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Need help in a smi love problem
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| Fire|IcE |
Well I’ll tell you the story of what happened and maybe you guys can give this dude some help
I met this girl on the first day of school; she seemed pretty normal and gave me the outlook that she was interested in me. We exchanged AIM's and we chatted online on together. At first it was all good and happy. One weekend we tried to catch each other to chat but we kept passing by (she would go online I had to go offline, and vise versa) so we finally got a hold of our selves on the Sunday night and tried to talk which went to crap because I had to help my dad with some furniture moving.
The following week I realized I Really started to like this girl she was amazing in all aspects and every time I looked at the back of her head it would just make me want to melt and kiss her neck take her in my arms and hold her and just kiss the tip of her nose
The only problem was she started to ignore me. I have no ing idea why. She would not talk to me, as much she wouldn't say bye to me as she left to go home she wouldn't want me to walk her to her next class nothing.
I know what the idea is that, "Man she hates you don bother just give up and all go for another" But you see I cant her sweet smell just grabs me and wants me to like her. Also she did seem pretty interested where she would joke around with me, she would strike up conversations she would be attracted in wanting to talk and have conversations with me. But now it's nothing.
So my questions are.
1) What does it all mean?
2) How can I forget her if that’s my way to go?
3) How can I charm her to liking me so that maybe I could ask her out?
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| Endre |
my friend had a similar problem and that girl just found an other guy over 1 night.. :(
anyways, grab her and ask "wtf is going on" or tell her on AIM, on the chatt, ask very nice and gentel: "why this ignorant atitude?"
or something like that, fight fot your love son!
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| KilldaDJ |
ask her 'ok, what have i done wrong now?'
or just ask her out?
the second option doesnt always work, if u really feel for her and she says no, then its really gunna u up bad
i would know, but i still have a chance [booze always works] :) |
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| halo |
A little more info 'bout the girl might help judging the situation.
U got PM
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| halo |
| quote: | Originally posted by KilldaDJ
ask her 'ok, what have i done wrong now?'
or just ask her out?
the second option doesnt always work, if u really feel for her and she says no, then its really gunna u up bad
i would know, but i still have a chance [booze always works] :) |
K, that's the "full on it" way to find out, what's going on.
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| Fire|IcE |
| quote: | Originally posted by halo
A little more info 'bout the girl might help judging the situation.
U got PM
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Well she likes trance a lot, she is not the type that goes after guys and drops them she’s very down to earth and outstanding in looks but she tryst to hide them because she wont take it into considerations that she is hot looking she doesn’t want to believe it she has dated before but only a few guys as I hear not many
And she doesn’t' have a reputation for being a slut or goodie she just her own personal self which is hard to come by these days.
Well anyways. I don't know what else to say
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| halo |
K, then you should try KillaDJ's way.
Just ask her out!
If she says "no", you have a reason to ask why. If not... you know...:D |
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| Essential1 |
talk to her, say "listen, i like u, so what's going on?" don't say it with an attitude, but get that message accross. if she doesn't like u, then just find some other broad.
(ps: I don't mean to sound like a prick, but my gf of almost 2 years broke up with me on monday nite, so i'm kinda pissed off at girls right now and i just need to get laid.) |
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| TiestoInTheMix |
damn it, you got me jealous! how come most of the girls in my school are definitely NOT DOWN TO EARTH???
so just talk to her. come up with something. sexx0r her!!! hhehe;) :D |
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| cycloptor |
| she just might be upset and thinking that you led her on. i mean every time you tried to talk you had to go leave and do something else. explain that this isnt the case and that you really do like her and want to get to know her better. |
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| PeacefulWarrior |
We all want things that we can't have. Right? Just imagine something that you wanted passionately in the past; a driver's license, a car, speakers, etc. At some point, you get those things and that "spark" is no longer there. What I'm trying to say here, is that you were probably too interested in this girl, and she knew this.
Something you can try is to avoid her for at least a week. If she doesn't try to get in touch with you after this week is up, then don't waste your time. The key to making this work is to make her respond somehow and show interest, and "turn the tables" on the situation. So whatever you do, DON'T try to charm her and show more interest, as this will only add to what has already happened. |
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| RazerYokes |
maybe it's not the case but...
while seeking info about you, maybe she heard some (true or false, habitually false) about you.. another reason to ask her directly.. i like the "okay what have i done wrong now?"
~ RazerYokes |
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