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Same Sex Cheating....
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| Allied Nations |
Is this ok? What would you do if your girlfriend was making out with other girls without you? What if your boyfriend was doing the same?
If they tell us about it is it ok? |
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| Jarvmeister |
You never post here any more, there must be an explanation behind this post.
Have you caught your girlfriend fisting another girl? Or maybe your girlfriend caught you taking a fist in the corn hole?
Joking aside, if it was behind yours or her back then it's cheating. Plain and simple. |
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| Lira |
No matter the sex, cheating is cheating.
Although I'm testosteronely more inclined to think female-on-female cheating is not as bad as straight cheating. Probably because, as a hopeless optimist, I'd always be hoping I'd take part in the festivities myself :D |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
No matter the sex, cheating is cheating.
Although I'm testosteronely more inclined to think female-on-female cheating is not as bad as straight cheating. Probably because, as a hopeless optimist, I'd always be hoping I'd take part in the festivities myself :D |
Also, it depends on what you consider cheating. two chicks making out at a drunk party is way different than if a chick purposefully looked in the personals, met someone, saw each other for awhile, then got dicked by the other chick's dildo.
premeditation (sp?) in my eyes is much more hurtful/harmful in a cheating sort of way instead of just something that happened on a whim. |
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| prolikewhoa |
i quite agree that anything done behind the significant other's back with another person is cheating, regardless of gender. i always got pissed off when my ex would say "if you hooked up with a girl, i wouldn't care, but if you hooked up with another dude i'd be pissed." i didn't get it then, and i don't get it now. something about how it's only bad if another penis penetrated me? whatever.
btw will, what makes you think two girls making out at a party isn't premeditated? although, i know what you mean. i hate straight girls who do that. they scrape all credibility from bisexual women. |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
i quite agree that anything done behind the significant other's back with another person is cheating, regardless of gender. i always got pissed off when my ex would say "if you hooked up with a girl, i wouldn't care, but if you hooked up with another dude i'd be pissed." i didn't get it then, and i don't get it now. something about how it's only bad if another penis penetrated me? whatever.
btw will, what makes you think two girls making out at a party isn't premeditated? although, i know what you mean. i hate straight girls who do that. they scrape all credibility from bisexual women. |
I think that most guys first initial thought of his girlfriend cheating on him with another girl is the stereotypical soft-core lesbian porn. kissing, maybe some boob touching, and that's about it (maybe a quick glance at some pubes). they don't think about hardcore scissoring, dildos, penetration with strap-ons; all the other stuff that people get in to. where as if his girlfriend is with another dude, all he thinks about is her getting penetrated (i.e. not kissing, chest touching, other softcore stuff...etc...).
Likewise, if a guy's girlfriend does anything with a hot girl, it's deemed ok (even if it's penetration)....because the other girl is pretty. Straight men (mostly) don't like the idea of girls being with another dude because it's a dude and he has a dick and that's gross. I don't know what bisexual men would think...probably that it would be ok if the other person was cute.
Guys (as Lira mentioned above) always gravitate towards that idea of my girlfriend cheats on me with another girl, that's FOUR boobs  and TWO vaginas , and that's just awesome.
I'd like to see a dude's reaction to his girlfriend cheating on him with a really ugly looking lesbian, and the lesbian screwed her with a strapon, ball-gag, and all the other BDSM stuff.
This is not to say that lesbians only partake in this kind of activity, but it's just not what men think about when it involves two chicks. |
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| prolikewhoa |
| guys are so weird... |
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| MeltdownZA |
| Its only ok if your girlfriend invites you to cheat with her. |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
guys are so weird... |
:stongue:
I was just giving the extreme. but it all boils down to for straight men that multiple boobs and vaginas are hot, but any other dick other than his own is gross |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by MeltdownZA
Its only ok if your girlfriend invites you to cheat with her. |
even if the other chick is gross? i mean like Janet Reno gross:wtf: |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
something about how it's only bad if another penis penetrated me? |
No, that's not it.
Tubular and I said, guys are stupidly optimistic by default: So, if a girl he fancies is hooking up with another girl, that means to a testosterone-fuelled creature that we still have a shot at banging both at the same time. That's like a male holy grail :p
It's irrational, don't ask. |
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| MeltdownZA |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
even if the other chick is gross? i mean like Janet Reno gross:wtf: |
Ok that is not ok then :nervous: |
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