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| Trancender |
GOD DAMN IT, I'm really pissed...so i decided 2 post it here. OK here's a lil background.
About 2 years ago @ christmas time i started dated this gurl...it lasted about 3 months...i ended up ditching her cuz i finally opened my eyes and realized this gurl wasn't my type + she was dirty + wtv other excuse i could find...she tells me she won't be dating 4 a while...surprisingly 1 week later she is going out with my bestfriend. Everytime this bitch would hug him or kiss she'd look @ me as if she were trying to get me jealous.at the same time she wanted us to stay close friends.. so i was like yeah ok wtv. well 1 year passed and during that year my friend and her broke up about 4 times (always ending up back 2gether). she is the one that broke up with him every time except 4 once...she has a way of sucking him back in. anyways recently they broke up again and supposedly it was final she brought all the he ever gave to his housse and left it outside. Now I think he is planning on gettin back 2gether. This gurl treats him like and couldn't care less about him. Even b 4 they broke up for the final time she would look at me while she kissed him, trying 2 get me jealous or something, Everyone else saw it 2 and told me what they thought. Just b 4 I had a convo with her on MSN...she pops outta no where sayin " I know you don't tell him everything, but it's ok I won't tell him...I know more on you than you think..." i was like wtf! she is really starting to piss me off I'm gonna snap soon.
any advice on how 2 deal with this ...
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| Cyrax |
my adive ...
Ignore the girl ... She IS just after making you jealous ... She's not worth being jealous over ...
About yer best friend ...
talk to him, tel him your side of the story .
If he gets it, good for him.
If he doesn't, he's to dumb to care ...
Sounds rough, i know, ...
but hey, happens
cheerz |
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| KilldaDJ |
| make her jealous, make out in front of her deliberately with some random girl :haha: |
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| TimeportE |
| quote: | Originally posted by KilldaDJ
make her jealous, make out in front of her deliberately with some random girl :haha: |
my sentemence(how do ya type that word) exactly! :D
or just tell her too off (like in, "F*CK OFF B*TCH)! that should work too i think ;) |
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| Fir3start3r |
| Sounds like you're playing along with her plans nicely...:( |
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| Orbax |
| Something like that happened to me once. And then I realized that if my friend would date her for that long and not realize it, he must have character in line with her. So I cut them both off. Im happy now :) I dont know what the hell is going on with either of them, and I dont care. Just cut them off for a while. Your friend might realize hed rather have you as a friend then her as a girlfriend and wise up. |
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| Jayci |
| quote: | Originally posted by Fir3start3r
Sounds like you're playing along with her plans nicely...:( |
exactly. she's doing that to make you jealous and to piss you off, and she's certainly done the latter. the best thing you can do is completely ignore her and pretend she's not even there. after she realizes that her games don't work anymore, she'll stop doing it altogether. when you're with your best friend and her, don't look at her at all. again, PRETEND SHE'S NOT THERE!! hope it works out |
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| Orbax |
| dont ignore her while you are around her. Itll work her up so much shell be giving him a BJ while you are trying to talk to him. She wants attention so shell try as hard as she can. She knows that youre just pretending to ignore her and you really do see her, so she knows shes winning. You have to just cut her off. If shes gonna be there, dont be. I did that for a couple months, and she got the point that if she acts all ed up, shell never see me again. She doesnt really want that probably so shell cool down. Just make it known and spread around that if shes gonna be there you arent. Shell wise up |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
dont ignore her while you are around her. Itll work her up so much shell be giving him a BJ while you are trying to talk to him. She wants attention so shell try as hard as she can. She knows that youre just pretending to ignore her and you really do see her, so she knows shes winning. You have to just cut her off. If shes gonna be there, dont be. I did that for a couple months, and she got the point that if she acts all ed up, shell never see me again. She doesnt really want that probably so shell cool down. Just make it known and spread around that if shes gonna be there you arent. Shell wise up |
that's very good advice.
a similar thing happened to be where my ex started dating my friend a few weeks after we broke up. but then they kind of cut me off because they feel guilty or whatever. that pisses me off because i made a genuine effort to remain friends with them. it's ed up because they lied to me about it for a few months, but in reality they are better for each other than i was with him. (they are still together and living together a year later)
i know that's a bit different than your situation but the best solution really is to get them out of your life, or at least reduce the level of your interaction with them. it sucks to lose friends like that, but what kind of friends are they when they have the capacity to treat you like that? |
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| kid nyce |
talk to your boy, he'll understand, and if he doesnt give him time but dont ditch your boy...as for the girl..cut that bitch off. i hate to say it but its the truth...bros before ho's
and no matter what she can say to you or secrets she knows about you dont worry cuz once u cut it off she wont have the attention she did. my advice..talk to your boy man let him know how you feel and stick by his side..he'll get the drift that she isnt good for him...and obviously not someone you wanna chill around even with your friends...CUT HER OFF~! |
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| Dj Zinni |
yes, either listen to everyone elses advice or there is mine lol ....
First off if she wants to play games, so be it, why should she be the only one to play games though. (I like to play revenge games lol)
get a pocket tape recorder, this could prove very handy in live interactions. What you want to do is set her up, but not make it look to your friend liek you were goin after her, this is a hard thing to do, but it can be done. Get her to talk as much about him as you can, get her to say things like "I only want you back", and "he has a small penis" those usually will do the trick!
or if you arent a fast talker/thinker then go the easy way and use MSN to your advantage, talk to her and do the same as mentioned above, then print it out and give it to him.
Do anything so you can pin he true intentions without a doubt. But the most important thing is not to piss off your friend, so don't say anything that would make him mad (I.E. no hitting on her lol)
or ignore this and take the more moral advance listed above, but this will get you results and be more fun in the process (lol)
l8rz
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| Renegade |
It's quite obvious you and this girl can't get along, so here's the 411.
Tell your friend the situation, how hopeless it is, and that he has to choose between you and this girl. If he chooses the girl then you know where you stand, and you know what sort of a friend he is. If he chooses you, then it doesn't mean you have to tell him to break up with his girlfriend, just that he needs more "power" in the relationship so that she doesn't keep on walking all over him (as she clearly is) and that he can still go out with you and his other friends without having her there.
The other alternative is that he says neither of these two things, in which case you'll have to do the mature thing and bomb her mailbox.
(Just kidding.) |
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