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Gurlfriends and Clubs. (pg. 5)
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| trancEyes22 |
| i understand that aaron...but at the same time, girls can handle themselves and other dick guys w/o being babysat all the time. i think going to a club with friends is a little different than walking alone in an alley at 3 am... |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancEyes22
i understand that aaron...but at the same time, girls can handle themselves and other dick guys w/o being babysat all the time. i think going to a club with friends is a little different than walking alone in an alley at 3 am... |
You're talking about going to a club with friends... I said that was no probs, I was talking about going to a club alone.
Wouldn't you say there's a difference? |
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| trancEyes22 |
| yeah definitely....i would never even go to a club alone, not cuz i'd be scared but just cuz it wouldn't be half as fun! :D |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancEyes22
yeah definitely....i would never even go to a club alone, not cuz i'd be scared but just cuz it wouldn't be half as fun! :D |
Well OK, so we're really in agreement then.
It's silly to stir up if someone wants to just go with her friends (especially, but not only, if those friends have boyfriends too). But I can think of many reasons to be upset over someone wanting to go ALL alone. |
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| LoCa |
I love going to clubs with my bf... he's the one that introduced me to the whole club scene anyways so whenever we're together, we go out together.
When i'm not there he goes out to clubs with his friends and thats fine by me... i could and have gone out to clubs without him, with my own friends but to be honest i didn't have half as good a time as i would have had had i been with him that night.
On the going to a club alone thing... never. I don't know how TrancEyes says she couldnt be scared... when some drunken idiot gropes you and won't let go it's pretty scary IMO. But obviously she's a brave girl and/or that's just never happened to her.:rolleyes:
I wouldn't go to a club alone because, yes, i'm scared. Like i said being groped sucks, and no matter how "happy" or nice people are in a club there's always a few ed up people you have to be careful about.
Just my 2 cents :D |
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| trancEyes22 |
| quote: | Originally posted by LoCa
I don't know how TrancEyes says she couldnt be scared... when some drunken idiot gropes you and won't let go it's pretty scary IMO. But obviously she's a brave girl and/or that's just never happened to her.:rolleyes:
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oh its happened before...even when my bf was right in front of me. i just have enough sense NOT to go to a club alone |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by LoCa
I love going to clubs with my bf... he's the one that introduced me to the whole club scene anyways so whenever we're together, we go out together.
When i'm not there he goes out to clubs with his friends and thats fine by me... i could and have gone out to clubs without him, with my own friends but to be honest i didn't have half as good a time as i would have had had i been with him that night.
On the going to a club alone thing... never. I don't know how TrancEyes says she couldnt be scared... when some drunken idiot gropes you and won't let go it's pretty scary IMO. But obviously she's a brave girl and/or that's just never happened to her.:rolleyes:
I wouldn't go to a club alone because, yes, i'm scared. Like i said being groped sucks, and no matter how "happy" or nice people are in a club there's always a few ed up people you have to be careful about.
Just my 2 cents :D |
Don't worry... on behalf of the TOTAs, we'll protect you. :p |
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| BitchBoyNYC |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Meh... I don't know. Even if the girl goes for nothing but the music and doesn't let any other guys near her, don't think there isn't still a possibility of her getting hit with rohypnol or something.
Going with friends but without b/f, ok... going alone? As Malek said, no matter how much I trusted a girl, I wouldn't trust the other guys in those clubs. There's gotta be someone to watch out for her. Not WATCH HER, but WATCH OUT FOR HER. Can we see the difference here?
I mean, what if your girl told you that she felt like taking a walk alone around the ghetto part of town at 3 am, would you be OK with that?
I just don't think going to a club all alone is very safe for any girl, unless she's meeting people outside or immediately inside, and no that's not saying they're "weak", it's saying that there are frickin' criminals in there that won't take no for an answer.
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And if you explain to your girlfriend that you are concerned about her safety, not her conduct, I would expect her to be OK with that. If she's not, then that might be good reason to suspect an alterior motive for her going.
Oh one last thing... mec, you never really made it clear whether or not you were invited. Did you want to go with and she flat-out refused? Or does she just want to go to a place you're not interested in? |
I agree. There is no problem what-so-ever about a girl or guy going to a club with their friends and not their significant other. My cousin and his girl just had a big fight about this over the weekend. She wanted to go to Mirage, and he didn't. She was going to meet some of her friends there and he had a canip . I think he was wrong. Anyone should be able to go out with their friends if they want to. He said it wasn't her place to be in a club with all of her SINGLE friends(who were there to see if they could meet a guy)w/o him. Maybe there's some validity in how he feels. I don't know, myself, I wouldn't have a problem with it at all.
BTW, I don't think Tranceeyes was intending to sound racist. She just made a statement, which mind you, has some merit. She just shouldn't have made the generalization that all middle eastern men fall into the Muslim extremist category. There's no need to get on her case about it. It's just an innocent mis-wording of a statement. |
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| LoCa |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Don't worry... on behalf of the TOTAs, we'll protect you. :p |
LOL why thank you :D I actually feel quite safe when going out some place where i know there's loads of TOTAs around :) |
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| djeternal |
| whenever my girl would ask me that....id say "ight, imma go hit sum other clubs with the guys then...have fun" Then look for little signs of dishonesty...first thing i did b4 i got together with any girl was learn how to read her...it helps alot. |
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| LiquidX |
| - I'll be honest with you. It all depends on the kind of relationship that you have with your girlfriend. Like for example, my girlfriend would always invite me, or want me to go out with her to wherever her friends would want to go etc etc.. theres no reason for her friends to go out with her to a club really. Its not like they are Tranceaddicts who love the music. They will to either, have fun and call the attention, or go with you and her friends and still have fun... you know what I mean?!! .. atleast my girlfriend would've always want to be with me when going out.. although when doing things more personal or just to hang out with her friends, she would, but outings like clubbing by her self.. na na na na.. I dont buy it, Im a jealous freak, ( not really ) .. but we all know what goes on at clubs, and what girls are exposed to at clubs. She'll have to dress nice, like a hottie, and .. you know the rest. Im now about to split up with my girlfriend though, sad sittuation, but I see that she's not even asking me like before when she goes out with certain group of people ( both guys and girls ).. |
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| Shook1 |
| quote: | Originally posted by ahlamalek
i don't mind my gf going alone/with friend anywhere... except clubs. Its not that I don't trust her, I don't trust the hordes of drunk males over there plus she's pretty weak at defending herself :(
actually even when I was with her at the club, she got harassed, and I was only a couple of meters away....:rolleyes: |
Exactly my point ......I do trust when my girlfriend goes out, but sometimes u can't trust who there going w/ or whoever is gonna be there trying to influence them. Especially when u do have a hot chick.... there are b!tch mutherfu#ckers out there that will disrespect u on purpose and still try & make on move on your girl. A club atmosphere, drinks, & whatever the hell else ...... try me |
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