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Horrible, wretched things that significant others have done to you. (pg. 4)
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
lol same here. |
thats awful...i dont know how people can do that to each other, you either care about someone or you don't. it's better to just tell them straight up, then do stuff behind someone's back. you basically just straight up lie to someone then them over. that's alot of pain. serves people right who cheat on someone then it happens to them. people suck. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by placebo
thats awful...i dont know how people can do that to each other, you either care about someone or you don't. it's better to just tell them straight up, then do stuff behind someone's back. you basically just straight up lie to someone then them over. that's alot of pain. serves people right who cheat on someone then it happens to them. people suck. |
so... you never make mistakes? ever?
we all make mistakes when we are young and stupid. some more than others, sure. people screw up sometimes and go against their better judgement. sometimes it's not as easy as saying to someone "here is the truth. it's over." sometimes things get blown way out of proportion and you don't know how to handle it. i'm not trying to justify cheating on people, it's a ty ty thing to go through, and i've been on both sides of it plenty of times. the important lesson though is that people learn from their mistakes, and i truly believe that because i have made so many mistakes, it has made me a much wiser and better person. simple as that. |
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| torontotrance |
| I'd kiss and tell about a certain ex of mine but that's in the past. I've seen mean things that people have done to others, it's not nice and it hurts more when you are dating that person. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by placebo
thats awful...i dont know how people can do that to each other, you either care about someone or you don't. it's better to just tell them straight up, then do stuff behind someone's back. you basically just straight up lie to someone then them over. that's alot of pain. serves people right who cheat on someone then it happens to them. people suck. |
first of all i never said that i used to cheat all the time. i was just always very confused and immature and i always unintentionally would drag whatever guy along with me on my emotional roller coaster and for some reason they would end up really liking me and i would just get annoyed and break up with them...either that or be scared to hurt their feelings so i'd stay in the relationship, but be very distant...just dumb immature games like that...i never really meant to do that crap, it always just happened.
i am the kindest and most forgiving person, i would rather suffer being broken up with, than to hurt someone really bad by breaking up with them. i don't like knowing that i've hurt someone, but ironically enough, i've hurt a lot of people. i've grown up a lot though in the last few years...i have cheated a couple times...both of them deserved it though, i won't get into it. |
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
so... you never make mistakes? ever?
we all make mistakes when we are young and stupid. some more than others, sure. people screw up sometimes and go against their better judgement. sometimes it's not as easy as saying to someone "here is the truth. it's over." sometimes things get blown way out of proportion and you don't know how to handle it. i'm not trying to justify cheating on people, it's a ty ty thing to go through, and i've been on both sides of it plenty of times. the important lesson though is that people learn from their mistakes, and i truly believe that because i have made so many mistakes, it has made me a much wiser and better person. simple as that. |
nope. i've never cheated on anyone before. if it wasnt working, i was straight up. no bull. its not worth all the emotional damage you cause people. |
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| getfoul |
| quote: | Originally posted by kr00t0n
Not had anything malicious done to me, just the usual "It's not you, its me" crap |
return the favor with the, "It's not me, it's you." line. |
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
first of all i never said that i used to cheat all the time. i was just always very confused and immature and i always unintentionally would drag whatever guy along with me on my emotional roller coaster and for some reason they would end up really liking me and i would just get annoyed and then break up with them...either that or be scared to hurt their feelings so i'd stay in the relationship, but be very distant...just dumb immature games like that...i never really meant to do that crap, it always just happened.
i am the kindest and most forgiving person, i would rather suffer being broken up with, than to hurt someone really bad by breaking up with them. i don't like knowing that i've hurt someone, but ironically enough, i've hurt a lot of people. i've grown up a lot though in the last few years...i have cheated a couple times...both of them deserved it though, i won't get into it. |
didn't mean it like that, i was just commenting on the previous post. :) :gsmile: |
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by getfoul
return the favor with the, "It's not me, it's you." line. |
rofls-royce |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by placebo
nope. i've never cheated on anyone before. if it wasnt working, i was straight up. no bull. its not worth all the emotional damage you cause people. |
well if u've never cheated and have always been straight up, then that's very cool, and i have lots of respect for you, but some of us have had ty experiences or bad childhoods or whatever bull that have caused us to have relationship problems...it doesn't mean we're pieces of .
for me, my problems with men come from watching my mom go through 2 failed marriages to 2 s (yea i'm talking about my dad, but he's made a complete turnaround and i love him dearly, but he used to be really ed up), and then getting cheated on by my high school sweatheart whom i lost my virginity to and was obsessed with. he cheated on me like the whole time we were together right under my nose for 2 years. 2 of the girls were my "friends"...it was messy. i had to go on prozac when i found out, i was so depressed and started flunking all my classes, it was horrible:(
so that's why i was so dumb and immature...i've been through a lot of , and no matter what i say, it obviously affected me or else i wouldn't have pulled the stunts that i have in the past. i'm kind of pessimistic about men and marriage. i get a very uneasy and nervous feeling when i think about marriage...:nervous: |
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
well if u've never cheated and have always been straight up, then that's very cool, and i have lots of respect for you, but some of us have had ty experiences or bad childhoods or whatever bull that have caused us to have relationship problems...it doesn't mean we're pieces of .
for me, my problems with men come from watching my mom go through 2 failed marriages to 2 s (yea i'm talking about my dad, but he's made a complete turnaround and i love him dearly, but he used to be really ed up), and then getting cheated on by my high school sweatheart whom i lost my virginity to and was obsessed with. he cheated on me like the whole time we were together right under my nose for 2 years. 2 of the girls were my "friends"...it was messy. i had to go on prozac when i found out, i was so depressed and started flunking all my classes, it was horrible:(
so that's why i was so dumb and immature...i've been through a lot of , and no matter what i say, it obviously affected me or else i wouldn't have pulled the stunts that i have in the past. i'm kind of pessimistic about men and marriage. i get a very uneasy and nervous feeling when i think about marriage...:nervous: |
been cheated on twice myself ;) www.zoloft.com :wtf: best drug ever |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by placebo
been cheated on twice myself ;) www.zoloft.com :wtf: best drug ever |
i disagree...i'm not a fan of taking prescriptions or "happy pills" as they say. i started to take the zoloft (i said prozac, but i meant zoloft...same ), and it made me feel even worse, so i just stopped taking them after like almost a month. i've suffered from bouts of depression since then, but i always work through it...i never run to the shrink and get all doped up. it doesn't fix the problem...it only masks it. if you have like a chemical imbalance or something that u can't fix yourself like bi polar disorder, then of course u need the meds...but for situational depression, i think it's best to sort things out on your own or with a therapist, instead of running to the doctor for meds. |
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i disagree...i'm not a fan of taking prescriptions or "happy pills" as they say. i started to take the zoloft (i said prozac, but i meant zoloft...same ), and it made me feel even worse, so i just stopped taking them after like almost a month. i've suffered from bouts of depression since then, but i always work through it...i never run to the shrink and get all doped up. it doesn't fix the problem...it only masks it. if you have like a chemical imbalance or something that u can't fix yourself like bi polar disorder, then of course u need the meds...but for situational depression, i think it's best to sort things out on your own or with a therapist, instead of running to the doctor for meds. |
yeah. i prob needed them for more then just that though. haven't taken zoloft for prob over a year and i'm fine. dunno. all i know is that when i was on z i had no motivation to do anything...i would just like sit in my bed and watch tv...and like...you knew you had to do something...but you didnt, because you were on zoloft. lol. |
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