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Sooo.... My friend just came out of the closet... Taaa daaa!
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| aNYthing |
Been best friends with the guy for 5 years, didn't even suspect him... only to find out he has a serious and incurable case of teh gay. It doesn't really bother me, I just didn't realize how busted my gaydar is. I was shocked. Still am, kinda.
Not exactly sure how to react. Our friendship has been completely devoid of any kind of sexual talk, almost to the point where I suspected him of being asexual. But not gay.
Really odd... wondering if anyone ever had a similar experience. |
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| Lira |
| Good for him. And remember: If you don't think all your female friends want to be done by you, then why think all your gay friends want to do you? Nothing to care about, just make sure he can cope with any possible bullying/criticism that might ensue - this is what friends are for :) |
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| aNYthing |
oh yeah. and he didn't really come out. I found out from his girlfriend. She busted him and his boy toy in a seriously contorted 69, where one of the participants was worn like a puppet... I'll spare the rest of the gory details, you can probably guess who was the puppet master.
Anyway. and even then, after the initial shock subsided, I still was unphased by it all. In disbelief but without any emotions towards my friend, one way or the other. I wonder if I'm shell-shocked... |
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| igottaknow |
| When are you coming out? :conf: |
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| aNYthing |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
When are you coming out? :conf: |
Sorry to disapoint you IGK, but there's no my in your mouth or ass in your near or not-so-near future. Homey don't play dat, aait? |
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| EddieZilker |
Your friend is merely confused by his perfectly natural, heterosexual fantasies involving other men. What he needs is a train of single women surreptitiously introduced to him as "just" friends. He'll eventually snap out of it, but if he ever raises the issue, again, you have three words you must remember:
Deny, Deny, Deny! |
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| aNYthing |
| quote: | Originally posted by EddieZilker
Your friend is merely confused by his perfectly natural, heterosexual fantasies involving other men. What he needs is a train of single women surreptitiously introduced to him as "just" friends. He'll eventually snap out of it, but if he ever raises the issue, again, you have three words you must remember:
Deny, Deny, Deny! |
I thought you were gonna say "You're so cool"...
as far as the rest of your opus: HUH?:wtf: |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by aNYthing
Sorry to disapoint you IGK, but there's no my in your mouth or ass in your near or not-so-near future. Homey don't play dat, aait? |
not ready yet. ok didn't mean to put you on the spot. |
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| aNYthing |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
not ready yet. ok didn't mean to put you on the spot. |
Projecting, are we? Oh, sorry - did I spoil the surprise? |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by aNYthing
oh yeah. and he didn't really come out. I found out from his girlfriend. She busted him and his boy toy in a seriously contorted 69, where one of the participants was worn like a puppet... I'll spare the rest of the gory details, you can probably guess who was the puppet master.
Anyway. and even then, after the initial shock subsided, I still was unphased by it all. In disbelief but without any emotions towards my friend, one way or the other. I wonder if I'm shell-shocked... |
Isn't it because you're surprised that he cheated on his girlfriend? And, judging by this post, I'd say your friend didn't come out of the closet. Rather, he was thrown at full force out of it, flying over Jake Benson's head.
Poor girl, she's got to be an emotional wreck right now. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
he was thrown out at full force out of it, flying over Jake Benson's head. |
I laughed envisioning this. |
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| D-res |
| quote: | Originally posted by aNYthing
Been best friends with the guy for 5 years, didn't even suspect him... only to find out he has a serious and incurable case of teh gay. It doesn't really bother me, I just didn't realize how busted my gaydar is. I was shocked. Still am, kinda.
Not exactly sure how to react. Our friendship has been completely devoid of any kind of sexual talk, almost to the point where I suspected him of being asexual. But not gay.
Really odd... wondering if anyone ever had a similar experience. |
Had one friend come out of the closet in high school. Mild surprise, but it was all good. Sadly I was one of only a few friends that didn't give him a hard time about it. Took years for a couple of his friends to accept it. |
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