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Horrible, wretched things that significant others have done to you. (pg. 3)
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lücid
my ex-boyfriend that i dated for 5 years cheated on me. but that's not the end of the story.

he was originally from WI but we were living in NY together, and he decided to move back to WI. so he moves back in April and starts looking for jobs. i was still in NY but i was planning on moving out to WI in July. we had an apartment all ready, i had sent $1300 to secure the place already. my car was packed, address changed, etc... and then i found out TWO DAYS before i was going to leave NY that he ed some other girl.

the way i busted him was ing CLASSIC. i was at work and we were IMing eachother online, and he sent me a few IMs that he "thought" he was sending to his best friend, basically admitting some he did. once he signed off, i signed on his screen name and started talking to his best friend and got all the dirty details (i thought i was so ing clever). afterwards i called him and he denied it until i proved to him what i knew.

granted i was ing IRATE, but i decided that i really wanted to "make it work" so i still moved to WI. that was 3 years ago. we ended up breaking up eventually. it's funny though because to this day i still think moving out here was the best decision i ever made, so i have no regrets about what happened. if i hadn't followed my ex-bf out here, i wouldn't have met my current bf who i am completely in love with.


other than that, i was usually the one who was doing the horrible things to guys i was dating. i mean i did some REALLY ed up things in my past (good thing my ex's don't post on here otherwise they'd probably be adding some stories to this thread hahahah). what can i say... people learn from their mistakes. and i have made enough mistakes to become a smarter, more mature girl.
dj_mdma
i could go on for hours. The people who are closest to me know exactly what i mean, but i won't divulge because its such a long story that my hands will fall off from typing it. :whip:
kr00t0n
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Originally posted by dj_mdma
i could go on for hours. The people who are closest to me know exactly what i mean, but i won't divulge because its such a long story that my hands will fall off from typing it. :whip:


I'm sorry baby, I'll use more lube next time I promise!!
dj_mdma
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Originally posted by kr00t0n
I'm sorry baby, I'll use more lube next time I promise!!


:haha: :haha: :haha:

when i said "hands" i meant "toasted ringpiece"
NiteMer
A few years back, when I was 21, I was dating an 18 year old from my work. I was an assistant manager, but that didn't make me anyone's boss, I just helped out. Anyway, she was a solid rep, and word got to our VP that I was dating her. He called me and bitched me out hard, telling me that things never work out in this scenario. So I tell her that we can't date, but can hang out and see what happens.

She comes to my apartment in Boulder, and another rep (now friend) came up with a bunch of his buddies. Anyway, she was obviously mad about our conversation, and decided to get naked amongst everyone and jump in the pool. Then she proceeds to ignore me and flirt with all the other guys. One friend of mine kissed her, but apologized later. The other rep (now friend) supposedly put his dick in her, but he still denies it to this day and says it was between her ass cheeks. Either way, I was not pleased, but she ended up being really lame anyway, so it doesn't really matter.
placebo
My exGF cheated on me.

For some reason it didn't bother me. I guess I knew. I dumped her, never talked to her again. She calls me sometimes. I just don't answer.

Before her it had happened to me by my other exGF and I was really distraught the first time.

But now I'm with a new girl and everythings great. So it's all good. Plus she doesn't bitch about EDM like the others. :wtf:
loca
When i was 19 i dated this one guy i thought was just the nicest guy ever... until i caught him having sex with one of my good girl friends (and people wonder why i don't trust other girls).

Fairly simple: I was supposed to be at work at the time this all happened but ended up coming home earlier because i was sick. Got someone to drive me home, walked in, went straight to the bedroom to go lay down and all i see is his BARE ASS riding this bitch.

Needless to say i blew numerous fuses and chased the girl out. My ex then proceeded to beat the living crap out of me for "disturbing" him. I stayed with him another year after that. Yes, i'm an idiot.
placebo
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Originally posted by loca
When i was 19 i dated this one guy i thought was just the nicest guy ever... until i caught him having sex with one of my good girl friends (and people wonder why i don't trust other girls).

Fairly simple: I was supposed to be at work at the time this all happened but ended up coming home earlier because i was sick. Got someone to drive me home, walked in, went straight to the bedroom to go lay down and all i see is his BARE ASS riding this bitch.

Needless to say i blew numerous fuses and chased the girl out. My ex then proceeded to beat the living crap out of me for "disturbing" him. I stayed with him another year after that. Yes, i'm an idiot.


Aw thats terrible. I would have called the police =/ At least he's gone now.
jonSun
I had a girlfriend smash my cell phone into little pieces just because another girl called me. I cant control who calls me.

I had a girlfriend smack me in the ear with her heavy ass purse. My ear was ringing for hours.

Another girlfriend always had to resort to violence in arguments & hit me in the face. Then she said I made her do it.
:rolleyes: Then she changes her story & apologizes & says she just cant control herself at times. But she also says she wants to marry me. I told her if were married & while your cutting vegetables for dinner we argue & you cant control yourself does that mean your might stab me in the heart.? She said no. Good thing I got rid of her.

My last gf & I went out one night & she got into a drunken rage. So I told her it was over & on my way home & left her a message stating I wanted all my stuff back. I also was pissed so I got a little immature & told her I was getting back with another ex. The next day a couple boxes with all my stuff was on my doorstep. And it was all destroyed. But foolish me accepted her apologies & put up with her for a few more months before I woke up & kicked her to the curb.

For some reason I get the crazy violent ones that like to break things. Also ive had 3 differnt cars keyed by significant others. These are many reasons why im single now & am gonna stay single for a while, well hopefully. I always say that & then dumb me finds some girl who acts & looks perfect. Then after 2 months like usual they get comfortable & start the crazyness.:whip:
Magnus
My girl had her best friend prank call me at college. She posed as a new student that had seen me in the cafeteria and got my name from someone. She would talk to me, and get me to agree with meeting her someplace on campus, then say she had to go. When she would leave, I later found out my girlfriend and her would plan their next move.

So this girl would call back with my girlfriend closeby, coaching her, and push me further, just to see how far I would go. It went from meeting on campus, to meeting with some friends for dinner, then finally meeting all alone. I fell for every in bit of it, I know I know I was a total retard. Well needless to say, I went to go meet this girl and nobody showed up and it dawned on me what happened. I got back to my dorm, called my girl, and she is sobbing and breaks up with me. I was SOOOO pissed she set me up like that, but at the same time, yes I did up. I think it was a dirty move.

Mr. Pink
My first girlfriend cheated on me like crazy

i was stupid and didnt have balls back then, so i put up with it.

i knew about 2 of the "occassions" but didnt know about the other 4!!!
HAHAHAHA!!!

but oh well, its all good.

i dumped her, and a year later of not talking to her ...i fuked the living hell out of her and she wanted to get back with me...

problem was...i was already "seeing" 2 other girls at the same time and i told her that she was just a great fukbuddy.

she put up with it just to have sex with me, but after a while she broke down into a complete depression cuz i didnt love her anymore.

good :)
Slylee
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Originally posted by lücid


other than that, i was usually the one who was doing the horrible things to guys i was dating. i mean i did some REALLY ed up things in my past (good thing my ex's don't post on here otherwise they'd probably be adding some stories to this thread hahahah). what can i say... people learn from their mistakes. and i have made enough mistakes to become a smarter, more mature girl.



lol same here.
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