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| goonerjack |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
she was probably really nervous cause she knew you liked her and was afraid she was going to do something to hurt you without meaning to but didnt want to stop hanging out with you to avoid hurting you cause she liked having you as a friend. if that makes any sense. i've definitely been there before. :( |
i think you're kinda mixing up the 2 girls but i get what you're sayin... everything apart from "she was probably really nervous cause" seems as though it fits the girl that I really liked a month ago perfectly... altho I don't think she was ever nervous
the nervous one (emily) was nervous apparantly just cause she liked me so much, and I spose we all get nervous at first around people you have feelings for cuz you don't wanna lose a chance |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by goonerjack
i think you're kinda mixing up the 2 girls but i get what you're sayin... everything apart from "she was probably really nervous cause" seems as though it fits the girl that I really liked a month ago perfectly... altho I don't think she was ever nervous
the nervous one (emily) was nervous apparantly just cause she liked me so much, and I spose we all get nervous at first around people you have feelings for cuz you don't wanna lose a chance |
oh yeah... i meant to refer to the previous girl you liked. i guess i read it wrong that she was always nervous. |
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| Michael19 |
didnt read the replies so dunno if this was mentioned.
but how abou getting your mate victor to tell her that you dont like her in that way? |
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| goonerjack |
| quote: | Originally posted by Michael19
didnt read the replies so dunno if this was mentioned.
but how abou getting your mate victor to tell her that you dont like her in that way? |
I think that's pretty obvious to her - I was strongly flirting with her mate right in front of Emily, so a pretty big hint
the issue at the moment is how to get steph's number off emily who's witholding it, and whether to come clean with emily about victor - making it probably easier for me but dumping my mate right in it... |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by goonerjack
I think that's pretty obvious to her - I was strongly flirting with her mate right in front of Emily, so a pretty big hint
the issue at the moment is how to get steph's number off emily who's witholding it, and whether to come clean with emily about victor - making it probably easier for me but dumping my mate right in it... |
why dont you just email steph? you dont have to send her a sappy love letter or anything. just send something like this:
steph,
i liked talking to you at the party. give me a call sometime.
-your name
xxx-xxx-xxxx |
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| Michael19 |
| quote: | Originally posted by goonerjack
I think that's pretty obvious to her - I was strongly flirting with her mate right in front of Emily, so a pretty big hint
the issue at the moment is how to get steph's number off emily who's witholding it, and whether to come clean with emily about victor - making it probably easier for me but dumping my mate right in it... |
but emily doesnt know, you know she likes you? So shes mightnt take the hint that you chatting up her mate was you dropping a hint.
butterfly, if he had her email, this post wouldnt be up! |
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| goonerjack |
| i have absolutely no contacts of Stephs apart from thru this girl Emily... (my fault i know :p) |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by goonerjack
btw i do have her address, and her email addy, but i am not gonna send teh letter! well maybe i would if i can write something good enough to sum up the whole situation...
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i am confused now... which girl were you talking about when you wrote this? |
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| goonerjack |
ah right, i was talking about Emily - I thought igottaknow was implying to send teh letter to emily to sort out the situation there...
my other mates are thinking i should just come clean with Emily - it'll all come out anyway at some point so it might be best for her to hear it from me... |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by goonerjack
ah right, i was talking about Emily - I thought igottaknow was implying to send teh letter to emily to sort out the situation there...
my other mates are thinking i should just come clean with Emily - it'll all come out anyway at some point so it might be best for her to hear it from me... |
i dunno, it might be best to let her work out her issues herself. of course if you really do care about her it's different. |
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| goonerjack |
| quote: | Originally posted by Michael19
but emily doesnt know, you know she likes you? So shes mightnt take the hint that you chatting up her mate was you dropping a hint.
butterfly, if he had her email, this post wouldnt be up! |
Right, she (emily) doesn't know that I know she likes me
Personally I couldn't see how chatting up someone could be a hint to the girl that i'm not chatting to that i like her... although i've never been too good with hints
i've never really been that good friends with emily, but that doesn't mean i don't care for how she's feeling - i don't wanna see a nice girl crying...
the other thing is that i'd prefer to get steph's number sooner than later - don't want it to seem like i'm not interested in her after all |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by goonerjack
Right, she (emily) doesn't know that I know she likes me
Personally I couldn't see how chatting up someone could be a hint to the girl that i'm not chatting to that i like her... although i've never been too good with hints
i've never really been that good friends with emily, but that doesn't mean i don't care for how she's feeling - i don't wanna see a nice girl crying...
the other thing is that i'd prefer to get steph's number sooner than later - don't want it to seem like i'm not interested in her after all |
can you look her up in the phone book?
you could just keep pestering emily to give it to you. i mean, in the end if she doesnt give it to you it is really childish of her. |
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