Halcyon is right, and we can't blame the girl for everything here: When was the last time you shaved? Are you a daily bather? How long is your nose? How about crooked teeth? No amount of money compensates having a fang up your last sphincter.
WittyHandle
Really? No one yet?
Intellekshual
I dunno, maybe you have a nasty face, or she's afraid you will want to return the favor and sit on hers.
Is she fat? Perhaps she doesn't want to be accused of murder.
Specimen303
Joss Weatherby
Somehow AnotherWay83 makes something as awesome as face sitting seem retarded...
FOR SHAME!
AnotherWay83
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Originally posted by Lira
Halcyon is right, and we can't blame the girl for everything here: When was the last time you shaved? Are you a daily bather? How long is your nose? How about crooked teeth? No amount of money compensates having a fang up your last sphincter.
im actually a pretty normal guy (on the surface anyway :stongue: ) so while i'm no brad pitt, i don't think i'm repulsive or anything like that. i work out 4 - 5 times a week, often take steroids, so i'm in reasonably decent shape. and yes, i shave and smell great.
but most importantly, i pay the price she asks. that alone should be enough!!!!
Halcyon+On+On
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Originally posted by AnotherWay83
but most importantly, i pay the price she asks.
So you clean your room and take out the garbage?
Dykes_on_Jay
Eating a hooker's vag is way worse than white after labour day.
AnotherWay83
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Originally posted by Intellekshual
I dunno, maybe you have a nasty face, or she's afraid you will want to return the favor and sit on hers.
Is she fat? Perhaps she doesn't want to be accused of murder.
i'm not into chix eating my ass out (or doing anything else with it for that matter, lol), so she has nothing to worry about in that regard.
i don't fat chics.
AnotherWay83
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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
So you clean your room and take out the garbage?
i don't get it, you're too smart.
Looney4Clooney
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Originally posted by AnotherWay83
im actually a pretty normal guy (on the surface anyway :stongue: ) so while i'm no brad pitt, i don't think i'm repulsive or anything like that. i work out 4 - 5 times a week, often take steroids, so i'm in reasonably decent shape. and yes, i shave and smell great.
but most importantly, i pay the price she asks. that alone should be enough!!!!
have you ever actually paid for sex ? My gut is telling me you are joking but then all your threads about not getting laid, i suppose my intuition is telling me you are serious.
I have a great escort story.
Had just broken up with my girlfriend, was really drunk and feeling down. Knew nothing about it or how it works. I call the person up, a guy picks up the phone, he arranges a girl and I ask him if he has any coke which he does.
Girl shows up. And as soon as the door opened, my jaw dropped but not in a good way. It wasn't that she was ugly, which she was but she was just damaged emotionally and physically. I didn't want to turn her away because i felt it would be mean and her driver was a 300 pound black guy that would probably rob me if i said no. So i pay the guy 300 + 80 for the coke$. And we sit down and I am repulsed, well not repulsed but just shocked at how miserable this person is and not really a turn on. So I just start talking, I offer her some wine and coke. The fact that i wouldn't her made her nervous and because she said she liked electronic music, I was showing her stuff I did and the music i guess because it was loud made her think i was going to kill her. I guess people normally go straight for the ass.
Anyways, i think after 30 minutes, she had snorted the entire gram and said she wants to leave. And she then asks for a tip which i sort of chuckled. She asked to use the washroom and i couldn't stand her begging for money that i just gave her 50$.
So 300, she snorted the coke i bought + the 50 tip for great conversation ? oh and she stole a vial of pills which were anti biotics lol.
Best ing night ever. But ya, It was rather strange how i had this idea of what it would be and then you see the truth.
This was in montreal. I honestly could not understand how anyone would be turned on after having gone thru this. First off, they are not good looking. I mean i suppose it depends on your standards but ya, the only escorts that you could consider good looking will cost you 500+ an hour. It also made me aware of the industry and I started researching it and how repulsive it is in that it destroys people. Guys find girls that in one way or another find themselves in a desperate situation and they find great ways to take advantage of it.
Strip clubs are just as bad. I worked at a womens shelter to help with resume's. This was after , a few years i suppose all the research made me want to help in some way. And a girl there told me how it worked. You paid to dance. That was your loss leader. And you made money by ing guys in the club. I asked how the does that happen if there are no private booths. Basically, it is dark, and she does a lap dance pulls out your wiener , wraps it up and there you go. Not all of them do the full service thing but she said almost all of them end up doing it. They either quit because they realize there is no money or they start doing what isn't on the menu. And this is pretty much universal. No matter how good looking you are, an escort doesn't want to you. They want your money. I come across countless guys that think they will turn her on. When you 8 people a day, trust me, well not me but the people i've had conversations with that did it , they are never having a good time.
I can't speak for everywhere but the sex industry is really sad and disgusting. It preys on people that are already suffering and just destroys them.
