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guys who just like to have girls around (pg. 3)
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| Schadenfreude |
see, i just can't. The thought of another penis in the property (even if i am the one who lets go) just is not appealing.
This is why you always make friends that are not in common. Common friends will make you pay. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by EricB.(aka.E)
I try to stay cool with my exes. Try is the word. the last gf and I broke up, she rebounded hard as it was a tough break up for her. I try to call and say hi and check up once every few months but never get an answer. Doesnt bug me too much ill just keep checking up every few months until she finally does answer to say hi. shes just bitter always was a vengeful girl.
Other then her all my other exes i get along with great. |
why do you need gratifcation of this? lol leave the girl alone ffs. you're just trying to fill some selfish void. she's obviously moved on. you should too. |
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| woscar |
Calling a girl over and over again is not going to help her get over you dude. :p
You think you're being cool, but the truth is you're just being cruel. |
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| Schadenfreude |
| getting under/on someone is not the best way to get over someone else, but the most fun way. |
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| Slylee |
i find it hilarious that he even assumes that she's not over him and that's the reason why she doesn't call him.
oh noooo, it couldn't be the other option. that she's actually matured a lot and done some thinking since you left and realizes you did her a favor and she just straight up doesn't really like you any more and has no desire to be your friend lol
*oh right, you can't take rejection. nevermind. |
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| EricB.(aka.E) |
| quote: | Originally posted by Schadenfreude
see, i just can't. The thought of another penis in the property (even if i am the one who lets go) just is not appealing.
This is why you always make friends that are not in common. Common friends will make you pay. |
ya i hear ya when i found out my ex rebounded with the dude she is with i kinda flipped my lid a bit. I will admit it. But the MOMENT this guy heard we broke up he confessed his love lol. like one knee love confession. what a tool. anyways after I thought about it i figured it was best for everyone anyways. She couldnt take the pain of breakin up. Dude gets a chick wayyyy out of his league and I didnt have to put up with the post break up stress she would throw on me.
Right now though Id love to be friends with her. She was truly one of the coolest girls i dated. I always had a kick ass time with her, and she was for a good period of time my best friend. |
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| Schadenfreude |
| everytime you think of him popping the question, just remember that time you popped it in her eye imo.:p |
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| EricB.(aka.E) |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
why do you need gratifcation of this? lol leave the girl alone ffs. you're just trying to fill some selfish void. she's obviously moved on. you should too. |
Ive moved on. Im pretty sure by a year and a half she has too. i havent talked to her in a year hoping everything would simmer down in that time. But i dtaed her for three years i know her well. I know shes not a forgiving person and it takes time with her.
Im not calling her everyday or every week or even every month. I call her on her bday, thanksgiving, and ill give her a shout on christmas.
I dont think its excessive. her parents love me to death, her friends would kill for me and for the first year would call me everytime her and her new bf would break up for a week and beg me to make move to get her backlol. I know Im a **** to you slylee but im not a **** too everyone and am very well liked in my world. |
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| Slylee |
you're just trying to fill your own void, like i said. it has nothing to do with her. you have no respect for her personal space and you are extremely presumptuous. did it ever occur to you that maybe you're one of her "ugh, what was i thinking" exes?:stongue:
take it from a female eric. we are generally weak and if we were still madly in love with a guy and he was being as persistant as you are, we would give in. the fact that she's not just shows she's over you and doesn't really care to have a friendship with you. be a man and take it and respect it and move on and let her be. |
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| ownymcown |
LOL the fact that a GIRL is complaining about this is so funny...
If a guy is a player and/or an , he will maintain contact with ex's, girls he wants to sleep with, and girls who want to sleep with him. I'm not going to get into cheating, but it could happen.
However, it seems every girl I come into contact with has a monstrous amount of guys orbiting her. And these girls love it. They may be going out with me, but that doesn't stop them from keeping all these other guys around, and this includes ex's. They also try to pretend as if every single one of these guys don't want to have sex with them. This is so in annoying, and if every girl didn't do this it would be a dealbreaker for me.
the original poster probably does it too, and you're going to complain? haaaah. |
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| EricB.(aka.E) |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
you're just trying to fill your own void, like i said. it has nothing to do with her. you have no respect for her personal space and you are extremely presumptuous. did it ever occur to you that maybe you're one of her "ugh, what was i thinking" exes?:stongue:
take it from a female eric. we are generally weak and if we were still madly in love with a guy and he was being as persistant as you are, we would give in. the fact that she's not just shows she's over you and doesn't really care to have a friendship with you. be a man and take it and respect it and move on and let her be. |
not every girl has a screw loose like yourself jamie.
i dont have much of a void to fill. I have way more girls in my life right now then i can handle.But with her ya im a persistent cocksucka but for a reason, Im not looking for a full blown friendship. Just looking for good terms so we both dont have to keep going through mutual friends to see how one another is doing. Shes upset with me for somethng i pointed out the last time we talked. |
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| Schadenfreude |
| friendships =/= helpful ejaculations;) |
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