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Distant Lovers? (pg. 4)
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| Nerologic |
| quote: | Originally posted by srussell0018
Don't blame him, he's from Canada. |
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| Lews |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
God, I hate Coldplay :mad: |
A man after my own heart. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lews
A man after my own heart. |
Yeah, I hate him too! |
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| r5a |
| quote: | Originally posted by srussell0018
Don't blame him, he's from Canada. |
dont listen to this retard. just read his views on how simon patterson is more known than diplo as per djmag. HAHAHAHAHAHA
| quote: | Originally posted by Nerologic
because belly button piercing = instant whore.
:rolleyes:
Come on dude, wake up.
Even if it doesn't work, at least we tried and I wont have to keep on wondering...what if?? |
im just ing with you.
the bellybutton was a joke but the actual advice bout the long distance relationship is real. most of the times that doesn't work. if you're relationship is rock solid then you're good to go.
it all depends on the situation and the couple. but since most are and im assuming yours is probably secretly and underlying problems then its going to end in the usual 5 months shes deep dickin some dude behind your back. |
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| hardcore trancer |
| quote: | Originally posted by srussell0018
Don't blame him, he's from Canada. |
Wait a sec here. Arent you the same guy that drives up to "canada" every weekend to get high at Guvernment? :eek: |
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| FuzzQi |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nerologic
I just pulled a quick pic from her fb...shes the one on the left obviously lol
She's a screamer when I'm not being lazy, which is here and there. For the most part she's a moaner, unless I feel the need to go full throttle... |
Was it like that or did you black it out. |
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| BTG |
Now...i havn't read the advice from other people..and 100 miles is more than what me and my girlfriend have...but i will tell you this:
Me and my girlfriend live 75KMs away (about 50 minutes no traffic).
Not unreasonable..but obviously we don't see each other every day.
Let me say that again:
WE don't see eachother EVERY DAY!
let me put it into context:
I DONT HAVE TO DO STUPID EVERY DAY
let me say it differently:
I CAN GET DRUNK AND PLAY VIDEO GAMES WITHOUT BEING BOTHERED BY NONSENSE MANY TIMES A WEEK.
let's put it in a different light:
I CAN DO WHAT I WANT 5 out of 7 DAYS a week.
YEAHHh
and it's been 5 years...so it's pretty good. and i love her very much (in case she reads this). |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by BTG
and i love her very much (in case she reads this). |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by Conway Twitty
but is there any progress with that relationship? whats the point of its not going forward? you might just as well be friends instead then. i always think that couples should move together as fast as possible to find out whether it works or not, and then break up if it doesnt, time and frustration saved. the longer it delays the more painfull it will be. |
I don't mean to take a shot at you at all, but how old are you?
The OP is only a couple years younger than me (according to his TA profile), and at that age I don't think it would be too much of a stretch to assume he has a stable job/career. If the girl in question is roughly his age, then she most likely has a stable job/career too.
Do you really think that moving in "together as fast as possible to find out whether it works or not, and then break up if it doesn't" is the best idea? Either one, or the other, would likely have to give up their position to move to a different city, and then potentially find a new job. Not a great idea at the best of times, let alone with how the economic climate for jobs is faring, in the US right now.
I don't see the distance between them to be much of an issue at all. Like someone pointed out earlier in the thread, if they see each other 2-3 times a week, they'll likely see each other more than busier people that live closer together.
Basically, Nerologic: Give it a go, you might as well. Hope it works out :) |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by Conway Twitty
if the US economy is whats important when finding a girl then its a whole other aspect. if anything distance relationships is if anything not cheap. the most economically is to move together. one apartment, one food budget, no travel, its just alot more practical - and if it doesnt work it would never had. im almost 30 btw. |
Ok, you completely missed my point, good one.
Either party, giving up a stable job to move to a different city, would be a silly thing to do. Forget the economy - Frankly, it would be a silly thing to do anyway, if you weren't sure on how things would go. Right? It could become one job, supporting two people. Not stressful on a relationship at all.
I'm sure this is part of the reason they're doing what they're doing. |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by Conway Twitty
if both are unwilling to move then its a no go imo. it doesnt have a future anyway. stay -friends or holiday lovers or something. |
Yes, you're right. You definitely shouldn't make an effort, at all, in a relationship. |
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| Nerologic |
| quote: | Originally posted by FuzzQi
Was it like that or did you black it out. |
Is this a serious question??
And I already went for it, I'm actually posting this from her place :D
A big thing to me is that we are on the same level mentally (shes some what smart) same level in our life and same level physically...well not so much there since I'm a fatass lol
I put a lot of thought into this, I do a lot of random in my life, but getting into a relationship isn't one of them. |
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