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Oral Sex Guide for you guys out there
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| susanna |
I sent this to all my girlfriends to send to their guys, and from sum of the posts and pictures I see in here i think some of you have this on your mind all the time anyways, at least know how to do it!
http://www.clubvibes.com/magazine/article.asp?id=2052
As women we are taught by society and by our parents (not in all circumstances) that sex is taboo. It’s dirty, something we should not talk about, we should not discuss it, we should not masturbate and figure our own bodies out and most importantly we should not express to our partners on how WE want it. But how do we learn? One avenue is by having more than one partner in a lifetime. But what society then tells us, is that women are “Sluts”. How are we to learn and grow if we can’t explore other partners?
There is a psychological barrier in many women that does not allow them to enjoy sex to the fullest. Once we, as women, let our minds and bodies rid of this stigma, we can let ourselves be free to express what we want and how we want it. Once this is overcome, any consensual sexual act can be fulfilling. So enough with the “fluff”, lets get down to business on performing cunnilingus.
Giving Oral Sex to a Woman:
Once again, there is no scientific formula for giving good head. Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth to stimulate the female genitals or what is commonly referred to as the vulva. This can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina, and most often involves direct stimulation of the clitoris. Some women find cunnilingus to be the most satisfying sexual act. In fact, a great number of women report that oral sex is the only way they can achieve orgasm. Below is a glossary of terms used in this article:
Vulva - The external parts of the female genital organs.
Clitoris - Small erectile organ at the anterior part of the vulva.
Labia Majora - The outer fatty folds that protect the opening of the vagina and urethra.
Labia Minora - The inner highly vascular largely connective-tissue folds of the vulva.
Hood – The small tissue that covers the clitoris when not stimulated.
Vagina - A canal in a female that leads from the uterus to the external orifice of the genital canal
Mons - The mound of skin which is found on top of the pubic bone above the vaginal opening
Take things slow at first, don’t jump right to the clitoris as it may not be aroused to the fullest yet. Many women prefer to lie on their back so they can spread their legs as far apart as possible, allowing their partner complete access. Begin by kissing and licking her stomach and thighs, then the area around her clitoris. Build her arousal level slowly with your mouth. Once you know she’s aroused (i.e. if she’s told you or motioned so) you can then move to the clitoris.
Many women enjoy a massage of the mons. Be careful not to press too hard or make too wide a circular movement. As you manually stimulate the mons, you can move your mouth to the vulva. When stimulating her vulva with your tongue, you may wish to concentrate solely on the clitoris after some stimulation of the labia or you may wish to lick the surrounding areas. Some women need constant clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm so ask your partner what she would have you do. Try stimulating one side of the clitoris and then the other, always from underneath. Ask her for feedback so that you learn what she likes best. Many women say the secret to good cunnilingus is not to pursue one stroke to long. Don’t leave your tongue in one spot and don’t apply to much pressure, this only leads to irritation and not stimulation in most women.
The way that you use your tongue is important. Provide different textures by altering the natural flex of your tongue. When your tongue hangs limp and flat, it provides a soft caress. When your tongue is flexed and rigid it provides more direct and firm stimulation. Try some of each and determine which your partner prefers. Some women will want rapid motions of continuous licking while others prefer long, slow caresses. Once you have tantalized her into total helplessness, try covering the clitoris with your mouth, sucking it gently (not hard), and flicking your tongue hard across it at the same time. On the other hand feather light twirling of the tongue on the top of the clitoris itself can be fabulous! So too can flicking the tip of the tongue from side to side. Another popular motion is the “Figure 8”. Begin at the clitoris and work down in a figure 8 fashion using your tongue slowly and softly at first, increasing in intensity if requested by your partner. :crazy: |
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| Floorfiller |
| ok cool...i'll check it out...now us guys will have to put together a how to suck dick thread ;):stongue: |
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| sandstorm03 |
| since your a pro, why dont you start? |
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| [N]ûk|êû[Z] |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
ok cool...i'll check it out...now us guys will have to put together a how to suck dick thread ;):stongue: |
alternativley , you could buy TTA's book for $29.95 from all good book stores :stongue: |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by sandstorm03
since your a pro, why dont you start? |
sshhhh...i don't want people to know about our little secret |
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| Galapidate |
| quote: | Originally posted by sandstorm03
since your a pro, why dont you start? |
:stongue: |
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| Groo |
My version is better
How to Eat
Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat because there are too few of you out there. And I'm not the only woman who says this. Furthermore, some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly. This is one rare customer and she knows it. She won't even tell her girlfriends about it or that guy will become the most popular man in town. So, remember, most guys can , and those who can usually do it satisfactorily, but the guy who gives good
head, he's got it made.
Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs. Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn't it? There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her
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I know. I've seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and other s are covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her special.
Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking h er beautiful , talk to her about it.
Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her up until you can find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
Whenever you touch a woman's , make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of it's own and it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.
Approach her slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her , then float away. Make her anticipate it.
Now lick the crease where her leg joins her . Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit.
Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue
to separate her lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you're about to eat must be done gently.
Tongue- her. This feels define. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up tot he top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience it's presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licki ng the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin.
Gently pull the lips away and flick your tongue
against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and takethe clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder.
If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!' There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a man who's a lousy , simply lousy, but he can eat like nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him.
But back to your eating session...There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger- her while she's enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before, during or after. She'll really like it. In add ition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you're ing her. Well, since your is pretty far away from your mouth, your fing ers will have to do the ing.
Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can't get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. her with them rhythmicly. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do. If you're sucking her clit and finger-ing her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her
with your alo ne. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl migh t flush red or begin to tremble.
Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover.
When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips c overing the top. Move your tongue in and out of her ****. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now.
If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm. Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 o rgasms at one sitting. Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56 orgasms to?
She'd be yours as long as you wanted her.
The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her come, made her your slave by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her q uietly until she's come all the way down. A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex.
Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself. |
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| Floorfiller |
that looks like some good reading there...
edit: hey wait a sec...i've read that before Groo...were did you steal it? |
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| meneedit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Groo
My version is better
How to Eat ....
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I found this file on Kazaa.. that wasnt you, Groo |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by meneedit
I found this file on Kazaa.. that wasnt you, Groo |
i just noticed that too...i think its off of like Askmen or something...can't remember... |
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| sandstorm03 |
| this is some funny ass :D |
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| TweeK |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
ok cool...i'll check it out...now us guys will have to put together a how to suck dick thread ;):stongue: |
Do it!!! Or STFU:D |
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