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i did something majorily stupid last night...what should i do... (pg. 5)
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| jonSun |
I did the same thing to a friend a few years back. In a way I felt bad about my friend but then I realized she was an adult & had her own feelings. He has to accept that. So dont sweat it.
Jason its obvious your a good guy, so you can tap my sis anytime.:p :stongue: |
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| ali92 |
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
*sigh* boys boys boys. talk to the girl first, let her know that you do like her, you had a good time, etc...see what she thinks about her big brother knowing. i would NOT go to him first, is what i'm saying. you should definitely talk to this girl about it first. i mean, it's her business before it's her brother's business, and i know i wouldn't want MY brother knowing too much about my sex life. see how she reacts...if you feel like she'd be okay with you telling your friend, do it. honestly my sex life is absolutely none of my brother's business, i doubt this girl will feel much different than me. she's a grown woman, she can (and did) make her own decisions. i think the whole macho "touch my little sis and die" mentality is really immature and really stupid. if she's old enough to drink, she's old enough to have sex, and if she's old enough to have sex, it's not her brother's business who she does it with. that's just my opinion. whatever though, do what you like. |
Best paragraph this whole thread! I'm not a lady, but this is what I was thinking as well. Don't people still know that sex life is personal and this case of one guy making love with his friend's sister really all depends on what that sister thinks of it & him? The brother shouldn't even be a part of this unless the sister sees a valid reason. End of story. If I had a younger sister and one of my friends did this, I could care less and I would leave it up to them to figure it out. I know that the 'macho' thing of becoming offencive towards the guy who did it with her really isn't going to solve anything, so why even bother? It only causes more trouble. |
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| No one |
| quote: | Originally posted by ali92
Best paragraph this whole thread! I'm not a lady, but this is what I was thinking as well. Don't people still know that sex life is personal and this case of one guy making love with his friend's sister really all depends on what that sister thinks of it & him? The brother shouldn't even be a part of this unless the sister sees a valid reason. End of story. If I had a younger sister and one of my friends did this, I could care less and I would leave it up to them to figure it out. I know that the 'macho' thing of becoming offencive towards the guy who did it with her really isn't going to solve anything, so why even bother? It only causes more trouble. |
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| brashy |
| maybe you should have another sex night woth both of them, so that no one will feel excluded:) |
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| Coup |
| quote: | Originally posted by brashy
maybe you should have another sex night woth both of them, so that no one will feel excluded:) |
although that is actually funny, this is a serious situation.
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| Blue. |
I think telling him straight up would be more desirable then him finding out through his sister or another friend. It'll show that you have balls and that you actualy feel bad for betraying him.
If you want to make it real easy then just tell him when he's drunk or asleep :clown: |
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| stren |
| quote: | Originally posted by Blue.
If you want to make it real easy then just tell him when he's drunk or asleep :clown: |
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| vrahnos |
| quote: | Originally posted by Blue.
I think telling him straight up would be more desirable then him finding out through his sister or another friend. It'll show that you have balls and that you actualy feel bad for betraying him.
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| Floorfiller |
alright...well thanks for all the opinions people...lemme fill in some of the gaps.
here is the thing...his family flew in for his graduation stuff, so its not like i could really start a relationship with this girl if i wanted to...she lives in another state. as far as the lil' sis thing...well she's actually a 21 year old senior in college she's just the youngest in her family...my friend is 25...and his other sisters are like 27 29ish and married, so she's just the youngest that's all. we had both been drinking a lot, but i feel very confident that we both knew what we were doing...i think there was a mutual attraction...and we laughed and joked all night. my relationship with her brother is not the strongest in the world, but i'd still like to be able to consider him a friend. i dunno...i guess chances are his sister will go back home and he'll never know about it, but i'm just worried if it comes up. thanks for everyone's insight...i think i'll listen to the ladies and i guess since i really don't have a way to contact his sister, i should just leave it as is...i don't want to involve her brother in her personal life for no reason... |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by MarathonMan
Get your friend to ID the tune in your sig, then you'll be even! :stongue: |
i just found this really funny hehehe...
| quote: | Originally posted by jonSun
Jason its obvious your a good guy, so you can tap my sis anytime.:p :stongue: |
gee thanks buddy...what ya guys doing for 4th of july? :stongue:
ps. you can do my sister too... :p |
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| Blue. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
alright...well thanks for all the opinions people...lemme fill in some of the gaps.
here is the thing...his family flew in for his graduation stuff, so its not like i could really start a relationship with this girl if i wanted to...she lives in another state. as far as the lil' sis thing...well she's actually a 21 year old senior in college she's just the youngest in her family...my friend is 25...and his other sisters are like 27 29ish and married, so she's just the youngest that's all. we had both been drinking a lot, but i feel very confident that we both knew what we were doing...i think there was a mutual attraction...and we laughed and joked all night. my relationship with her brother is not the strongest in the world, but i'd still like to be able to consider him a friend. i dunno...i guess chances are his sister will go back home and he'll never know about it, but i'm just worried if it comes up. thanks for everyone's insight...i guess since i really don't have a way to contact his sister, i should just leave it as is...i don't want to involve her brother in her personal life for no reason... |
21 means she's old enough to make decisions for herself. You sound as if you're not very close with her brother would he be more of an aquantince? If so then you shouldn't feel as bad.
When you think about it logicaly all you did was the sister of someone you knew. You had a strong connection with her, you guys got along and once there was a little bit of alcohol in the both of you the seduction thing kind of just happened.
If you are trying to be friends with this guy either throw that idea out the window right now or be upfront with him and make damn sure you don't sound like you're bragging to him. |
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| mdamon7278 |
| Well if she was good, I go back and hit it again, and again and again :D |
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