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| AnotherWay83 |
so one my roommates, this chic, recently got a closet and it has yet to be assembled, so all the parts are sitting out in the living room. when it first got here, i offered to help her put it together, and i *think* (the dumbass that i am) i might've said something to the effect that i would even like to build the damn thing for her :nervous: i can't quite recall.
anyway i guess now she thinks that i'm gonna do all the work for her while she just sits back and enjoys the fruits of my labor. (EDIT: she hasn't even bothered to try and put it together. i told her today "hey so if you get stuck trying to put that together let me know i'll help you out"). anyway here's the rub:
a) we're not ing
b) there's not even a remote possibility of us ing in the future, because neither one of us is attracted to the other
c) she s other guys all the time, at least 2 - 3 a month...she could easily ask one of them to help her out
d) i'm moving out of the place at the end of this month
given the above, i was thinking, why the hell- should i even bother? i have other to do too, and besides, if i up putting it together, she's gonna hate me all the more for it :haha:
so far our relationship has always been cordial, so i feel a bit weird abt this whole situation...what would you do? |
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| VDub |
I say tell her to get it done herself...
Cordially of course... |
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| igottaknow |
| don't offer to do things you don't want to do. you could either just to it because you would have wasted the time do something else unimportant. or just procrastinate until you leave. either she will do it herself or get someone else to do it. |
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| srussell0018 |
| Sell it on craigslist, give her the money, and tell her to buy a closet that she doesn't need a man to put together for her. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by AnotherWay83
so one my roommates, this chic, recently got a closet and it has yet to be assembled, so all the parts are sitting out in the living room. when it first got here, i offered to help her put it together |
Then do it ;)
| quote: | Originally posted by AnotherWay83
a) we're not ing |
Irrelevant. |
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| WittyHandle |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Irrelevant. |
Unrealistic. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by WittyHandle
Unrealistic. |
No, it isn't.
If you say you're going to do something and that you'd even enjoy doing it, then do it. He can give her a lame excuse and say he changed his mind, but this is just childish... and it's even more childish to think she's going to hate him for helping her if it turns out to be less than perfect. |
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| Tasty Onions |
| If you said you'd do it, then do it. |
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| srussell0018 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
No, it isn't.
If you say you're going to do something and that you'd even enjoy doing it, then do it. He can give her a lame excuse and say he changed his mind, but this is just childish... and it's even more childish to think she's going to hate him for helping her if it turns out to be less than perfect. |
I think he meant them living together and not ing was unrealistic. :p |
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| igottaknow |
| I'm getting the feeling he would abandon an old lady half through the intersection if he found out she wouldn't him. |
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| WittyHandle |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
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If you say you're going to do something, then do it. Agreed. Saying that sex is totally irrelevant to the situation is still unrealistic. |
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| igottaknow |
| What Lira is saying that unless your Hooker sexual favors don't been to exchanged if you offered to do something. |
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