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I need an explanation about passive people. (pg. 4)
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| Mr.Mystery |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
I like how most of you took the topic - and focused on the ordering from McDonald's part. First of all - I do NOT work for McDonalds, that was a metaphor.
Secondly - I'm more curious about the reasoning as to not voice your dislikes when you're in friendship or relationship. I'll spell it out for people like BTG who seem to have a plane flying over their heads at all times. If one of your friends irritates you when they constantly bring in inappropriate stories in front of people (for example when he tells the story about the time you ed that broad in such and such a place the first time meeting your new girlfriend) - why is it so difficult to say "that irritates the out of me - stop being a douche".
Or - If you want some quiet time, but your girlfriend doesn't know that since you sat down on the couch with her and started watching tv - instead of getting annoyed that she can't read your mind and KNOW you want a quiet house, why can you not say "hey, I kinda just want to be alone right now".
THAT is my point.
Where are you all getting this bull about "proving yourself" or "whining about everything"? |
Uh oh, sounds like someone has a truckload of sand in their vagina. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr.Mystery
I know nobody's going to believe this anyway, but...
I am actually an extremely passive person. I've been wondering about the reasons to that myself and the only thing I could come up with was that I simply do not care about (or have opinion on) most things. This actually pisses my fiancée off greatly sometimes when she's trying to get an opinion or a decision out of me.
BUT that doesn't mean I let people walk all over me, I do stand up for myself if someone's trying to me over. |
OH SON. |
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| Ygrene |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
I asked for a 9 piece McNugget and I got yelled at...I am never ordering again! |
Probably a good idea....FATTY! |
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| Mr.Mystery |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
OH SON. |
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| enydo |
I'm passive. I always have been and I don't remember ever making a conscious decision to be that way. I'm aware of it, I can stand up for myself, and I take action towards being a little better about it, but on the whole it's just the kind of person I am.
Whenever I see threads like this I just wonder why. There are people in the world who are just different than you, get over it. It's not about running my mouth all the time to make sure everyone knows how I feel about everything, most of the time I just don't care. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr.Mystery
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| Ania_xox |
| quote: | Originally posted by BTG
wow you're such a bold free spirit.
i never would have thought to actually TELL mcdonalds what i want to eat.
i ing hate people like you.
not people who stick up for themselves...but people who pride themselves on being a whiny little bitch.
there's a time and a place for things and some people just can't take it when it doesn't go their way.
Sometimes the best thing to do is take it. Pick your battles and be patient.
otherwise you just look like a spoiled brat. |
lol
everything you post confirms my original speculation that you are, in fact, a miserable loser who gets angry at random things in the world because you hate your life
you probably have a really bad temper, no relationship with your parents, and beat your girlfriend |
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| Wasa Wasa |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
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| Meat187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ania_xox
everything you post confirms my original speculation that you are, in fact, a miserable loser who gets angry at random things in the world because you hate your life
you probably have a really bad temper, no relationship with your parents, and beat your girlfriend |
OK, who distributed all those psychology books among the cor women?!?! |
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| yukii |
i have no problem being assertive or even bossy.. however, when i get upset, i don't consider it being passive, but i just don't feel like talking. it's probably the LAST thing i want to do is voice myself.
if im upset and say 'IM FINE' it means more, 'GTFO & leave me alone'- i prefer leaving the situation and i enjoy being solitary in the moment. more noise just pisses me off.
however, i know now that doing that doesn't help the situation and instead i need to speak up when im upset, its easy to say and hard to do in the moment when you feel frustration. for those of you who say it's easy, then you probably don't have this problem- but it tends to be very difficult to TRY and speak your mind when your mind is firing up & you already feel frustrated..
nathan -- :mad: |
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| BTG |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ania_xox
lol
everything you post confirms my original speculation that you are, in fact, a miserable loser who gets angry at random things in the world because you hate your life
you probably have a really bad temper, no relationship with your parents, and beat your girlfriend |
almost.
my girlfriend beats me. |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
I don't get it. WHY can you not simply voice your needs and wants? You're always sooo afraid of hurting people's feelings that you put YOUR OWN in jeopardy. Or, your response to not getting what you want is that you shouldn't have to vocalize it, people should just know.
wtf
Do you go to the McDonald's drive through and sit in silence and expect them to know if you want a #1, #6, or #12?!
NO you ing say "HEY I WANT A ING #1!" |
sooo.. you work at mcdonalds? |
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