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Stoned Sex (pg. 7)
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| kadomony |
protip: there's actually 2 other lettered spots that women have, that are quite useful :)
also, tantric sex excercises are rly nice if you want to orgasm without jizzing and keep going. multiple male orgasms YES ITS TRUE ZOMG |
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| Q5echo |
| quote: | Originally posted by kadomony
orgasm without jizzing |
impossible |
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| Magadansky |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yup. women who are able to orgasm easily are rare. it's mostly all mental i think. it has to do with us being comfortable not only with our partner but with our own bodies, which is obviously going to be rare given all the insecurities females have in general these days thanks to the media. |
I completely agree. Women's orgasm is probably 90% mental. I dont have much experience but my current gf is a very good example of that. She might not finish even if we go for hours (btw this is so overrated, sex which lasts for more than 1-2 hours becomes boring). I discovered this mental thing when I wanted to make her feel more comfortable by trying to stop her own insecurities about many things. Speech during sex helps a lot about that and small gestures as well. One time she even had an orgasm when I just hugged her in the bed after sex. Just some thoughts. |
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| kadomony |
| quote: | Originally posted by Magadansky
One time she even had an orgasm when I just hugged her in the bed after sex. Just some thoughts. |
do you frequently hug her after sex?
setting a physical anchor after orgasm can cause orgasms just by repeating the touch even when she's not fully ready, as it were. |
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| Darkarbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by kadomony
do you frequently hug her after sex?
setting a physical anchor after orgasm can cause orgasms just by repeating the touch even when she's not fully ready, as it were. |
Hmm I'm going to have to try that. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Magadansky
I completely agree. Women's orgasm is probably 90% mental. I dont have much experience but my current gf is a very good example of that. She might not finish even if we go for hours (btw this is so overrated, sex which lasts for more than 1-2 hours becomes boring). I discovered this mental thing when I wanted to make her feel more comfortable by trying to stop her own insecurities about many things. Speech during sex helps a lot about that and small gestures as well. One time she even had an orgasm when I just hugged her in the bed after sex. Just some thoughts. |
yea i used to be like that. it'd take months before i had my first orgasm with a boyfriend.
the weed helps a lot w/ the mental stuff. i guess it just lets me "let go" and i have the most intense orgasms when i smoke pot.
i have orgasms in my sleep pretty regularly too from raunchy dreams i have lol crazy how powerful the mind is that i can have one without even touching myself or being touched.
having an orgasm is pretty much the same as having anal sex. you have to be ready to have it mentally & physically, otherwise it aint happening lol all those little things you have to do before anal sex (LOTS of foreplay with the ass, lots of carressing and talking, etc....) yea it's the same with regular sex if you want us to relax and have an orgasm.
we need foreplay, we need carressing, we need dirty whispers in the ear....tell us how sexy we look naked and how badly you want us (confidence boost). for me, a good makeout session is all it takes. i love making out. |
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| supersaw abuse |
| quote: | Originally posted by jupiterone
do it while boycotting israel.
do it. it rocks. |
sounds enjoyable |
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
we need foreplay, we need carressing, we need dirty whispers in the ear....tell us how sexy we look naked and how badly you want us (confidence boost). for me, a good makeout session is all it takes. i love making out. |
+ freaking 1
Although, sometimes no foreplay is fantastic ;) |
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| Magadansky |
| quote: | Originally posted by kadomony
do you frequently hug her after sex?
setting a physical anchor after orgasm can cause orgasms just by repeating the touch even when she's not fully ready, as it were. |
Yeah, I do hug her often but this happened only once and we had wild sex just before that but she couldn't finish. Then I hugged her afterward and she did! And well, I will keep hugging her when in bed, I love her! :)
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea i used to be like that. it'd take months before i had my first orgasm with a boyfriend.
the weed helps a lot w/ the mental stuff. i guess it just lets me "let go" and i have the most intense orgasms when i smoke pot.
i have orgasms in my sleep pretty regularly too from raunchy dreams i have lol crazy how powerful the mind is that i can have one without even touching myself or being touched.
having an orgasm is pretty much the same as having anal sex. you have to be ready to have it mentally & physically, otherwise it aint happening lol all those little things you have to do before anal sex (LOTS of foreplay with the ass, lots of carressing and talking, etc....) yea it's the same with regular sex if you want us to relax and have an orgasm.
we need foreplay, we need carressing, we need dirty whispers in the ear....tell us how sexy we look naked and how badly you want us (confidence boost). for me, a good makeout session is all it takes. i love making out. |
She is the same, just that she hates weed now (she smoked long ago and is tired of it). She told me once that she managed to finish three times while dreaming of us having sex.
And foreplay imo is not always lying naked, kissing, licking etc. Sometimes it can even be an eye expression or even total ignorance. A good foreplay will result in good sex for sure. And the dirty whispers do wonders... :p |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
the weed helps a lot w/ the mental stuff. i guess it just lets me "let go" and i have the most intense orgasms when i smoke pot. |
I'd agree with this... and also disagree resoundingly. :stongue:
Personally speaking of course. I tend to be 'in the moment' until I start thinking about where to find the Atma Weapon and who to equip it on - Locke? He's usually a pretty tight choice. Wait, can Shadow use it? , that guy's always in my party, I just know it'd level with him so much more evenly. |
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| ivofivo |
WOW.
I got stoned yesterday...and got a BJ.
I had a BJ done before sober, but getting it done when your high is fantastic. Daym. Ha |
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