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| RenderedDream |
Supose that you see a hot chick and can't resist meeting her. You go meet her and start a chat. But what if she tells you that she has a boyfriend? How would you react..what would you say to her?
I think it's a good question..never happened to me but it might someday.. |
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| KilldaDJ |
| 'oh not again...' |
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| malek |
well can't you chat with a girl without wanting to be her boyfriend?:rolleyes:
how old are you? 12? |
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| Tranc3 |
You say "Where is he? I'mma kill that fcuker!!!"
Works like a charm |
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| Vivid Neo |
| No care bout teh answ0r... hit em, quit em and don't mind there boyfriends unless there 6 feet tall and no kung fu :thepirate |
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| RenderedDream |
| quote: | Originally posted by malek
well can't you chat with a girl without wanting to be her boyfriend?:rolleyes:
how old are you? 12? |
dahh, if she says she has a boyfriend she's maybe trying to cut off the conversation.. |
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| Beat_Chemist |
Well the boyfriend bit usually means feck off. Somegirls will say that even though they dont' have a BF. Althought this would get most guys discouraged you can be one step above the rest. I'd say a good number of those girls are just lying. SO its in your vested interest to continue persuit. I'd bust some like so...you do it doesn't matter to me I just wanted to be your friend, I'm sure your boyfriend lets you have have friends doesn't he? Some like that...whatev's right? Anyways if a girl is out at a nasty ass bar or club chances are she doesn't actually have one and if she does there could be a chance that its not going good at all IE. he's abusive, doesn't pay mind, cheats on her, she may just be the type that can leave someone till they find another.
So, as you can see even though she m |
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| Lira |
My portuguese friend, there's nothing to do, really. It all depends on her attitude, and what kind of girl you're looking for. Countless times I met girls "with boyfriends" who were still very *friendly*, if you know what I mean. Although I wouldn't like to put myself in this situation (of dating someone who's already in a relationship) because it's either pointless or not worth it, in my opinion, it's your choice ("you", in this case stands for "vocês", not "você" ;)).
| quote: | Originally posted by malek
well can't you chat with a girl without wanting to be her boyfriend?:rolleyes: |
I guess he was just stating he approached her because he was interested on her ;)
Besides, you know what hormones are like :D |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by RenderedDream
dahh, if she says she has a boyfriend she's maybe trying to cut off the conversation.. |
Not necessarily. If she's using this to cut off the conversation then:
1) You're acting lame and she wants you to go away
2) She's acting lame and you're better without her anyway |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by RenderedDream
dahh, if she says she has a boyfriend she's maybe trying to cut off the conversation.. |
Depends on the context of her saying it. If you were talking for 10 minutes already and she just happened to work him into the conversation, then you might as well take it face value - she's being friendly and polite to you, but she's got a boyfriend, therefore don't start hitting on her.
If she says it out of the blue, like within 10 seconds of you striking up conversation, then yes, she's probably trying to cut you off. So you can either say you've got a girlfriend and try to continue, or come up with a witty retort and walk away. Just don't be an idiot about it. |
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| Beat_Chemist |
Well the boyfriend bit usually means feck off. Somegirls will say that even though they dont' have a BF. Althought this would get most guys discouraged you can be one step above the rest. I'd say a good number of those girls are just lying. SO its in your vested interest to continue persuit. I'd bust some like so...you do it doesn't matter to me I just wanted to be your friend, I'm sure your boyfriend lets you have have friends doesn't he? Some like that...whatev's right? Anyways if a girl is out at a nasty ass bar or club chances are she doesn't actually have one and if she does there could be a chance that its not going good at all IE. he's abusive, doesn't pay mind, cheats on her, she may just be the type that can leave someone till they find another.
So, as you can see even though she may say I have a BF s still in your favor. Where you take her from here is whats important. You have to sell yourself, EI make her laugh, create mystery, let her know what your high points are. Cuz people are very judgemental and a lot of girls want to think they have you figured out. Women intuition of something.
Also, rings on the wedding finger, although they usually indicate marriage or a steady relationship. Somegirls wear them to ward off weak guys and to challenge the alpha males. FOr a fine ass hottie who's been clubbing or bar hopping for a while being hit on 35+ a night, althought at first can be flattering, gets old. Sometimes the solution is the ring, this wards off all the weak males as only the gutsy ones, or the ones too drunk to notice, will be the ones hitting on her. Some guys really do know that there's still a chance even though she's taken as I've explained. In this game its knowing what your competition knows. Your competition is those guys that pull ass 10 times a night. Once you have the rules figured out you can win at anything IE, dating, chess, backgamon, poker. |
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| trancebrat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Neo
No care bout teh answ0r... hit em, quit em and don't mind there boyfriends unless there 6 feet tall and no kung fu :thepirate |
Vivid Boy...is this you? ;) |
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