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A few questions for homosexual and bisexual TA's (pg. 2)
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| Moongoose |
Lira would be perfectly fine dating a guy, as long as the dude looked like a big tittied japanese idol...
| quote: | | Or six beers and some spirit chasers it could happen to anyone... |
Either women are more susceptible to this or i know way more bisexual females than males. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moongoose
Lira would be perfectly fine dating a guy, as long as the dude looked like a big tittied japanese idol... |
Precisely :stongue:
| quote: | Originally posted by Moongoose
Either women are more susceptible to this or i know way more bisexual females than males. |
Really? I know quite a few gay guys, but just one bisexual girl :conf: |
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| sweetcaroline |
I don't think there is much of a difference between gay/straight romance. I work around people who are mostly gay & my best friend is a gay man and this is what I concluded.
Relationships structure the coupling of people, which doesn't differ much by sexual orientation. Courtship is about the same.
Concepts of top & bottom are common among gay men, but it seems more of bedroom designation than a butch/femme thing. I can't tell if a guy is a top or bottom by how he acts in public. But tops and bottoms like to pair up because they like complementary things sexually, if you know what I mean.
Finding a man to love is equally hard for me & my best friend. He and I have a game where if I meet a gay man, I pass him along to my friend. And if he finds a straight man, he passes to me. Sometimes it's tough to guess who's gay and straight. I've noticed that gay and straight hipsters act and look identical. Too many times have I cozied up to a skinny cutie, who was eyeing the boy next to me.
Keep in mind, you simplify things by talking straight and gay. Sexual orientation and gender identity are fluid things that keep changing and evolving. Intersexed people are recognized as much more common (1% of population I think). Also there is a concept of gender queer, where a person doesn't identify as a particular gender. And pansexuality, which means somebody doesn't identify as liking men or women, but rather is attracted to the individual, regardless of gender.
I could go on & on. I appreciate what I've learned by immersing myself in the gay community. As a result, I've done my own experimenting and I consider myself now mostly straight, but somewhat bent.
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| Moongoose |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Really? I know quite a few gay guys, but just one bisexual girl :conf: |
Oh i know gay guys sure, i was referring to the line by Lilith that having a gay encounter could happen to anyone after enough alcohol has been consumed. In that regard i know more girls that are more than happy to take another girl into the bed, even if they will usually only sleep with guys than guys who would be willing to sleep (or even just kiss) with another guy. |
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| Jake Benson |
| quote: | Originally posted by boris_the_bear
on the subject: where's jake benson? |
Oh I'm here. I only search my name on TA every 6 months now. Times are changing...and couture is in the air you know. n .
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
So, my questions are:
- How polar are homosexual relationships in general? I know there are the so-called "butch and femme" couples, but I remember reading that they're not exactly popular in LGBT circles for being too "heterosexually" oriented. How much homo- is really there in homosexual relationships? Is it anything like a "bromance"?
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I think the fems just attract each other cuz they're so ing annoying. But I think there's a mass amount of diversity with gay couples. When I go out to the gay bars I see old-young combo, black-white combo, then the two tall hot blonde guys with each other, and everything in between (gaysians and circuit men hahaahahah).
There's a lot of fighting in the LGBT community regarding acting butch vs fem. From the butch perpective, the fems are ostracizing gays from the general community by attaching superfluous behaviors to something that doesn't warrant them. From the fem perspective, the butch ones are trying to "act" like they fit in society but are still partially uncomfortable with their true self. I personally hate both because fags act like women no matter how hard they try not to.
I don't get the last part of the question. What do you mean how homo is it? Homos are gay so they have BUTT SEX.
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Do you think there's any striking difference between homosexual relationship and heterosexual ones? As far as I've understood them, and avoiding any possible stereotypes, there's nothing really different about homosexual relationships. Is there? |
Yes, heteros make babies, homo men make STDS, and lesbians make fe-mullets.
I think the BIG difference is gay couples aren't as likely to have children, especially because they can't just "accidentally" have it happen to them. So because of that the "family" dynamic is a bit different. For example, I personally feel a bit empty sometimes because of all the guys I've ed (yup I'm a whore) I never got one pregnant. On the reverse side I'm pretty sure if I were straight I would have had an accidental baby or two from a one night stand with some ladygirl and would have "grown up" by helping raise the child and realized the importance of fatherhood and live for my baby and blah blah blah.
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
"There are no homosexuals, just homosexual acts". Do you (dis)agree? Why? |
This statement is only true if "there are also no heterosexuals, just heterosexual acts." |
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| boris_the_bear |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jake Benson
Oh I'm here. I only search my name on TA every 6 months now. Times are changing...and couture is in the air you know. n . |
aha! now i finally solved the mystery of rare c0r users posting once a year right after they've been referred to :p |
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| FuzzQi |
So the real question is: is there sexual identity or just sexual behaviour?
When Alfred Kinsey did his thang back in the day I'm pretty sure he defined being homo or hetero by what acts had been performed. Having said that, I think even if you have never had sex with anybody, or any kind of intimacy, you can still know who you're attracted to and where you would and wouldn't go. And like sweetcaroline said, that is likely to change somewhat throughout your life. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jake Benson
This statement is only true if "there are also no heterosexuals, just heterosexual acts." |
Actually, this is what I have in mind, and what both (I believe) Sweet Caroline and FuzzQi are talking about. In that question, what I mean to ask is: Do you think your sexuality, or that of others', is really a significant way of defining you?
Judging by Barbina's answer, it is a relevant bit. Lilith, however, seems to claim otherwise. |
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| Lilith |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Judging by Barbina's answer, it is a relevant bit. Lilith, however, seems to claim otherwise. |
I was joking slightly, fact of the matter is that girls are far more comfortable being affectionate to other girls and even to some extent westernised society has no problem with two girls holding hands, hugging or kissing.
It really doesn't take much to take a step further.
Men doing that quickly tend to start punching, rough housing each other to establish some kind of masculine dominance of the situation with their peers and cope with base emotions they (and society) find easier to deal with. |
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| aNYthing |
| quote: | Originally posted by BTG
gays are gay. |
GAYS are s and butt pirates. that's a fact.:o  |
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