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To all the TA Regulars! lets put faces with names! (pg. 29)
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| Phaze |
| ***shrugs*** I got personal in this thread....bottom line is I think, is that we're all here trying to help the guy...but what suga said, has some merit to it as i know from personal experience, plus, it just may help others out aswell. I think thats the whole reason why she typed all that.:D |
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| Boss |
:) Hehe, i kind a like this foto of me... :) |
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| Boss |
| Damn, that's waaaay to big, how do you make it smaller?? |
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| Phaze |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boss
:) Hehe, i kind a like this foto of me... :) |
is that u?? square head, red x in tha middle of your face?? hehe... |
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| Boss |
| Just don't know how to make it look smaller... can't i use some html tags? without, it's about the size of a screen.. |
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| Phaze |
| you have to go to the original pic and resize it from there, then repost it wherever it is |
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| Boss |
| And what's a normal size for a pic? |
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| Boss |
...That should do it....
Aah... :) but now it's kind a small.... :( |
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| Phaze |
| lol...just keep on playing around with it...process of elimination :D |
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| Sugarbean |
| quote: | Originally posted by totalcarnage
I am not sure he wanted us to...well, to analyze his negativeness towards himself. i think he was just trying to justify why he is hesitant to post his pic....though I know you responded to this because you care for his well-being. Perhaps something like this should have been expressed with more sensativity, especially in a public thread.
Just my opinion...
My love to Sim and Sugah.... |
here we go...
he has kept his troubles in the eyes of all who read the forums...also in the chat...check the threads...all the negativity which he expressed...so really it is called for...if you read ma messege...understood it...you will see its not to bring negative attention, though i did forsee someone postin against my view...but ma messege still remains...and if all these peeps who have talked to him...and theres many...and have tried to help...in private...and its not working...whats next...
and miss priss... that above applies to your mindless statement too...you sure are nieve..way to contridict yourself in the same thread none the less...first you agree...now your telling me what to do and how to be a whatever...
grow up...heh thats all i have to say to you this time...always repeatin maself to you... |
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| theeyesofdarkness |
| hmmm hmmmmmm hmmmm.... damn.. well sim i agree w/ sugar 100% and i prolly shouldnt get into this.. but well one day youll learn that us telling you the truth is better than all the people who lie to you just to lift your spirits.. well hun. you need to try and lift your spirits yourself.. itll last longer.. and if you dont want a public responce well you shouldnt publicly express everything you feel about yourself and your life. sugar is trying to help you and you make that very hard to do. you are looking for the wrong help. well sorry life isnt easy and it isnt people telling us we are great and everything is alright and that were beautiful. life is what we make of it. and if we wake up every morning telling ourselves we are ugly and that our life sucks and that its not worth doing anything about well thats how it becomes. but if we wake up every morning telling ourselves to smile and finding a feature we like about ourselves and going out and trying to fix our problems then thats a start on making things better. and like i said thats a start. thats actually the easy part.. but its the easy part that gets you through the hard parts. the hard part is actually doing something about it. you are not gonna get anywhere with that pessimistic attitude of yours. my life is right now and i dont have to get into it. but its not gonna stay that way cause im going to do something about it.. and if i cant well then im just gonna make the best with what i can do.. and thats a positive attitude. thats something you should try and have. not self pity. you should have strenth. people constantly lifting you up only makes you weak. you dont learn how to stand for yourself. you learn to always rely on others support/opinions. and people are only gonna be there for so long. and then what are you gonna do when they are no longer there. your gonna fall and your gonna fall hard. and you wont know how to stand on your own cause you never had. i have never once seen you have a postive about your situation.. its always.. :(and :/ well as long as you think negative you are gonna get negative results. well ill let you think about that.. hopefully you will take what sugar has said and realize that she was not tearing you down only really trying to help unlike the others who dont know what they are doing is only worse for you.. and well miss p you should realize that too. and you are not helping by treating sim like a baby. and this is prolly what you dont want to hear sim but the truth is rarely what we want to hear. but its the truth so what can you do about it but learn from it |
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| TempesTrip |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Proximus
and the fact is...even though the comment can be very useful, why dose it have to be said in public?
Sugah if you really want to be a good shrink or whatever...learn something about privacy please...no offense..but how would you guys feel if somebody is getting really personal (and this is not necessarily a bad thing)...in a public thread? I know this is what Sim dislikes the most about these posts, and hell...he's right isn't he? but anywayz....why are we talking about Sim as if he's not among us? hey, sim...dropje! haha |
I usually stay out crap like this but i just gotta post something IMO. The post suga made could be very usefull and probably will be to someone on the board who isn't as openly distraught to everyone. Or maybe something that was said in her post will come to them at another time in their life when they are going through a rough time.
No offense or nothing miss but why did you agree with her in the first place. Then come back a good 15 hours later saying how it was wrong. Why not just say it then and there before you agreed with her?
As for the whole privacy issue. She didn't disclose anything that no one on the board or from the chat doesnt' already know about him (Simcut). Simcut openly tells just about anyone about his problems. Maybe not in such detail but simcut lets them know. Simcut has started a thread on it himself. About having all the problems he has been having.
Everyone needs some understanding and a lil help here and there but no offense to anyone, peepz gotta stop candy-coating this crap. It's seriously gone on too long. I mean like do what you want and all, just its not helping anyone espcially sim. And thats who needs it right? I'm sure a lot of people are wishing him the best. Myself included in that. But i'm not about to dish out anymore advice to someone who is unwilling to help themselves..and reject any advice/solution that is given to them..or just give ignore the advice all together and move on to the next problem.
I know i may tick a few people off with this post, and my apologies to those people but what-eva i had something to say so i said it. Tempest |
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