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Gurlfriends and Clubs. (pg. 4)
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| speedracer_mec |
| :o damn this thread has been hijacked by idiots |
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| Scarface |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
:o damn this thread has been hijacked by idiots
im asking this for a friend of mine
im not middle eastern
and very happy at that
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im happy for you that you are not middle eastern. now go back to asking advise on internet forums. |
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| 'mju:zik |
| quote: | Originally posted by occrider
Hey guess what ... 20/20 said that most kids who go to raves and dance clubs take ecstasy. |
they do!
or they did. raves dont happen as much as they used to. but dont tell me all those candy kids in the massage piles were just stressed out and needed a good rub down. |
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| occrider |
| quote: | Originally posted by 'mju:zik
they do!
or they did. raves dont happen as much as they used to. but dont tell me all those candy kids in the massage piles were just stressed out and needed a good rub down. |
I was implying that it was erroneous to genearlize that kids who go to raves all take drugs and are ed up. Some do yes ... in general NO! |
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| ahlamalek |
i don't mind my gf going alone/with friend anywhere... except clubs. Its not that I don't trust her, I don't trust the hordes of drunk males over there plus she's pretty weak at defending herself :(
actually even when I was with her at the club, she got harassed, and I was only a couple of meters away....:rolleyes:
and ahem yeah, i'm middle eastern, you can say whatever you want, it won't change a thing, I care about her alot, it has nothing to do with backward mentality and such.:rolleyes: |
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| CraveTheRave |
If I didn't trust my girlfriend, she wouldn't be my girlfriend. And I would think and hope she and her friends would look after each other from punkass guys.
BTW, I didn't read much of the other posts after I saw the 'racist' stuff... just answering the initial question. |
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| Sand Leaper |
| I'll have to agree with CraveTheRave and tranceyes. If his gf wants to go the club by herself with her friends, it's not up to him to say that she can or can not go. He's just going to have to trust her that she won't do anything, and if he can't do that, I'd suggest he'd find another gf. |
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| DJ Freestyle |
| Don't worry about it. You have to trust her. If she's going to do something stupid then it just wasn't meant to be. |
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| absorption |
for some reason i quite take offense to this thread.
there are women here too, could have asked an opinion on what we like to do at clubs.
believe me it's all about the music. i love to have my other half there, because as you should know it enhances the experience, and maybe if it doesnt you are with the wrong person.
dont get me wrong, you don't have to be stuck to each other all the time.
i suppose like all things, different strokes for different folks. |
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| Moongoose |
One night i went out with my friend to a club (bussines not pleasure :D) becouse my GF wanted to see a DJ i didnt really like. So anyway we are at that club and to my surprise i find my GF there (100km away from where she was supposed to be) kissing one of her girlfriends. I watched them from the balcony for a few minutes then thought "what the heck" and went down and joined the fun :D Just 2 bad that the meeting my friend had with the manager of the club didnt take long becouse i ahd to go just when things were getting interesting :(
So i say trust your GF and let her have a little fun ;) |
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| DigiNut |
Meh... I don't know. Even if the girl goes for nothing but the music and doesn't let any other guys near her, don't think there isn't still a possibility of her getting hit with rohypnol or something.
Going with friends but without b/f, ok... going alone? As Malek said, no matter how much I trusted a girl, I wouldn't trust the other guys in those clubs. There's gotta be someone to watch out for her. Not WATCH HER, but WATCH OUT FOR HER. Can we see the difference here?
I mean, what if your girl told you that she felt like taking a walk alone around the ghetto part of town at 3 am, would you be OK with that?
I just don't think going to a club all alone is very safe for any girl, unless she's meeting people outside or immediately inside, and no that's not saying they're "weak", it's saying that there are frickin' criminals in there that won't take no for an answer.
And if you explain to your girlfriend that you are concerned about her safety, not her conduct, I would expect her to be OK with that. If she's not, then that might be good reason to suspect an alterior motive for her going.
Oh one last thing... mec, you never really made it clear whether or not you were invited. Did you want to go with and she flat-out refused? Or does she just want to go to a place you're not interested in? |
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