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How to friends zone? (pg. 8)
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by narcism
brag post |
Sure :p |
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| echosystm |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sushipunk
Seriously, Echosystm, just go on a date with her. Then take her home, and take her to bed. Have a night of sex where you make her do the most depraved sexual acts you can think of. The kind of you wouldn't even tell your friends about, and she certainly wouldn't tell hers. |
Ok Stu. How many times have you done this exactly, and was it before or after you showed her your pictures of birds? :p
You're a good bloke, just don't talk haha. <3 |
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| pkcRAISTLIN |
| quote: | Originally posted by echosystm
Behind the safety of the internet, everyone is also an armchair psychologist. You're kidding yourself if you think this doesn't apply (to some extent) to every single male or female in existence, let alone those on this forum. You're not Hitch, IGK. You're just another COR tard like the rest of us. :haha:
If you knew the full story, you would understand why all my friends are telling me to " her and leave her". However, I'm morally superior to most people (evidently) and I'm not going to upset someone just so I can blow a load.
You guys seriously underestimate the power of being nice as a strategy for pulling chicks too. If you have a few female friends talking highly of you, you are set; they will go out of their way to hook you up and you don't have to do anything. This is far more effective than just LOOKING preselected, because you have a hot girlfriend haha. I don't deny that it helps, Eric, it's just not worth ing someone around. If it was just a mutually casual thing, then it's all good.
More to the point, you're all trying to be colder than you really are, just because you think its cool and you're "treating them mean to keep them keen". This is retarded. Every guy seems to think they need to act cool, until they cross some magical threshold and can start being themselves. The reality is that you're going to have to take that facade to the grave, otherwise your girlfriend is going to wake up one day and wonder who you are and why she's stuck with you. Good luck with that. I'm willing to bet it is the sole cause of most of your failed relationships. :toothless |
if youre such a ing expert, why did you post in the COR for advice? :p |
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| echosystm |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
nice guys finish last.
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Being nice != being "THE nice guy".
"THE nice guy" takes it up the ass from women. That's not the same as not rooting a girl because you don't want to hurt her. |
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| Fledz |
If you're constantly going out with women "as a friend" and doing all their but not getting any, then you're THE nice guy. If you're still actually dating women, just not being an but actually a decent guy, then you're A nice guy and that spreads like wildfire.
Not that I would know though since I live in a remote encampment in Antarctica where there are no women, bar the female penguins. Hey, they have orifices and it's not gay to do a penguin. Shut up, don't judge me. I'll do what I want! |
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| echosystm |
| quote: | Originally posted by Fledz
If you're constantly going out with women "as a friend" and doing all their but not getting any, then you're THE nice guy. If you're still actually dating women, just not being an but actually a decent guy, then you're A nice guy and that spreads like wildfire.
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Exactly. |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by echosystm
Ok Stu. How many times have you done this exactly, and was it before or after you showed her your pictures of birds? :p
You're a good bloke, just don't talk haha. <3 |
Before I show the bird pics. ALWAYS before.
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Of course I'm just ing around. I'm one of these 'nice guys' you're talking about too. But if you post like this in the COR, you're asking for it, IMO :p |
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| Schadenfreude |
It sounds to me like you actually like this girl, but are letting your insecurities make her hypothetical future choices for her.
If you like her go out with her, and let her decide for herself that you are not her type. The way you describe her (specifically the comments that she is way out of your league) make her sound like she is a good catch.
Let's be real, finding a woman is not hard. Finding an educated woman that has a lot going for her, is very attractive and is very interested can be. Until you try, you don't really know what the chemistry will be like, or that she will reject you do you? Everything that you have brought up seems to be in your head, and just because you assume these things does not make it so.
If you really want to not do it, link her to this thread. |
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| Meat187 |
| What the hell is so difficult about this? Make up your mind about what you want to do and then tell the other person. That's actually the correct answer to all relationship questions. |
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| Schadenfreude |
| do you have a gf meat? |
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| Schadenfreude |
:p
i was going to make a euro dance joke, but instead i will play match maker. |
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