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| The White Rabbi |
What if i never find love? im only 18
maybe i'll die alone with a big stash of porn... :( |
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| TyBy7996 |
just chill... you will find love, trust me, just go out meet people have fun and that person will come around...
or maybe you are just into too much porno (the unreal thing) ... go look for the real thing... it's not hard, you are just not looking.
good luck bro. |
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| Spad |
| quote: | Originally posted by TyBy7996
or maybe you are just into too much porno (the unreal thing) ... go look for the real thing... it's not hard, you are just not looking.
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hmmm so my mates were right.. there is such a thing as too much porn..
Seriously though mate, don't let it bother you. Go out clubbing and enjoy the music. Then in a years time when your mate breaks up with his girl you can tell him he could have spent a year clubbing with you instead of watching videos with her family every Saturday night :D |
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| Daffer |
| Hey man..long time no see good thing to see you around..and not finding love? c'mon U are just 18 worry if you were 30 or something, no need to worry and besides as a friend told me....It'll arrive on time I learned today that gettin' despetare on taht subject will just leave you to be even more desperate....so keep livin' your life and it will arrive. |
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| The White Rabbi |
cheers for the advice, i just neeed women
daffer, sorry ive been gone, been in gran canaria, brilliant, best time of my life, then went to TRAde in london, opened at 4am and clubbed to steve thomas and malcolm duffy and it finished at 12:30pm and i came back to ireland and went to clubland last ngiht to see johan gielan. class night.
now im catching up on all the latest tunes and downloading joyenergiser and headstrong, escalator, need mauro picottos like this like that. hes a genius. |
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| Eugene |
Spad, very well-said, my friend.
In fact all your posts are quite interesting to read.
Seriously, though, I have the same concerns as White Rabbit, and I just turned 21 :D Didn't want to be the first to bring it up but since White Rabbit did, I'll be the second one :) |
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| Ur Dream Grl |
The white rabbi and Eugene...
i feel so bad for you guys.. but dont make it seem like it is a priority in your life... we all need love and we are all gonna end up with some loving somehow.. you just need to hang in there and let it happen...
you guys seem so sweet and nice so im sure there a lot of girls out there wanting to go out with you... you just havent looked for the right ones...
well that doesnt mean you should go out with the first girl you meet.. cause there is more to love than people really think...you can't just expect love to knock on ur door.. so getting to know people is the first step to a great commitment. it might take a while...but when it happens...in the end it will be so WORTH it.. cause it happened to me.
xoxo Ur Dream Grl |
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| TyBy7996 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ur Dream Grl
The white rabbi and Eugene...
i feel so bad for you guys.. but dont make it seem like it is a priority in your life... we all need love and we are all gonna end up with some loving somehow.. you just need to hang in there and let it happen...
you guys seem so sweet and nice so im sure there a lot of girls out there wanting to go out with you... you just havent looked for the right ones...
well that doesnt mean you should go out with the first girl you meet.. cause there is more to love than people really think...you can't just expect love to knock on ur door.. so getting to know people is the first step to a great commitment. it might take a while...but when it happens...in the end it will be so WORTH it.. cause it happened to me.
xoxo Ur Dream Grl |
AMEM ! faye... |
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| LiquidX |
| WEll, this happens to many of us, I was in that situation not long ago, where all I thinked was looking for somebody, but then I realized that they WILL come to you , without you looking , ofcourse you need to be exposed so they can come to you, like meet new people, go out with friends and meet , thats a rule. For what I, just try to have as much fun, I know we need love, but when its there you wont be able to do many things, so just enjoy. Also, look carefully if you want a serious relationship, one can get whoever, so be quality, and get quality.:cool: ...dont just get anyone. |
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| Omni |
It's always been the gayest advice...but quit looking. You'll never find the girl that you truly love until you stop looking for her.
If you go out looking for girls, don't expect to hold a relationship with them.
It works everytime, I'm telling ya. |
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| YELLOWBEE |
| quote: | Originally posted by The White Rabbi
What if i never find love? im only 18
maybe i'll die alone with a big stash of porn... :( |
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i think the problem must be the starsh of porno... burn all that and go look for the real thing!
cyaaaaa
YBeeeeeeeee |
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| Renegade |
Nah, just send it all to me. :D
Um, anyway, like I said in the other thread a few days ago, why are people so hung up about finding partners? I mean, apart from the whole sex thang? If it comes along then great, but if it doesn't then who gives a ?
One of my best mates has a long term girl friend at the moment (they met at my 17 birthday party) and while he's happy with her, no doubt about that, he's like me in that he just couldn't arsed with all the baggage that comes along with a relationship - the obligation, the needless effort etc, etc. In each of my relationships, sure I've enjoyed the physical side, but the rest of it just really got on my . Every conversation, no matter which way I tried to turn it, always came back to some boring story relating directly to them. "Oh yeah, I did that once...." or "Yeah, reminds me of this one time...". Now I'm not saying that I want to just talk about me - quite the opposite. I don't usually talk about myself unless someone asks me about it, because I know how boring it can be. But I'd still like to talk about something a bit deeper than the time her cat caught fleas, or when her little brother broke his arm, you know what I mean?
Maybe it's just that I've gone out with the wrong girls? Well, maybe. But all my female friends at the moment are pretty much the same..... I think I really need an older woman, someone who I can actually have a decent conversation with, someone who's less likely to play all these mind games and someone who's less likely to be so caught up in themsleves...... but we shall see.....
All I'm saying is, is that if you make an effort to fall in love with someone, you're either going to be disappointed (because you don't find anyone who makes you feel the way you want to feel) or you'll deceive yourself into falling in love with just anyone.
Personally I think that love is a bit of an illusion anyway. Sure there's a thing such as caring for people, but love's just sort of degenerated into this poetic, spiritual thing that really doesn't mean anything these days. Saying "I love you" really means, "I care for you as much as I care for myself". Erm, my point is, is that so long as I find someone who I find attractive, warm and intelligent, I'm marrying them, because it's a tough trifector to accomplish. I'm not looking for "love" in the Hallmark sense, just someone that I can care for and respect. :)
But even then, if I don't find this person, then I'm not just going to go out and date anyone just because there's a chance that I may fall in love with them, because I know how suffocating a relationship can be if your mind and heart aren't into it as much as your hormones are.
So, to cut a long story short ( :rolleyes: ) forget about it Rabbi. Do as I do, enjoy the bachelor life, appreciate what you do have, not what you could have. If you can do this, you'll always be happy, regardless of who does or who doesn't walk through that damn door. :) |
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