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| StereoPrincess |
| Has anyone of you cheated or have been cheated on?? What happened with the relationship?? Just going through some hard stuff and just wanna know. Is it possible for love to over come such hurt?? :( |
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| -LiquidSounds- |
| my 2 cents...if you cheated on your girlfriend, well your ed. Your not going to get back with her, and if you do, itll never work out. So move on. If she cheated on you, and you wanna get back with her. Don't, give it up, she'll cheat on you again. It's not worth it. If you dont have enough love and respect for the person to not cheat on them, then you don't need to be with that person anyway |
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| bluE_Neon |
| i wud never cheat on my gf, no excuse. but my gf did cheat on me twice :( i didn't suspect it either, once when i left 2 poland a year ago, after we were goin out a month, she cheated, den again after 4 months...um i stayed with her and dont know en why...guess im 2 ed up myself 2 explain why, i went 9 months, when she cheated, after da next 3 months, i stop doin everything, en, etc. i dont know why i stayed with her after she cheated on me da first time? i found out about it 2 late, when i broke up with her, neitherless its sad when u cheat on ur gf, or when she cheats on, ur like cheating on urself, being with da person 4 so long, and dis 1 time happens out of no reason, coz she was drunk, blabla, stories like dat dont work :( |
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| StereoPrincess |
| what if you have been with the person and you were there first love and they have not experienced anyone else, is that a forgivable thing?? what if you both cheated?? do those erase each other?? |
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| theeyesofdarkness |
i dont cheat and have never been cheated on. i dont see the point. if im thinking of cheating then i must not be satisfied w/ the relationship im in so why be in it? if u cheat the person u are with obviously is not meaning that much to u anymore or u wouldnt do it. cause why would u purposely hurt someone u care so much about.
it is possible to make up after its happened. and the person may be really sorry and never do it again.. but dont u wonder why they really did it in the first place? not the reason they give u.. but the real reason. and are u always gonna be wondering if he/she has done it again? once someone hurts me i wouldnt go setting myself up to be hurt again.
but most people deserve a second chance. and luv can overcome a lot of things. but not quickly.. your mind and your heart needs a lot of time to think through whatever has happened.
i dunno i havent experienced someone cheating on me so i dont really know. but i hope u work through it.. *hugz stereoprincess* hope u feel better. peace!! -layla |
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| ak303 |
Wise words liquidsounds, none of my mates have ever made a cheating thing work out... and nor did neon, so there's the proof.
I haven't cheated/been cheated on, but one weird thing was, i heard this girl was gonna stand me up, so i'm like this i'm not going (it was very reliable source), and later i found out that it was true (i thank source again), she did stand me up (well, we stood each other up) but now she knew i didn't go either and she was going around telling everyone what a bastard i was cause i stood her up... even though she was the one who planned to stand me up, and neither of us went! I mean how the hell can you get stood up if you weren't there yourself? :conf: Anyway, she's been a real bitch to loads of people, and now she's moved to london (good ridance)
So remember guys, even if you know you're gonna be stood up, go! j/k real lesson is some women (and i supose some men, to be fair) are born bitches! |
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| bluE_Neon |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
what if you have been with the person and you were there first love and they have not experienced anyone else, is that a forgivable thing?? what if you both cheated?? do those erase each other?? |
umm i guess if da couple loves each other, den ya i guess they wud 4give each other, but its not always like dat..ppl dat r in luv want 2 cheat on each other, coz they wanna make each other ignorant and jealous, waiten 4 da perfect moment who's gonna start it first, its like a game, and it always ends up in a disaster, some1 ends up hurt, heartache, ed up emotionally...i dont think dat will erase nething, it might go away 4 some time but its always gonna be with ya, no matter wat |
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| bluE_Neon |
| quote: | Originally posted by theeyesofdarkness
but most people deserve a second chance. and luv can overcome a lot of things. but not quickly.. your mind and your heart needs a lot of time to think through whatever has happened.
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dats wat ive most of thought at first layla :( it doesn't work :( |
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| theeyesofdarkness |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
what if you have been with the person and you were there first love and they have not experienced anyone else, is that a forgivable thing?? what if you both cheated?? do those erase each other?? |
two wrongs do not make a right!!!!! its not about being even. its a horrible thing regardless. anything can be forgivable.. but dont just get over something cause ud just rather not think about it than not have the person in your life. thats not a good idea. and getting hurt like that can take months and months of healing time. |
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| Cru5ad3r |
No g/f yet :(
Ello my polish bud :rolleyes:
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by bluE_Neon
i dont think dat will erase nething, it might go away 4 some time but its always gonna be with ya, no matter wat |
that's what i'm afraid of. you know now i can think that i'm over it but what if one day it just comes back and i'm married with a kid or something. |
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| Cru5ad3r |
Hey princess do u wanna talk about whats bothering u, as perhaps it would be easier to assess the situation if we heard it? Up to u :)
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