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picking up a guy (pg. 4)
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Spydey, men are simple:
1) Start a conversation and look/be interested (50% effective)
2) Compliment him (90% effective)
3.a) If you're looking for nothing serious, say something like "Shut up and kiss me, you bastard" (99,99% effective)
3.b) If you're looking for a serious relationship, keep talking and giving OBVIOUS tips (blokes tend to be oblivious). If this doesn't work, say you like him. |
i'm kinda confussed about what she's interested in, because "pick up" implies being only interested in sex. If she wants a relationship, its better to get to know the person before you pick them up. |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
pickup advice coming from a virgin :rolleyes: |
uhm....my engaged friend still hasnt had sex...theyve been dating for 5 years.
Sex isnt really that important. |
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| Arbiter |
| I'm guessing you've never really tried, because if you had you'd realize how easy it was and that asking us is pointless. |
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| Spyder |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
i'm kinda confussed about what she's interested in, because "pick up" implies your just interested in sex. If she interested in a relationship, its better to get to know the person before you pick them up. |
now i'm really confused
theres a diffrence... between picking up a guy for a one night thing and a serious relationship thing? |
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| Orbax |
| A lot of people keep thinking that there is a guaranteed equation to this...it mainly putting the proverbial nuts on the table and seeing what happens. |
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| [PCO]sigmanova |
| it's better to just be straightforward. no games, no hidden messages or subtle gestures, because most guys are stupid and cannot see things that girls do when they are interested. :) |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Renegade
Where's the one guy in 10,000 who's said no to that and what the is wrong with him? |
I had my reasons :p |
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| Orbax |
one time a girl I didnt like that much was sleeping ...with...me...ok so I kind of liked her.
anyway. just laying there, I want to go to bed, no real plans to do anything and she just sit up, lays on my chest and says that she wants me to kiss her...
like its been said, its simple :o |
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| Spyder |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
I'm guessing you've never really tried, because if you had you'd realize how easy it was and that asking us is pointless. |
yes it is... and yes it may be pointless that i'm asking you ppl
BUT i rather have a more open mind in seeing what others have to say.. so that i dont have to be shocked, feel stupid, dissapointed or feel like i'm rejected or whatever...
;) |
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| DiMethGuy |
| i must agree with whoever posted that "got a light" most of the chicks who came after me used that line...and it works. so start smoking...or pretend you do |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spyder
now i'm really confused
theres a diffrence... between picking up a guy for a one night thing and a serious relationship thing? |
yes there's a big difference, picking up someone let's say at a bar rarely leads to a serious relationship because its based on sex from the get go. A realationship is something that you can't just "pick up". It would be like asking where can I pick up a best friend. Relationships are formed over time and are based on many things other than momentary physical attraction.
Time for bed got early start for tomorrow. |
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| Orbax |
Its basically when you are doing something blatant and they dont respond, just back off, and stop.
I was hangin out with this girl at her house and she got a phone call. While on the phone she started tickling my feet with hers.
I just smiled and kept watching TV. Honestly only wanted to be friends with her.
Ended up in not being friends because she couldnt accept that. Which, I understand. |
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