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| speedracer_mec |
Damn im 90 miles away from my gurl....i have herpes from her...i feel like ...but im really thinking now of letting her go.
I feel like at this point in my life...."im better off alone"...
she aint cheating on me but she goes online and i saw her chatting today...we met online ya know....pretty scary isnt it...
holidays are coming up...
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| Mrs.Spice |
| thats why you shouldnt meet ppl online. 10 min away is far enough let alone 90 miles. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mrs.Spice
...10 min away is far enough let alone 90 miles. |
You'd prefer that they live in the same building perhaps, or across the street? :p
I can't even begin to tell you how many problems that causes...
LDRs can suck though. It takes an iron will and a level of trust right up there with the proverbial "leap of faith." Not saying they can't work, of course, but be sure that there is something really unique and special about that person before making such a commitment. Don't do it just for the sex, or even the companionship or entertainment.
The good thing about the 'net is that people are usually more open, and you can learn more about them in a shorter time. The bad thing is that sometimes the physical chemistry you imagine online doesn't exist at all face to face. Doesn't sound like you've got much chemistry, Mec... sounds like you're just doing it because it's someone. Not worth it...
Of course, her chatting online doesn't mean much of anything (unless she's doing it excessively with the same guy(s) and planning "meetups"). If your reasoning for breaking up includes her random chatting in any form, then that's just unprovoked jealousy. |
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| speedracer_mec |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
You'd prefer that they live in the same building perhaps, or across the street? :p
I can't even begin to tell you how many problems that causes...
LDRs can suck though. It takes an iron will and a level of trust right up there with the proverbial "leap of faith." Not saying they can't work, of course, but be sure that there is something really unique and special about that person before making such a commitment. Don't do it just for the sex, or even the companionship or entertainment.
The good thing about the 'net is that people are usually more open, and you can learn more about them in a shorter time. The bad thing is that sometimes the physical chemistry you imagine online doesn't exist at all face to face. Doesn't sound like you've got much chemistry, Mec... sounds like you're just doing it because it's someone. Not worth it...
Of course, her chatting online doesn't mean much of anything (unless she's doing it excessively with the same guy(s) and planning "meetups"). If your reasoning for breaking up includes her random chatting in any form, then that's just unprovoked jealousy. |
i love da gurl
i know she loves me..shes cried for me countless of times and we've been through alot...weve been together since may....and been dating since january...
but in one word...shes a bitch
then again all gurls are bitches |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
i love da gurl
i know she loves me..shes cried for me countless of times and we've been through alot...weve been together since may....and been dating since january...
but in one word...shes a bitch
then again all gurls are bitches |
That sure doesn't sound like love to me.
If you can't identify anything you really like about her, then the "love" is probably more like insecurity over the thought of finding another girl or starting a new relationship. |
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| HappyToday |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
i love da gurl
i know she loves me..shes cried for me countless of times and we've been through alot...weve been together since may....and been dating since january...
but in one word...shes a bitch
then again all gurls are bitches |
Are we now.....why is that?:rolleyes: |
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| wienerschnitzel |
i don't mean to be insensitive, but maybe it is due to the fact that i am a girl which therefore makes me a bitch...
this is the same girl that gave you herpes, then started hanging out with her ex, then you get back with her and tell us how much you love her, then you want advice on how to have anal sex with her, and now you are confused with the relationship. I think you need to stop the relationship for the best intrests of both of you. It doesn't sound like love, but dependance and perhaps insecurity. Let her go and get a fresh start. |
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| speedracer_mec |
i dont know how to do it..
i want her to pull the wrong move so i can walk away ...
she hasnt done anything bad..or bakstabbed me..
i dont know know...im not callin her anymore at all.. |
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| j_spot |
HERPES!
ouch.
enjoy that for the rest of yourl life.
wear a jimmy
there is no such thing as safe sex, just safer sex |
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| Stéphanie |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
i dont know how to do it..
i want her to pull the wrong move so i can walk away ...
she hasnt done anything bad..or bakstabbed me..
i dont know know...im not callin her anymore at all.. |
Im sorry, but your beeing very immature...Not calling her anymore, what r u 15?
Plus your waiting for her to do something wrong so u dont have to be the one to break up...
I really think your confused about what a relationship is suppose to be.
I agree with you, u need to be alone till your mature enough to be in a relationship.
Not trying to be mean, but hey! girls are bitches, right:rolleyes: |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
If you can't identify anything you really like about her, then the "love" is probably more like insecurity over the thought of finding another girl or starting a new relationship. |
you bastard, now i'm going to analyze this stuff for the rest of my life!! :whip::whip::whip:
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| UWM |
Man, if some girl started dating me and I slept with her and, consequently, got a case of Herpes, she'd be long gone.
The fact that she wasn't honest enough to tell you that beforehand should be a red flag.
"Whoops! Oh ... yeah ... I forgot to mention that ..," |
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