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i did something majorily stupid last night...what should i do... (pg. 2)
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| prolikewhoa |
| *sigh* boys boys boys. talk to the girl first, let her know that you do like her, you had a good time, etc...see what she thinks about her big brother knowing. i would NOT go to him first, is what i'm saying. you should definitely talk to this girl about it first. i mean, it's her business before it's her brother's business, and i know i wouldn't want MY brother knowing too much about my sex life. see how she reacts...if you feel like she'd be okay with you telling your friend, do it. honestly my sex life is absolutely none of my brother's business, i doubt this girl will feel much different than me. she's a grown woman, she can (and did) make her own decisions. i think the whole macho "touch my little sis and die" mentality is really immature and really stupid. if she's old enough to drink, she's old enough to have sex, and if she's old enough to have sex, it's not her brother's business who she does it with. that's just my opinion. whatever though, do what you like. |
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| maciek synergy |
alright i was reading thru elfs right.
so i came to this conclusion.
let me take this excerp ; some like this "i wouldnt want my brother knowing about my sex-life" if he did know, he would probably beat up your partners or something right? so like thats just like masking the truth. i dont see that being the best solution...
-flag change bitchs. |
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| dinoXpress |
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
*sigh* boys boys boys. talk to the girl first, let her know that you do like her, you had a good time, etc...see what she thinks about her big brother knowing. i would NOT go to him first, is what i'm saying. you should definitely talk to this girl about it first. i mean, it's her business before it's her brother's business, and i know i wouldn't want MY brother knowing too much about my sex life. see how she reacts...if you feel like she'd be okay with you telling your friend, do it. honestly my sex life is absolutely none of my brother's business, i doubt this girl will feel much different than me. she's a grown woman, she can (and did) make her own decisions. i think the whole macho "touch my little sis and die" mentality is really immature and really stupid. if she's old enough to drink, she's old enough to have sex, and if she's old enough to have sex, it's not her brother's business who she does it with. that's just my opinion. whatever though, do what you like. |
yeah but its still like.. dude, you ed my sister. im glad i dont have a sister. cuz im sure id be a macho "hey, dont my sister" type brother.
FF, not only was she ed, you are now ed too.
but i bet it was fun! |
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| eRRaTiK |
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
it's not her brother's business who she does it with. |
spoken like a true woman.
maciek beat me to it. bastid. |
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| maciek synergy |
| yo im quick on my feet like that, |
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| maciek synergy |
| yo im brilliant. why are we defending your ass; dont ask us for help. you ed up. lose lose situation, we're creating conflict inside the forum. im scared. |
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| Rodrico |
This is what you do Jason, you bring them to a quiet place in the woods, somewhere where the sun don't shine all too much often, and all the screaming in the world wont be heard. Take out a shovel and a bat from your trunk, and then rid yourself of both nuisances while never returning to speak about any of said events again.
Problem solved. |
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| prolikewhoa |
| quote: | Originally posted by maciek synergy
alright i was reading thru elfs right.
so i came to this conclusion.
let me take this excerp ; some like this "i wouldnt want my brother knowing about my sex-life" if he did know, he would probably beat up your partners or something right? so like thats just like masking the truth. i dont see that being the best solution...
-flag change bitchs. |
WTF okay my sex life is my business. why the would my brother beat up my partners?! that's retarded. how is that masking the truth? i don't ask him about HIS sex life |
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| maciek synergy |
| alright elf, you need to take a chill pill. im only here to help. simmer down_ |
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| prolikewhoa |
| quote: | Originally posted by maciek synergy
alright elf, you need to take a chill pill. im only here to help. simmer down_ |
i'm not upset, i'm seriously asking. as a little sister, i've never understood this "big brother can't allow little sister to get any cock" mentality. if both people consentually have sex, it's no one else's business, regardless of relation. you don't call your mom up after you get laid, why do you call this girl's family? i know it's a guy-to-guy testosterone friend thing but i honestly don't see why you wouldn't at least talk to the GIRL first. |
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| Basstard |
i think the sisters and sluts theory comes into play here pro.
alot of guys look at girls as well.. meat. a conquest. somthin to . chances are, this guys brother is one of em.
now thats all well and good for him, thats how he looks at women. but his sister is different. he doesnt like the thought of other guys lookin at his sister like that - especially a friend.
sorry im not explaining this too well but i remember reading abt it before in some sociology paper. hope ya sorta get wat i mean :) |
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| maciek synergy |
| props* you were sounding smart for a while. |
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