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Best way to break up?
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| maxpain |
Say you were in a relationship for a while and you have been treated pretty good and are pretty much happy overall and then something better comes along and everything is good there. If you are happy and have to break up with the first one then which is the best way to break it to them?
Are you supposed to say that something better came along or make up an excuse like you have to go away for a while or are moving away and hope you don't run into them? How do you move on and try not to hurt the first party when they need you and you don't want to hurt anyones feeling or burn any bridges?
What makes things even more complicated is that the old and new one know each other and the new one doesn't want to look like a theif and said don't say you're leaving to come to me. So how do you say goodbye with out saying the real reason and without mentioning the new one and without burning any bridges and pissing anyone off? What is the best thing to say here? |
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| starsearcher |
Get a belly button ring!
or a tattoo |
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| E2EK1EL |
| You shouldn't end a relationship unless your really unhappy. |
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| DJ_Science |
| ^^ That is one of the best pieces of advice i have heard in a long while. |
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| Irida |
| i think that its not possible to be in a perfect relasionship and look to other dirrections..so i believe that there where things that made u look somewhere else ...so find those things and u will find the words to sayyy.... |
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| djdustx |
whats that quote from Al Pacino in Devil's Advocate?
" you can get the same satisfaction from love...by eating large amounts of chocolate" something like that
dont be a in fool...if u find a girl who loves u and gives a about u...and stays bt ur side for awhile (6 months at least) then u work on that relationship...not move onto somethin new.
Wtf u gunna do when ur married for 20 yrs and u meet a female alot younger and wants u?
Dont let this be some serious mental issues for u later in life...best choice would be to stay wit the one whos loyal to u...and been there for thick and thin.
Sebasano |
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| E2EK1EL |
If a relationship is perfect, then you have a problem ... you need conflicts to understand each other better.
No such thing as a perfect relationship, I once thought I was in one ... |
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| VERTiG0 |
SEVER.
...all communication from the ex. That's if you were in love. If not, stop spending money one each other and seeing each other, and just have wild dirty sex. |
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| E2EK1EL |
| quote: | Originally posted by djdustx
whats that quote from Al Pacino in Devil's Advocate?
" you can get the same satisfaction from love...by eating large amounts of chocolate" something like that
dont be a in fool...if u find a girl who loves u and gives a about u...and stays bt ur side for awhile (6 months at least) then u work on that relationship...not move onto somethin new.
Wtf u gunna do when ur married for 20 yrs and u meet a female alot younger and wants u?
Dont let this be some serious mental issues for u later in life...best choice would be to stay wit the one whos loyal to u...and been there for thick and thin.
Sebasano |
Sorry I don't mean to be so mean ... agree with Sebasano.
You'll regret it breaking up with her, you'll be the best fool for the rest of yoru life.
It's hard to find someone these days, random ing is easy and it's useless when your depress and need someone just understand your pain in life. |
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| starsearcher |
maybe he doesn't want to be in a relatioship? maybe he just wants to bang some chicks...
just don't lead your girl on...if you're gonna do it, might as well break up now don't drag it...i'll have to diasgree with what some of you said - it's unfair to her and to the whole relationship. |
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| muzzybear |
| That sucks you were looking over her shoulder for the next best thing. You should have ended it before you started looking. Nothing ever "happens". I feel bad for the first girl. Just tell her you're looking for something different than what you have. And lay low. Don't flaunt your new girl in her face for a while. |
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| girllovingtvibe |
| just be honest - how about that :) ? |
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