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| Mr. Pink |
Have you ever been betrayed?
Has anyone ever stabbed you in the back?
Has your heart ever been crushed, smashed, stomped on, spat on, and shat on by the person you thought would never hurt you?
What happened?
I have a story to tell, how about j00 guys? |
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| djdust |
| Sup Javi-- I do, but it's damn long. But, I'll talk about it in a bit... |
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| M@t |
No fortunately
I think ive been very lucky in life though |
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| Clovis86 |
| Like...alot of times. :wtf: |
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| jonze234 |
| first night i went away to college my girlfriend screwed a guy i worked with and was pretty good friends with. that pretty much sucked. |
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| lücid |
i found out my boyfriend (ex-boyfriend now) cheated on me... the nasty part about it is that i found out 2 days before i moved 900 miles across the country to live with him. those were probably 2 of the most emotional days in my life, as i was leaving all my family and friends behind, for a guy who ed some other chick. i suppose looking back, the "right choice" would have been cancelling my plans with him and staying in NY, but i am more than 100% happy that i moved out here, regardless of it being for a ty relationship.
i suppose i had it coming, i betrayed him many times, and in much much worse ways.
that was back then, when i was young and stupid. now that i am smarter and more mature, i surround myself with good people who i would do anything for, and know that they would do anything for me. |
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| Slylee |
my first love (guy i lost my virginity to) cheated....that was pretty bad. i mean it's one thing to have a nice sweet puppy love and then u guys break up and go off to college and ur heart broken, but i mean, to get cheated on by your first major boyfriend/love SUCKS! my whole world came crashing down on me and i went into a severe state of depression...i'm extremely sensitive and vulnerable when i'm in love...i dunno if i could handle that again.
oh yea, and the one girlfriend i ever got close to (best friend from middle & high school) turned into a ing miserable bitch from xanax and other drugs and she basically ed this guy that i was really into and had dated for a while... and it was her boyfriend's (of 2 years) best friend...she also started stealing money from her parents and bullting everyone, and was always moody and cranky...everyone always walked on eggshells around her. i was really nice to her, and looking back, she never did for me.
so anyway she moved to vegas and me and that boyfriend of hers (he had become like a best friend to me) had sex one night when i was chillin at his house smoking weed...he totally came on to me and i was just like, "woah"...i just went with it, but i felt really uncomfortable...i think it was his little way of saying to her, " you, i'm doing your best friend"...lol and it was my way of saying, " u i'm doing your ex boyfriend".... we had sex one other time while rolling too like a couple weekends later, and that was it.
we actually swapped stories about her...he told me how the last few months before she left for vegas, she talked a bunch of about me and it hurt really bad, i cried. i never in a million years would talk about her, she was like my sister. so i told him about the 5 guys she screwed behind his back.
oh and she's married with 2 kids in vegas now with no job:stongue: she turned into a real winner...
i remember her touching base with me a few times (before she got knocked up) and she was talking about meth and free basing speed and , i was like dude...she turned into such a junkie...
oh well. |
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| kossack |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
Have you ever been betrayed?
Has anyone ever stabbed you in the back?
Has your heart ever been crushed, smashed, stomped on, spat on, and shat on by the person you thought would never hurt you?
What happened?
I have a story to tell, how about j00 guys? |
oh hell yeh, but i'm teh ki113d if i tell here.
'sides, i'd just be whining.
(out of curiousity, what turn of events brought about this thread Pink?) |
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| Aquarian |
| quote: | | Originally posted by Slylee but i mean, to get cheated on by your first major boyfriend/love SUCKS! my whole world came crashing down on me and i went into a severe state of depression...i'm extremely sensitive and vulnerable when i'm in love...i dunno if i could handle that again. |
Same thing here. She did it twice - then she left me under the excuse that she was gay and this wasn't what she was looking for. About a month later I found out she was with another guy. How fun!
Since then I haven't been able to trust anyone, and I get paranoid about everything. Sometimes I doubt I'll ever be able to be in another relationship again. If I ever do, it won't be for a very long time. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aquarian
Same thing here. She did it twice - then she left me under the excuse that she was gay and this wasn't what she was looking for. About a month later I found out she was with another guy. How fun!
Since then I haven't been able to trust anyone, and I get paranoid about everything. Sometimes I doubt I'll ever be able to be in another relationship again. If I ever do, it won't be for a very long time. |
u really should try to get past it babe, it's not worth it. if you think about it, ur still letting her get the best of you by affecting your future relationships (or lack there of)...u get me?
i've spoken to my ex from high school a few times since then...i mean christ we were KIDS...that'd be silly of me to be like, "oh u cheated on me 8 years ago bla bla bla" i'd scare myself if i was still mad about it.
move on hun, not everyone is like her...u have to give other girls a chance:) |
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| Fundamental |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i found out my boyfriend (ex-boyfriend now) cheated on me... the nasty part about it is that i found out 2 days before i moved 900 miles across the country to live with him. those were probably 2 of the most emotional days in my life, as i was leaving all my family and friends behind, for a guy who ed some other chick. |
At this point, I was thinking "Aww, poor girl". Until...
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i suppose i had it coming, i betrayed him many times |
:stongue: |
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