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Sooo.... My friend just came out of the closet... Taaa daaa! (pg. 2)
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
I laughed envisioning this. |
Yeah, I wrote the word "out" one too many times. The redundancy makes a point though: he's really out :p |
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| Sushipunk |
| One of my friends came out when I was 19. He instantly started talking like a queen and having gang bangs :stongue: |
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| Theresa |
A guy I knew for years and years came out when we were 17. I knew all along and used to make jokes about how he was gay long before he announced it.
I have absolutely nothing against gays or lesbians (I have several as good friends)... whatever makes you happy. However, I did have a problem with this guy pretty much changing entirely. He slowly became a person I didn't even know anymore, an entirely different personality, different attitude, etc. Arguably, that was his real personality that he had been hiding, but whatever it was, I didn't like it. It felt like I had lost my friend because he literally became someone else. We ended up losing touch because I no longer had interest in the person he was becoming. It sucked. He later accused me of not wanting to be his friend because he was gay. I flat out told him it was because he wasn't the guy I had been friends with for 10 years. He was some new person that I just didn't relate to.
Anyway, moral of the story - there is a possibility that your friend will change. Just be prepared. |
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| woscar |
| quote: | Originally posted by EddieZilker
Your friend is merely confused by his perfectly natural, heterosexual fantasies involving other men. What he needs is a train of single women surreptitiously introduced to him as "just" friends. He'll eventually snap out of it, but if he ever raises the issue, again, you have five words you must remember:
Ted Haggard is completely heterosexual! |
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| Amduscias |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
I'd say your friend didn't come out of the closet. Rather, he was thrown at full force out of it, flying over Jake Benson's head.
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^ quote worthy :stongue: |
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| Moongoose |
| When one of my closest friends turned out to be gay i didnt bother me at all, actually i went "AWESOME!". Then again said friend turned out to be a hot lesbian so that kind of tilted the scales. Lesbians are just more awesome than gay men :p |
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| Amduscias |
| quote: | Originally posted by aNYthing
Not exactly sure how to react.
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Don't react , that's most likely what your friend expects, moving right along like nothing ever happened. |
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| Fledz |
| If he's good with women, you're going to get soooooooo much interest from them simply for still being friends with him. Not all bad at the end of the day, he's now your perfect wingman. |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by Fledz
If he's good with women, you're going to get soooooooo much interest from them simply for still being friends with him. Not all bad at the end of the day, he's now your perfect wingman. |
LOL, this is true.
But I think aNYthing is married. Unless I'm confusing him with someone else.
I think his wife is a full-on religious nut?
(Sorry for the inelegant phrasing, aNYthing :p) |
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| aNYthing |
| quote: | Originally posted by Fledz
If he's good with women, you're going to get soooooooo much interest from them simply for still being friends with him. Not all bad at the end of the day, he's now your perfect wingman. |
That's the thing... he's not. As a matter of fact, up until the whole thing happened, I'd say he was (technically is) a typical nerd, not a buff and hot gay that chicks flock to "convert".
I mean.. imagine Lira coming out of the closet (no offence)... |
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