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Need help in a smi love problem (pg. 2)
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| skaborough fats |
My advice is be ballsy, and be forward. I'm guessing that your still in high school/secondary school. To be honest (and this isn't to offend anyone) but for most, at that time of life you're lucky if you have half an idea of what is going on in your own head (God knows I got troubles trying to work through a 20-something head). Forget trying to figure her head out.
Ask her out. Don't be pushy. Don't be dramatic or sappy. Don't try to be cute with a card or some other bull ( I say all this as I used to know someone who swoe by this method and got no piece in school). Just go and ask her out.
If she is genuine. If she is down to earth she'll look you in the eye and say yes. If on the other hand she's like most (again no offense meant to anyone or group) she'll try and with you... (but maybe that's just tint from my series of dysfunctional relationships, who knows).
I learned one thing in school. To avoid disaster, embarrassment, pain and anguish always communicate quickly, clearly and honestly...
Good Luck,
Fats |
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| Maaz |
Sorrow comes from desire, remember that.
In your case, you want something that you don't even know if you can have or not, which is a hard-to-help situation. Asking her out is a good idea.
I only found 4 explanations:
1) She found out you fancy her and she doesn't want to break your heart. :(
2) She found out you fancy her and she fancies you as well - maybe she's shy, maybe she's playing some "game" :)
3) She thinks you don't want to talk to her because of that AIM thing... :rolleyes:
4) She's a girl... everytime you think you understand a girl, believe me, you'll find out there's something else you didn't know :D |
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| jdat |
here's advice from the *other* side :
try to gain contact again by small hellos and that kind of stuff
confront her
or forget her
seriously
do something about it or you're never going to win anything
girls are just like that, they need their attention , or you will lose them , and if you don't come back , chances are , she won't make a step in your direction again...
oh and my advice, don't be to upfront either like " I like you " and phrases like that, keep it simply like, " I miss talking to you " " Ich vermisse sprechen zu ihr " ( is that right ? )
take it easy man... you'll win her heart if you can find her attention :p |
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| halo |
Hey jdat, your german sounds a little french to me :p
German 's a little more complicated in grammar: "Ich vermisse es, mit dir zu sprechen.":eyespop: |
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| Dj_ExOn |
| quote: | Originally posted by halo
K, that's the "full on it" way to find out, what's going on.
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Best way, i say! Ask her why the she is ignoring you?!
Halo, that pic that is in ur sig, where did you get it?
I want it! |
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| jdat |
| quote: | Originally posted by halo
Hey jdat, your german sounds a little french to me :p
German 's a little more complicated in grammar: "Ich vermisse es, mit dir zu sprechen.":eyespop: |
oh shut it :whip: :whip: :whip: :whip: :whip: :whip:
can't one do mistakes anymore :p
look who did one and now is asking for our advice on how to win back a girl whom he doesn't even know what he did in the first place to lose her:toothless
:stongue: keep courage with this girl :stongue: |
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| halo |
@jdat: Just wanted to point out that little french accent :toothless :toothless I'm pretty sure my english sounds strange sometimes... not to speak of my french :haha:
@DJ_ExOn: It's from the place I work for an internal presentation. I could send you a mail, if i find the original. |
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| Fire|IcE |
Thanx dudes, for the help
Well i did ask her out she said sure but we are going out this weekend cuz she's going over to her grandma's house this weekend.
I only hope for the best and that maybe we can be gf/bf. But for now we are just going to go and chit chat together with out school or a computer in the way.
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| Dj DoomForce |
Way to go m8!
Best of luck to u! |
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| jdat |
| awwwwwww it's so cute to hear that :p |
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| TiestoInTheMix |
wow, brings tears to my eyes...
someone found love...
and we helped him...
wow...
omg... |
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