, but the only thing I can come up with is cheating, which I wouldn't have anything to do with in the first place. |
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| spanglo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zild
What come on man! Half the girls I've slept with I've never told anyone about.
One thing I hate about America is leftover remnants of Puritain morality. I wish those s had all sank somewhere in the Atlantic instead of bringing their bull morality with them. |
They shipped the moral minority over on the Mayflower. They bred like rabbits and became the moral majority. |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zild
What come on man! Half the girls I've slept with I've never told anyone about. |
Is that because they made you promise not to, or simply because you didn't want to tell anybody?
For me it would be the latter. |
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| Zild |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Is that because they made you promise not to, or simply because you didn't want to tell anybody?
For me it would be the latter. |
I don't make promises like that, but I am a very secretive person. So unless someone absolutely needs to know they won't. |
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| spanglo |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
They might ask me to do so, but I would not agree to that unless they had a very good reason. I'm trying to imagine one, but the only thing I can come up with is cheating, which I wouldn't have anything to do with in the first place. |
Quit whinning and answer the question!
It was not cheating because you and friend A were not exclusive, and friend A had a great reason to keep it quiet which you agreed. Friend B comes around sometime later and asks if u and friend A slept together. What is your answer? |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zild
I don't make promises like that, but I am a very secretive person. So unless someone absolutely needs to know they won't. |
I'm the same way.
Which means the original question was about a kind of promise that I wouldn't make. |
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| nchs09 |
| I face "dont kill anybody" every day. Sometimes i win, sometimes i fail :( |
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