Originally posted by jennypie
So then are you actually sad for the loss of her, or for the loss of having someone to manipulate?
You know one thing I actually appreciate about you, Jenny? You're an all-around nurse. You're like that nurse that sees a painful wound and you know that you need to do something about it in order to save the patient, so you just get down and mercilessly burn, stitch, and twist the wound if that's what it takes to help the person.
:)
EricB.
do what will did, become best friends with a dog.
Lunar Phase 7
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Originally posted by Lira
burn
She can cauterize a wound with her flame pube.
Silky Johnson
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Originally posted by Lira
You know one thing I actually appreciate about you, Jenny? You're an all-around nurse. You're like that nurse that sees a painful wound and you know that you need to do something about it in order to save the patient, so you just get down and mercilessly burn, stitch, and twist the wound if that's what it takes to help the person.
:)
Yeah ok Lira, cause that's what I was trying to do.
TranceGiant
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Originally posted by jennypie
So then are you actually sad for the loss of her, or for the loss of having someone to manipulate? It doesn't sound like you've been real with yourself about what this girl means to you in the first place...and when you are, you'll have an easier time moving on.
I was, I am, that's what I decided to break up in the first place. I'm still convinced it was the right thing to do. It was at times asymmetrical, I exploited it, great times were followed by waves of insecurity, I just had to put an end to it, even though she never ever did a single bad thing. I'm the always unsatisfied nutcase here, I know all of this. It's just a bit of a shock situation, this complete loss from one moment to another. A new experience, but it's time to grow up, no doubt.
Lira and others, yeah, there's even someone in sight, but it's a bit complicated by the above mentioned feelings and the fact that it would lead straight to yet another long-distance relationship. Not sure if that's a smart thing to do now.
Lira
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Originally posted by jennypie
Yeah ok Lira, cause that's what I was trying to do.
It wasn't? Then be off with you, I thought you were like those girls from ER! :mad:
*farts*
Lunar Phase 7
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Originally posted by jennypie
Yeah ok Lira, cause that's what I was trying to do.
EricB.
long distance relationship?? dude stop meeting girls on msn or the internet all together. just right now any money says a girl just walked right in front of your house. missed Real opportunity
Silky Johnson
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Originally posted by TranceGiant
I was, I am, that's what I decided to break up in the first place. I'm still convinced it was the right thing to do. It was at times asymmetrical, I exploited it, great times were followed by waves of insecurity, I just had to put an end to it, even though she never ever did a single bad thing. I'm the always unsatisfied nutcase here, I know all of this. It's just a bit of a shock situation, this complete loss from one moment to another. A new experience, but it's time to grow up, no doubt.
Well good on you then. You'll probably learn more from this than you could have any "ideal" relationship...and in the long run you'll end up finding someone else and knowing how to treat them properly - which will ultimately be more satisfying.
Just keep yourself busy like everyone else said - take up a new hobby even, just to remind yourself that you can do things without this girl by your side.
Oh and don't drink, lol.
Lira
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Originally posted by TranceGiant
Lira and others, yeah, there's even someone in sight, but it's a bit complicated by the above mentioned feelings and the fact that it would lead straight to yet another long-distance relationship. Not sure if that's a smart thing to do now.
Good, so you've already anticipated the fact that your relationship is going to fail even though you haven't given it a try yet?
Being smart is overrated, you never know what's going to happen tomorrow!
Chimney
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Originally posted by Lira
Being smart is overrated, you never know what's going to happen tomorrow!