That Buck Angel clip suddenly reminded me of this song...
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VDub
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Originally posted by yankeeBaby
What, talk about eating chocha? Nah, wont do it, but I'll watch! ;)
You're now on the rocket with Kris...
Prometheus Xex
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Originally posted by yankeeBaby
... so if you are going to be a cross-dresser/cross-gender/transsexual, then you have a responsibility to let the person know what you really are. You always have to give the person a CHOICE in who they fux with. :wtf:
I most definitely agree. By keeping things quiet, the other person is removing your right to choose. In my case if a guy tries to pick me up in a bar, I can clearly see he's a he and choose not to accept. I'll politely decline and get on with the night. If she is a he and kept that to themselves, not thinking on how the encounter has the potential to go bad, then that person is at risk if the other person is not so understandable.
FunkyCrew
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Originally posted by Prometheus Xex
I most definitely agree. By keeping things quiet, the other person is removing your right to choose. In my case if a guy tries to pick me up in a bar, I can clearly see he's a he and choose not to accept. I'll politely decline and get on with the night. If she is a he and kept that to themselves, not thinking on how the encounter has the potential to go bad, then that person is at risk if the other person is not so understandable.
fair enough :)
cammaxwell
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Originally posted by FunkyCrew
well it's your responsibility to check if the person is a male or a female, to avoid nasty surprises later, no? cos otherwise you're just assuming the person is male for sure (or female)
is it really their fault that questiion was never asked and their sex was never clarified?
though, I never found myself in situations when I doubted that a guy, was really a guy
So you're totally cool with a guy "checking" if your a girl or not before he hits on you? So what exactly does he do? Ask you and trust you'll be truthful? Just grab a feel? What?
Sly_Guy
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Originally posted by FunkyCrew
well it's your responsibility to check if the person is a male or a female, to avoid nasty surprises later, no? cos otherwise you're just assuming the person is male for sure (or female)
is it really their fault that questiion was never asked and their sex was never clarified?
though, I never found myself in situations when I doubted that a guy, was really a guy
in Dante's Inferno, the lowest ring of hell is reserved for deceivers...just sayin'.
FunkyCrew
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Originally posted by cammaxwell
So you're totally cool with a guy "checking" if your a girl or not before he hits on you? So what exactly does he do? Ask you and trust you'll be truthful? Just grab a feel? What?
well I'm not trasngendered so I've got nothing to hide
but what would you do if you were a shemale being hit on by a dude? turn around and be like "oh hey btw, I have a dick"?
I'm just throwing open-end questions like that
Sly_Guy
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Originally posted by FunkyCrew
well I'm not trasngendered so I've got nothing to hide
but what would you do if you were a shemale being hit on by a dude? turn around and be like "oh hey btw, I have a dick"?
I'm just throwing open-end questions like that
no, but before making the jump towards intimacy, it might be prudent to say something along the lines of, "I need to tell you something about me you might not know."
FunkyCrew
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Originally posted by Sly_Guy
no, but before making the jump towards intimacy, it might be prudent to say something along the lines of, "I need to tell you something about me you might not know."
which brings me back to page 1 - if it's just a BJ, why is it important what's their plumbing like? :)
VDub
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Originally posted by FunkyCrew
which brings me back to page 1 - if it's just a BJ, why is it important what's their plumbing like? :)
Jesus Kris!!
It's because it's a man and not a woman. That's it! Nothing else...
Now can we just get back to you doing some muff diving??
Lol
FunkyCrew
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Originally posted by VDub
Jesus Kris!!
It's because it's a man and not a woman. That's it! Nothing else...
Now can we just get back to you doing some muff diving??
Lol
but Niiiiiiiiick!
GGM
To answer your question I think the dick part is just a really really big detractor which I'd rather not deal with. If I was ever in a really really desperate situation that required going to new lows, who knows what would go down. It's not so much that I'd say "never get a bj" from them, it's just fairly easy to get better. Like say a girl has 3 nipples or something. It's not that I'd never get with her her, it's just that if I can get much better quality easily then why not? You gotta draw that minimum standards line somewhere and regardless of face and bj quality, the dick definitely puts them below that minimum standard.
Another note is that my personal view too is that bjs are more foreplay that lead to something else. The fact that that something else isn't at all possible is quite a buzzkill in itself, aside from not being into dicks.
