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trance as a deciding factor in relationships (pg. 4)
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| PatMcGroin |
| quote: | Originally posted by Porky
would u ever date someone who doesn't like trance?
i've been thinking about this for awhile and i've come to conclude that it's not worth it
music should be a deciding factor in relationships as it defines who you are
arguments? yes? no?
Pork |
my gf and i generally have the same taste in music. bob marley, sublime, red hot chili peppers, nirvana, beatles, etc. and i mean i got my trance and breakbeat, which she isn't really into. but it doesn't matter. we love each other enough that she can put up with some of my music, and i can respect the fact when she doesn't want to hear it. it works. :) |
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| JohnSmith |
i completely agree pat.
and damn, you have some good taste in music!
(bob marley, sublime, red hot chili peppers, nirvana, beatles)
i like all those, and other stuff, hendrix, matthew good band, i mother earth, the doors, and some harder stuff, tool, a perfect circle, NIN, etc.
you have to be open minded. although, i think a line can be drawn. if your potential mate HATES the music, then that will make it really hard. like i have this one friend, he's an eminem fan, and he just hates electronic music, of all kinds, and always needs to point out (no one listens to techno) i don't think i could go out with him if he was a girl even!
but if he was just neutral about it, it would be ok. |
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| drizzt81 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Maaz
| quote: | | i mean yeah it's great to have yer partner love the tunes and go to the parties together, but there's nothing greater than the feeling of being loved by the person you love regardless of his musical preference. |
She's perfect, isn't she? :p |
yes, she is :D |
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| ferrycorstenfan |
I think it's shallow to choose a woman that way, my gf likes some trance and some stuff I wouldn't touch, but she doesnt like hardstyle like i do so it works both ways
My best friend is actually the total opposite to me, into rock music & , but me & her dont argue over music like we do on the forums, so in a way it helps to be different |
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| Prototrance |
| quote: | Originally posted by JohnSmith
what's wrong with hard house?
anyway.. i disagree, me and my girlfriend are totally opposite. she likes to build crafts out of construction paper, cards, scrapbooks and stuff. I like to take a stick and light it on fire and swing it around like a madman. i like to go to raves with thousands of people, she gets uncomfortable around more than 3 or 4 people at once. I am very trusting, she is not.. the list goes on.
our differences compliment each other, we make a good team.
we do agree on music however though, we both LOVE trance. I spin records while she sits on the couch and bounces to the music, or makes crafts in another room of our house.
honestly if she didn't like trance, it would annoy me, but it's no reason not to be with someone, (or to dump them). there was a time in my life when i listened to music she hated, (koRn, limp bizkit, deftones, marilyn manson) we survived, i just listened in private. |
I see what you are saying there. You both like trance - and it compliments your relationship - thats what I was getting at.
And BTW - I dont like hard house coz I think it is an immature sound and it is has no melody. Melody is what moves me. The hard dance music I like is techno and hard trance - because it isnt just a senseless banging of kickdrums with an offbeat bassline (IMO) |
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| TrAnCeAkI |
| Ive tried it it sucks.I wanna go and jump some but he didnt like jumping!! i wanted to go hear djs and he didnt want to!! so we would go seperate all the time!! so imo i think it is a deciding factor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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| Porky |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceGiant
On a side note: speaking of peronality as a whole and music taste...what do u think is true: You listen trance because of your "special" personality..or you discover trance and your personality kinda changes in accordance with this new "lifestyle" ? |
i'd like to think that i listen to trance b/c of my 'special' personality. i think alot of people who listen to trance 'think' in a certain way... but..
i'd have to say the latter. we've all been listening to e b4 we discovered trance (which has only gotten popular in the last 10 yrs or so and is still evolving). it is a lifestyle, there is no other way.. yup i'm addictEd!
:wtf: :wtf: :wtf:
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| Maaz |
| Doesn't it sound a bit arrogant to say that we're special/superior because of our musical taste? We're just different, that's all :p |
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| CheRRy_Trance |
| Hm I would date someone if they didn't like trance, but we'd have to have some similar music taste. Otherwise, I'd just go mad. There is only soo much country you can tolerate before you break the cd :D |
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| TrAnCeAkI |
| Why would you say that we are differnet? i mean trance is music everyone listens to music its just that they all have different taste!! nobady is different because of the music they listen too :stongue: |
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| Shamez214 |
| quote: | Originally posted by RedLunatik
nah its not
but it sure would be nice.... if she's into trance too
and not just bitching for me to take it off everytime i put a track on :happy2:
know what i mean
but either way... i like all types of music except country though
i wonder if im one of the few or only ta who's a rapper :crazy: |
well, im certainly not a rapper. but i do in fact write down lyrics every now and then. helps me get stuff off my chest.
as for the actualy thread... my girlfriend basically HATES trance music. she does tolerate it however. and she loves me for who i am, no matter how much i love music. plus, she respects my love and even comes out to clubs with me and goes crazy to songs that i play int he car all the time. like at pvd she went nuts to ing society... and i love her more than anything in the entire world... we do fight over trance sometimes.. but everyone fights over some things. |
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| Rhythm |
| i don't think that i would be able to either because music is such an important part of my life - especially trance. if someone didn't at least respect my music, it would never work :disbelief |
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