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| Vizay |
ok after doing some thinking myself I wanna ask a little question to all you folks out there...
do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone over the net that you haven't met yet? :D
I've been thinking a lot of this myself and yes, I believe you can...although you might get just as disapointed when you met ht person in real life later and vice versa :) |
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| JohnSmith |
no. lust maybe. infatuation maybe. not love.
only my opinion, but that's what you asked for.
that doesn't mean you shouldn't use it though, to pick just who you'd like to meet. but, be careful throwing that word love around, it's pretty powerful, trust me i know. |
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| Az |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vizay
ok after doing some thinking myself I wanna ask a little question to all you folks out there...
do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone over the net that you haven't met yet? :D
I've been thinking a lot of this myself and yes, I believe you can...although you might get just as disapointed when you met ht person in real life later and vice versa :) |
there was some weener on here that was going to america to see some lass he met on the net, don't know whether he did it or not, but I noticed he posted a while back that he'd shag anything that moves :p
I don't think u can fall in love with someone on the internet no, if u know them already, and see them fairly often maybe....but not just on the net, thats just demented :p |
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| uwmadtrance |
| I think if you can fall in love with somebody over a computer it's absolutely pathetic. |
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| TranceSeeker |
No way mate, the net is only a mindgame, yes it can be love, but it's not THE love, it's something what replaces real love.
Real love can only arise when 2 people have real contact with eachother, its the physical contact and the feeling when u'r with the other person that make u fall in love, the combination of being attracted by someone physically and mentally.
Internet is only mentally so u can be very dissapointed when u meet the person in real life (trust me, I experienced this) |
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| Vizay |
well ok not maybe love...love is to strong
but i mean, let's say that the person your'e talking 2 is not lying, shouldn't it be possible then...after all it's almost always the inside you fall in love with and not the looks (at least in my case, looks is just a bonus) ;) |
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| biznology |
not love...youre in love with the internet if anything. what little of a relationship can be based over the net, you could get from almost any random stranger provided there was fact time.
oh, and does anyone think there should be a new forum called: 'Ask Swamper' where people make threads about burgeoning relationship issues where Swamper and other appointed mods can answer in a frank, yet caring manner?!?! thats a great idea|:rolleyes: |
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| Vizay |
| quote: | Originally posted by biznology
not love...youre in love with the internet if anything. what little of a relationship can be based over the net, you could get from almost any random stranger provided there was fact time.
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well I'm not talking about a relationship over the net...I'm talking about the first step or whatever you might call it .....simply the part where you FALL in love
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oh, and does anyone think there should be a new forum called: 'Ask Swamper' where people make threads about burgeoning relationship issues where Swamper and other appointed mods can answer in a frank, yet caring manner?!?! thats a great idea|:rolleyes: |
ohh and I'm actually not asking because of personal reasons, just thought it would be a good topic to discuss about since most of us here come in contact with both the net and the women ;) |
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| Az |
| quote: | Originally posted by uwmadtrance
I think if you can fall in love with somebody over a computer it's absolutely pathetic. |
I love you and your herpes :p |
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| Maaz |
Never doubt the power of love :D
I don't think I'd fall for someone I haven't actually met, but it doesn't mean someone else won't be able to have this... er... unique... experience :p There are people who got married this way, aren't there? I've seen something like that on TV.
Well, if they're happy with their choice, I'm not going to judge them :) |
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| EliPsE |
| Well In my case. I met a girl at skewl and never really got to know her t0o well before I had moved away. After that we talked constantly over the net and such and built a very strong relationship.:D After we graduated we started see'n each other and after a period of time we fell in love and still are.:tongue2 I think it can build ur relationship up but not ever having contact with the person before that aint love. |
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| EliPsE |
| grr pushed wrong button srry about that |
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