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I'm narked aka the help me choose thread
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| Saka |
when you're angry and annoyed and just cannot be bothered with a situation, how do you deal with it?
Do you lash out?
Do you leave it and put it off?
Do you self harm? (not in a bad way but will you punch a wall or make act wrecklessly and make mistakes)
Do you not get angry?
I don't know which to choose.
Pick one for me |
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| tubularbills |
| Make a thread about it :o |
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| Saka |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
Make a thread about it :o |
Done what next. |
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| tubularbills |
| vent about your problems. but do it as an attack on some other member here on TA. that's what most people do around here. instead of trying to solve their problems, they pick someone else. |
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| LAdazeNYnights |
^damn will just shut this thread down with his wisdom.
i generally leave it and put it off, but i think that's wrong.
all of your options suck.
moar plz. |
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| Sphere City |
lash out
or masturbate it away :clown: |
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| aquila |
| I thought the thread title said naked. |
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| floyd741 |
| quote: | Originally posted by aquila
I thought the thread title said naked. |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by aquila
I thought the thread title said naked. |
Same. Total let down.
I say ban him. |
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| Theresa |
Usually I try to calm myself down and remove myself from whatever is bothering me. This allows me to reflect on the issue in a logical, non-emotionally-charged way. When I am feeling like I have worked the issue out and I have either come up with a solution or a way to cope with it, I come back to it. Sometimes this results in my realizing that I am being unreasonable, and sometimes it makes me realize that I need to clarify something with someone, or let them know my boundaries etc. Then I do whatever it is I need to do, like apologize or tell the person what they did that bothered me. Other times I realize it's just better to let it go.
Anyway, from my experience it's better to wait for the emotions and the adrenaline to subside before reacting. You typically end up doing/saying stupid when you react out of emotion, often stuff you regret or makes the situation worse. This is especially sucky if you are just over-reacting or aren't really understanding the issue at hand. |
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| Lews |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sushipunk
Same. Total let down.
I say ban him. |
Me as well.
I believe a ban is definitely in order. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| Don't get angry and annoyed in the first place. |
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