Actually, my research led me to an author , Nelly Arcan, who was an escort and wrote about it. Great author and person who recently committed suicide. She was one of the "top tier" girls and it wasn't glamorous in any way. Definitely recommend all her books.
Anyways, there you go. Worst part. No receipt for the taxes.
AnotherWay83
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Originally posted by Looney4Clooney
have you ever actually paid for sex ? My gut is telling me you are joking but then all your threads about not getting laid, i suppose my intuition is telling me you are serious.
I have a great escort story.
Had just broken up with my girlfriend, was really drunk and feeling down. Knew nothing about it or how it works. I call the person up, a guy picks up the phone, he arranges a girl and I ask him if he has any coke which he does.
Girl shows up. And as soon as the door opened, my jaw dropped but not in a good way. It wasn't that she was ugly, which she was but she was just damaged emotionally and physically. I didn't want to turn her away because i felt it would be mean and her driver was a 300 pound black guy that would probably rob me if i said no. So i pay the guy 300 + 80 for the coke$. And we sit down and I am repulsed, well not repulsed but just shocked at how miserable this person is and not really a turn on. So I just start talking, I offer her some wine and coke. The fact that i wouldn't her made her nervous and because she said she liked electronic music, I was showing her stuff I did and the music i guess because it was loud made her think i was going to kill her. I guess people normally go straight for the ass.
Anyways, i think after 30 minutes, she had snorted the entire gram and said she wants to leave. And she then asks for a tip which i sort of chuckled. She asked to use the washroom and i couldn't stand her begging for money that i just gave her 50$.
So 300, she snorted the coke i bought + the 50 tip for great conversation ? oh and she stole a vial of pills which were anti biotics lol.
Best ing night ever. But ya, It was rather strange how i had this idea of what it would be and then you see the truth.
This was in montreal. I honestly could not understand how anyone would be turned on after having gone thru this. First off, they are not good looking. I mean i suppose it depends on your standards but ya, the only escorts that you could consider good looking will cost you 500+ an hour. It also made me aware of the industry and I started researching it and how repulsive it is in that it destroys people. Guys find girls that in one way or another find themselves in a desperate situation and they find great ways to take advantage of it.
Strip clubs are just as bad. I worked at a womens shelter to help with resume's. This was after , a few years i suppose all the research made me want to help in some way. And a girl there told me how it worked. You paid to dance. That was your loss leader. And you made money by ing guys in the club. I asked how the does that happen if there are no private booths. Basically, it is dark, and she does a lap dance pulls out your wiener , wraps it up and there you go. Not all of them do the full service thing but she said almost all of them end up doing it. They either quit because they realize there is no money or they start doing what isn't on the menu.
I can't speak for everywhere but the sex industry is really sad and disgusting. It preys on people that are already suffering and just destroys them.
Actually, my research led me to an author , Nelly Arcan, who was an escort and wrote about it. Great author and person who recently committed suicide. She was one of the "top tier" girls and it wasn't glamorous in any way. Definitely recommend all her books.
Anyways, there you go. Worst part. No receipt for the taxes.
it's entirely true that there are many women (and even children) who are exploited and have serious mental and emotional damage, but i for one have never ever been with anyone under the age of 21 (i am 29 and started john-ing at 20), and on the odd occasion when i see a girl as out of it as the one you've described, i usually just walk away. if the girl looks too young, i ask for ID and if that looks fake, i walk away. if there's any signs of bruising or cutting, i also usually get turned off and leave.
the strange thing is that it tends to really puzzle them and sometimes even piss them off when you don't wanna any more. every once in a while when the service sucks (she's just not that into it or really bad at faking it), i can't get off and will just stop and say "alright that's enough, i'm going to leave now". sometimes this happens as quickly as 10 minutes into the session. i always imagine that she'll be happy to get a decent chunk of cash for such a small amount (practically zero) of work, but time and time again the girl will snap into action and try her hardest to get me to stay and get comfy, till "completion". i still don't understand it. is it integrity they seek? a sense of "a job well done"? i have no idea.
i'd also say that the experience you've had is in no way, shape or form the norm. it really varies, and just as with so much else in life, you get what you pay for. or sometimes you get incredibly lucky and stumble upon an absolute gem who just doesn't know what she's worth in the market :stongue:
most girls i've met do it simply because it's easy money. i remember in this drop-dead gorgeous girl who charged her clients $3000 in las vegas, but in LA would go for $200 an hour. insane.
then there was the mid 20s accountant who would come into LA every couple weeks from las vegas for some quick cash, put up at a hotel and leave with a couple grand of easy money. she was something, but when she ordered me to "just get [my] nut already!" when i was on her, i knew i'd never call her again.
or the 22 yr old who was visiting new york from down south who went to church every sunday and loved her grandmom but still used foodstamps even though she pulled almost $5K every single night...
perhaps someday i'll write a book. my point is, don't give up after just 1 bad experience...
