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Being Single..again..? (pg. 2)
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| DigiNut |
LOL
I thought only 12-year-old girls did the "silent treatment".
Give me her number, I'll call her up and tell her that you're waiting for her to slip up so you can break it off, I wonder how she'd react to that!
Grow up! You're all over the map dude, make up your mind! |
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| Vivid Boy |
| ive only met up one girl off the internet...but ive learned one thing abt it..dont do it again..theyre never who u expect them to be |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
ive only met up one girl off the internet...but ive learned one thing abt it..dont do it again..theyre never who u expect them to be |
did she turn out to be a guy? |
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| speedracer_mec |
nah im 20.
im not immature. If at all shes immature cuz she was chatting today "meeting new friends"...that pissed me off and i hung up on her.
the reason i did this is because we met online and im afraid of "wuts goes around comes around".
this girl can be the sweetest tart on the globe and then she can be a bitch in a devil's dress....Thats a bitch for u my friends.
In all honesty..she has skrewed up my life by giving me herpes. Im sorry people for constantly posting nonsense trash. Im sorry for wasting ur time. But if im more sorry...im sorry for existing on this planet..full of cruel people. you all dont understand me nor my situation. Its tough to pull the cord.
Let me start from the beginning....
i met this gurl on new yrs eve last yr. We were talking and etc. SHe was still with her bf. SHe cheated on him and got with me. I didnt care...because i had this other girl i was with temporarily(not a gf)...eventually by feb we got together and then we broke up because we werent ready. Then apparantly she and I werent too close.
There were no rules...she was seeing other guys now.
I was still talkin to her but not sexually active. Im sure she met guys online and at the clubs...Now when we did get sexually active..she supposely was disease free...she showed me test results from early in the yr. So we have sex and i get herpes....I am completely devastated.
she cries endlessly because she gave it to me and she got it tooo from her possibly one night stand with club guys or online dudes or wutever.
this gurl use to go clubbing all the time but then she and i both decided to get together indefinitely and stay together. She and i become closely attached. She loves me..and she would cry for me and she would plan our wedding and name our kids which is typical of a girl to do. SHe would do everything for me.
SHe gave up her clubbing indefinitely for me so we can develop our relationship stronger. we spent every single day!!!! of the summer together..no guys no clubs to interfere..it was a great time. ALthough two things fuked us up....everytime we had sex i would have an outbreak.
1)now i have to take pills for a full yr (daily suppression)
2)her ex would call her and she saw him...(feelins were still there)
[this goes bak to the other post i made earlier]...she then got rid of him completely...and now its me and her...
we were planing a great holiday season together...but today i saw her chatting online.
she said,"oh so im nnot suppose to be online meeting new friends"?
i said," no i didnt say that...its wutever u want..i doont give a "
we hung up..
i put up this strong stand against her..because im traumatized people.
im scarred and traumatized. We met online, I dont want "wut goes around comes around"
i have gone to a counseler. He said not to focus on the past but on the future...forget her past but look wut she has done now and wut she is goin to do for u in the future. EVer since we have gotten together..its looked good.
but im just pissed because i saw her chatting...im traumatized
sorry for wasting ur time
feedbak..please |
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| Vivid Boy |
| haha no actually i brought a bat with me the first time i went to meet her...lol...i remember thinking that whole drive there being like wghat the are u saying eric its gonna be some dude with a in chainsaw just wait...she invited me to her house while her parents were having a family party..and i was like uhh this is way to in weird.... but i did it anyways...anyways wasnt what i expected and prolly wont dont it again...if i like the girl when i first meet her face to face thats cool....chatting is deceiving |
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| YaleTrance |
dump the bitch, she gave you HERPES for crying out loud! did she tell you she had herpes before you slept together?
that's sad man, i feel sorry for you. but i would get rid of her asap. |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
chatting is deceiving |
yeah, you yourself is probably a nice christian boy with a christian haircut around your parents, never saying bad words and the such (no offence to christians) |
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| Vivid Boy |
| actually i think i am how i am online...just a bit more off a leash... |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
actually i think i am how i am online...just a bit more off a leash... |
well, in that case, i wouldn't want to meet you :D |
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| 'mju:zik |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
You'd prefer that they live in the same building perhaps, or across the street? :p
I can't even begin to tell you how many problems that causes...
LDRs can suck though. It takes an iron will and a level of trust right up there with the proverbial "leap of faith." Not saying they can't work, of course, but be sure that there is something really unique and special about that person before making such a commitment. Don't do it just for the sex, or even the companionship or entertainment.
The good thing about the 'net is that people are usually more open, and you can learn more about them in a shorter time. The bad thing is that sometimes the physical chemistry you imagine online doesn't exist at all face to face. Doesn't sound like you've got much chemistry, Mec... sounds like you're just doing it because it's someone. Not worth it...
Of course, her chatting online doesn't mean much of anything (unless she's doing it excessively with the same guy(s) and planning "meetups"). If your reasoning for breaking up includes her random chatting in any form, then that's just unprovoked jealousy. |
LDRS? Since when are you the relationship expert man? Have you ever been in a friggin relationship? Stop ting yourself |
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| UWM |
Man I'm really confused.
I week ago you were talking about sticking your johnson in her 5-hole, now you want to dump her because she was talking to other people online?
Well, I wouldn't get too attached to some girl who bangs "club guys" and guys she meets online in the first place.
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| DrUg_Tit0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
i dont know how to do it..
i want her to pull the wrong move so i can walk away ...
she hasnt done anything bad..or bakstabbed me..
i dont know know...im not callin her anymore at all.. |
You are attempting to avoid responsibility for the breakup of the relationship by hoping she will be the one that makes the wrong step. Then you will attack her because of that one wrong move and put the blame on her. You aren't the first person that came up with such a tactic, though. Sadly that is how diplomacy, and many interpersonal relationship indeed do function. But unfortunately for you, such a course of action is fruitful only when it's unnoticed by others. Otherwise it only indicates a lack of character and a weakness to accept consequences of your actions. If you already want to break up with her for no reason, the least you can do is to accept the rightfull blame for the demise of your relationship. |
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