Thinking about getting into a relationship with someone that is around 100 miles away from where I live. Moving for either of us isn't an option. It seems like a good idea, but I have heard so many negative experiences. Anyone have a positive one? lol
Theres a saying in Spanish that goes "Amor de lejos, amor de pendejos," which keeps on popping up in my head over and over making me doubtful. The saying pretty much translate to "long distance love is love for stupids" basically making fun of long distance relationships.
Discuss, please. *Braces for flaming as well*
Halcyon+On+On
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Originally posted by Nerologic
pendejos ... stupids
Hah.
Happymess
Absence makes the heart want to fondle other people.
Don't do it.
Lira
100 miles is not really far :p
Yes, I've had a positive experience. Had a 2.5 year long relationship with someone 20 thousand kilometres away from me. It wasn't nearly as hard as I thought it would be: We had our ups and downs as all couples do, but we survived.
Moral Hazard
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Originally posted by Happymess
Absence makes the heart want to fondle other people.
Don't do it.
something you want to share?
Happymess
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Originally posted by Moral Hazard
something you want to share?
Not particularly. He just couldn't keep his dick in his pants. Nothing new.
Halcyon+On+On
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Originally posted by Lira
Had a 2.5 year long relationship with someone 20 thousand kilometres away from me.
Had?
LAdazeNYnights
100 miles is nothing man. I dated a girl for 2 years, the second year of which we spent 3,000 miles away. That second year was total hell. Never again.
Moral Hazard
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Originally posted by Happymess
Not particularly. He just couldn't keep his dick in his pants. Nothing new.
Well, that's not nearly as entertaining as I was hoping for.
Zyklon_Jay
It always worked out great for me, go for it.
wotyzoid
Send the letter.
gmilf
It depends what you want out of a relationship. If you only want someone to be emotionally close with and you do not care about hanging out and doing activities together then go for it. Also, you have to be very confident in yourself. But, monogamous relationships in general are bull for most people because most people are not comfortable enough with themselves to have anything to contribute to a one on one relationship.
