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picking up a guy (pg. 5)
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| Lira |
| That plaid skirt of yours would also get things more interesting :D |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spyder
yes it is... and yes it may be pointless that i'm asking you ppl
BUT i rather have a more open mind in seeing what others have to say.. so that i dont have to be shocked, feel stupid, dissapointed or feel like i'm rejected or whatever...
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Well try to think about it this way:
Either a guy finds you attractive at first glance or he doesn't. If he does, you can say basically anything to him, and the more obvious you are about what you want the more likely he's going to realize it and respond positively. If he doesn't, there really isn't anything you can say to change that.
Don't be afraid of rejection, it's really nothing personal and everyone has their own taste. Just because someone doesn't happen to be attracted to you doesn't make you ugly, so don't feel like getting rejected is a big deal. |
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| Orbax |
Some people honestly dont know how to interact with people though hehe. Ive known people (I was once one as well) whod be attracted, get into a conversation, and would have no clue how to talk to them. Cant talk to them like you can your drunk guy friends. Cant push em or be rough...wtf do you do with these cute little things?
So I can understand on a level where shes coming from as far as ideas of what guys are interested in. She, knowing that shes attractive to most, shouldnt have any problems applying the ideas. |
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| DaveSZ |
I think it's hot when a girl tries to pick up the guy...
| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
3. Go out with the least number of girls possible. Men can get intimidated by a group of women. And make sure that your female friends are not way better looking than you, or terribly ugly either.
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I agree wtih this 100%.
From my point of view, it's better to have the chick alone and vice versa, because the guy could feel like you brought your friends to "evaluate" him, etc.
That adds pressure on him, but honestly most guys would be flattered to have a hot chick try to pick them up.
You'll be fine.
:toothless
| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
"we are going to have sex when we get home later". |
That's too forceful imo if you just met the person, but hey maybe it's a German thing.
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| Lira |
Felt like posting it somewhere :D |
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| DaveSZ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Renegade
If he's:
1) Single.
2) Heterosexual.
3) Not a ass.
Then as a female you're already 95% of the way there. Girls don't need to "woo" guys with smooth talk like guys do with girls so don't worry about saying the right things. Just hold down a semi-normal conversation and - given that he'll understand your keen by the simple fact that you've approached him in such a way - you're there. We guys are incredibly simple creatures, so don't worry about it too much. We're easier than you think. :) |
Indeed.
And if he wants to go shop for candles at Bed Bath and Beyond, run away. |
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| DannyO |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
if he says something mean, give little punches. Guys dont really get physical contact these days. Friends shake hands, but hugs and pokes and stuff are sadly missed. Be playful, go for arms, chest, and back of head. Stay away from legs (unless charlie horsing), nuts, and face.
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Dear lord, at work its quite the opposite, mainly chicks I work with, and it was the same in my old job, not bragging, I'm just a messed up laid back guy, and I think my accent has something to do with it.
But as for chicks picking up, just start a good conversation, THAT YOU CAN HOLD (got the amount of times they can't keep a conversation and its like your talking to yourself), and then drop little hints now and then if he doesn't realise your interested at first, not sure but I think most guys are kinda clueless, I am for sure, but only with these crazy canuck chicks, they make me like this guy > :wtf: |
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| -=M=- |
| quote: | Originally posted by Renegade
Sorry, all of us except -=M=- are simple. He has many hidden layers of mystery and intrigue.
Apparently. ;)
Where's the one guy in 10,000 who's said no to that and what the is wrong with him? |
he was attached |
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| -=M=- |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
i'm kinda confussed about what she's interested in, because "pick up" implies being only interested in sex. If she wants a relationship, its better to get to know the person before you pick them up. |
in my vocabulary picking up is having a smooch and getting a phone number
hooking up is getting sex |
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| töbias |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
pickup advice coming from a virgin :rolleyes: |
Thats a pretty weak insult actually.
The majority of people don't offer any sort of reasonable advice and act like 12 year olds and someone is actually constructive and you insult them, well, aren't you just the forum tough guy.
He doesn't have to justify himself to you. |
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