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| DJ E-s*it |
| Hey guys... i know this is my problem but... ihaving a miserble time with my GF, i get mad at her for lil stuff and sometimes i just say dats not even nice..i never used ot be like this , im always the nicest guy to GF and friends.. but now adays i get mad at my friends too. if its the GF then i shoudlnt be acting the same way to my friends rt? and im really short temper now , i road rage all the time.. my friend told me i should go ck out a doctor, she say this might be because i drop too much b4... i dunno wut to do anymore.. i know im differnt but i dont wanna be like this!!...i wanna be my old self... anyone can help or having the same problem?? |
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| Sugarbean |
| see a therapist. you need to figure out where this anger is comming from. its misplaced anger comming from somewhere inside you...sounds corny but thats my 2 cents. |
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| bassaholix |
Dood now this sounds serious.. if you say that this never happened before.. i think it might be like your friend said.. that you been dropping too much.. what have you been taking...
There are other factors @ play here... for example your age.. if you are a teen, then it might be your hormomes going ape and that will settle in time.. i suggest doing excersice...
In the long run.. if you don't they will wear you out big time and make you into an ogre... not good... if you take hold on them now then you wont have that problem.
Another factor is think back and what has made you act this way towards her? do you believe she doesn't like you? or are you plain mad and think you can treat her like that cause she is a woman and you are a man? if that is so .. well my friend, you will soon meet things called FISTS in UR FACE!!! from other people, and believe me this will be a wake up call..
Don't go belittling her.. that won't help you... why is this you ask.. cause once she wakes up and leaves you it won't help you... it will just make you even more mad at the world and life.. which is really not worth it... remember this line very carefully...
"Hate is baggage... life's too short to be pissed off all the time..."
Also take into consideration that if you have take something, make sure you research those aftereffects, iused to drop E, and that made me a totally diff person afterwards... not nice... but yeah if its something like this, then it will wear out in time... just be cool about your situations and don't let them overemphasize your life on something so trivial... for example someone not doing something you asked.. its not the end of the world...
Like i said b4.. try excersice... this will help calm your nerves, thats why many doctors tell people to do sports or physicall activity, its a stress relief... trust me i know...
And an advice b4 you loose that lady of yours... treat her like a princess, and she will help you sort things out... a simple kiss will go a long way, also i suggest you at least apologise to her and tell her how you feel, if your MACHO errr im too manly for that.. hey thats your loss man.. but thats what dating is all about.. its about relating and talking to people but if you don't then you will become a very sour individual with no life and friends, i know that no one in their right state of mind will want that...
If worst comes to worst then seek conselling, and if that sounds like too much, cause you think they gonna lock you up in a padded room with a stray jacket.. don't those people are there to help people who have lost their way, they can help enormously if you let them know whats going on...
It could be something simple, you never know...
Im not a doctor, im not a lawyer, im just a guy trying to help out... |
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| CynepMeH |
Dood - I tottally understand you. Dropping will definitely fuq you up, especially if you OD'd and had a nice paranoid comedown. It can stay with you for years. I know it myself. You also have to look into why you're getting angry. Could it be that you're angry at yourself and lashing out at her? Most of the fights between couples is because of insecurity of some sort. Usually, men's insecurity.
Also, if you think it is because of her and you don't have "that feeling" for her (not just physical, but emotional) - it's best to cut the ropes. Sometimes, anger is your brain's way of dealing with stimuli. If you feel like you're traped in your relationship that would make you angry. I do think you should talk to someone tho (Just like in that Eminem song "Stan") heheeh :toothless:
Anywho.... hope you sort it out. Whatever happens - there's always fish in the sea... Try to spend some time alone with yourself, do some meditation and yoga - discover your inner voice and listen to it. (Sorry for a bit of Obe-wan-kenobeism) :D
g'luck m8 |
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| CynepMeH |
Dood - I tottally understand you. Dropping will definitely fuq you up, especially if you OD'd and had a nice paranoid comedown. It can stay with you for years. I know it myself. You also have to look into why you're getting angry. Could it be that you're angry at yourself and lashing out at her? Most of the fights between couples is because of insecurity of some sort. Usually, men's insecurity.
Also, if you think it is because of her and you don't have "that feeling" for her (not just physical, but emotional) - it's best to cut the ropes. Sometimes, anger is your brain's way of dealing with stimuli. If you feel like you're traped in your relationship that would make you angry. I do think you should talk to someone tho (Just like in that Eminem song "Stan") heheeh :toothless:
Anywho.... hope you sort it out. Whatever happens - there's always fish in the sea... Try to spend some time alone with yourself, do some meditation and yoga - discover your inner voice and listen to it. (Sorry for a bit of Obe-wan-kenobeism) :D
g'luck m8 |
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| sothis |
do you take a lot of e?
i have serious seratonin/dopeamine level problems because i was a semi-heavy e-user for a few years... it causes me to become highly agigated/irritated at the drop of the hat, i get crazy mood swings, anxiety attacks, etc. often times i take it out on other people.
im attempting to fix it with medication, but the damage is done. (i always try to tell people not to do so much e, but they never listen. sigh.)
anyways, so that might be a cause. it hit me out of the blue also, one day i stopped and was like "whoa, why the am i acting like this suddenly?" |
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| cap |
| Drugs can definitely do that... like it can put u into "isolation" and just totally pissed off at everyone |
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| sothis |
| yea.. if you were referring to me, in my case, the drugs caused chemical things to happen in my brain to cause me to act that way, as opposed to me just changing my behavior willingly. |
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| mos man |
sounds like you need to sort yourself out soon dude..
i know its not as powerful but even after smoking weed for long periods of time i feel depressed and anxious.. :( |
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| Muff2K |
| quote: | Originally posted by mos man
sounds like you need to sort yourself out soon dude..
i know its not as powerful but even after smoking weed for long periods of time i feel depressed and anxious.. :( |
d00d. i totally agree...
me smoking up a week straight s me right up, dont wanna talk to anyone, do anything, get real snappy with the gf, parents and friends.
now i do it occasionally. not like before, couldn't remember myself. |
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| butterfly |
| I know this is the complete WRONG solution but if you smoked some pot everyday you would probably calm down a lot. |
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| Busy Child |
| Yea sounds like your problem is coming from your recreational history. Happened to me before. If i were you, Id relax and make a concious effort to not act negatively all the time. Youll appreciate it. |
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