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Horrible, wretched things that significant others have done to you. (pg. 5)
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| Miss Bliss |
| Nothing so bad... some things some boys did seemed heartbreaking at the time but it's nothing I cry over to this day. Just being young and immature at that time, on both sides... I can totally understand circumstance, substances, attraction, whatever, being a motivation for cheating, but I would never cheat on someone I loved and who depended on me... just because thinking about someone I love and trust my life to cheating on me makes me wince... breaks my heart really, so sad when this happens... |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Bliss
just because thinking about someone I love and trust my life to cheating on me makes me wince... breaks my heart really, so sad when this happens... |
i agree. i know there are worse things out there in the world that can happen, but getting your heart broken from getting cheated on is the worst. i would rather go through physical pain than that again. i can't believe when i hear stories about people actually walking in on their bf/gf having sex with someone! i really think i would go postal and almost kill someone if that happened to me. :nervous: |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
LOL.. yes he is, and I decided he can bite me. |
can i bite you too? |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
well if u've never cheated and have always been straight up, then that's very cool, and i have lots of respect for you, but some of us have had ty experiences or bad childhoods or whatever bull that have caused us to have relationship problems...it doesn't mean we're pieces of .
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yes it does |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
first of all i never said that i used to cheat all the time. i was just always very confused and immature and i always unintentionally would drag whatever guy along with me on my emotional roller coaster and for some reason they would end up really liking me and i would just get annoyed and break up with them...either that or be scared to hurt their feelings so i'd stay in the relationship, but be very distant...just dumb immature games like that...i never really meant to do that crap, it always just happened.
i am the kindest and most forgiving person, i would rather suffer being broken up with, than to hurt someone really bad by breaking up with them. i don't like knowing that i've hurt someone, but ironically enough, i've hurt a lot of people. i've grown up a lot though in the last few years...i have cheated a couple times...both of them deserved it though, i won't get into it. |
I've never cheated on any girls, other than a kiss when I was already gonna break up with the girl I was seeing at the point. Not even a big kiss either, just a peck. But I have hurt some people and I can relate to not wanting to hurt them. A lot of times I try to become distant, rather than being forthright and telling them how I feel. I know it's not right, but I hate disappointing people. I guess I've really let some girls down, but I can't help it if I don't feel it the same way. |
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| kr00t0n |
| quote: | Originally posted by getfoul
return the favor with the, "It's not me, it's you." line. |
Yeah, but you never realise it at the time, only months/years later, lol |
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| kossack |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
When i was 19 i dated this one guy i thought was just the nicest guy ever... until i caught him having sex with one of my good girl friends (and people wonder why i don't trust other girls).
Fairly simple: I was supposed to be at work at the time this all happened but ended up coming home earlier because i was sick. Got someone to drive me home, walked in, went straight to the bedroom to go lay down and all i see is his BARE ASS riding this bitch.
Needless to say i blew numerous fuses and chased the girl out. My ex then proceeded to beat the living crap out of me for "disturbing" him. I stayed with him another year after that. Yes, i'm an idiot. |
Damn. That's brutal. Hope he got his... what a F#cker. |
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| kossack |
Yeh, started dating a good friend (quite a bit younger than me) and she cheated on me with her ex two months into the relationship. I forgave her anyway cause i was head over heels and kinda blind. she insisted on staying friends with him and he made my/our life miserable. she ended up breaking up with me for him anyway. downside is our social lives are inextricable, and she insists on keeping me around as a friend. (which is cool i guess but damn tough on morale...)
i know she was probably 'figuring things out' or whatever but yeh, i'm one of those that holds fidelity pretty high on the list of morals i guess. |
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| varun |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
for me, my problems with men come from watching my mom go through 2 failed marriages to 2 s (yea i'm talking about my dad, but he's made a complete turnaround and i love him dearly, but he used to be really ed up), and then getting cheated on by my high school sweatheart whom i lost my virginity to and was obsessed with. he cheated on me like the whole time we were together right under my nose for 2 years. 2 of the girls were my "friends"...it was messy. i had to go on prozac when i found out, i was so depressed and started flunking all my classes, it was horrible:(
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Are you a revengeful person? If you were to meet your high school sweetheart now and find that he's suffering miserably, would you feel a bit of glee? |
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| DjSimonB |
| Some of this makes me glad I'm shy/unpopular/ugly/whatever else. |
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| TheWhiteRabbit |
Frankly, I don't really want to elaborate into details but girls are just pure evil sometimes. When you chicks get angry you really let us have it and the emotion of hatred becomes apparent. I don't know if some girls know how to forgive and forget. No famous quote can point out what I'm talking about more than this one:
"Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn..."
Yeah, just watch the movie "Closer" and see how nasty Natalie Portman's character gets at the end of the movie with Jude Law. I lived that scene!:whip: |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by varun
Are you a revengeful person? If you were to meet your high school sweetheart now and find that he's suffering miserably, would you feel a bit of glee? |
nah, i would feel bad for him and probably offer advice...christ that was like 8 years ago. if i felt glee and still thought about him hurting me, i'd say i have issues! |
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