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| ahway26 |
way more money than you? also their family status is really high. recently i got with a girl who has everything and anything she wanted. Either from exs or family.
How do you deal with that? i'd say im in a upper middle class family but she is just way over my status, sometimes its really hard to go out with her.
Lets say i live in a million dollar house, She lives in a 4.5 million dollar house!! Everytime we go out drinking the bill comes out over 200-300 bucks(both of us drink alot and often) Usually i have to pay all and for her friends also. Its getting way over my budget.
I wonder if anyone is in a relaitonship like me, and how do u deal with it? |
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| Slylee |
| that sucks, but u gotta bring it up with her in private. only way to deal with it is to let her know u love treating her and stuff, but that your budget simply cannot support all of her friends plus hers every time...just be honest about it all. obviously she's not with u for your money, so it shoudn't matter to her. she shouldn't have a problem picking up the tab if she makes/has a lot more money than you. i make more money than my bf now (he lives off student loans for now) so i'm usually picking up the tab when we go out and i don't really care. |
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| Protege |
You have to pay for hers and her friends drinks?:conf:
Why? Thats messed up. I would never expect the bf/gf of a friend to buy my drinks.
Also, is this a dominatrix/submissive kind of relationship? |
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| ahway26 |
| Acctually its oppsite around, she always listens to me, but im just trying my best to keep up/ maintaining her status or being rich, she lives off her parents , i work*_* i guess sooner or later i'd have to tell her that i cant maintain. Kinda sad to face the fact cause im a man and i really want to give her whatever she wants maybe just not yet. |
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| Streakfury |
| Yeah, buying her drinks is fine, but there's no way I'd pay for all her mates drinks as well. Nobody should expect you to do that, and if she does... well, she wants a slap. |
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| ahway26 |
| We are both chinese and usually chinese dont go-dutch at all when going out and usually girls never had to pay for anything.Bad tradition/rule i guess....err.. |
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| DJ Mikey Mike |
| You're a mug. :stongue: Unlucky. |
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| Erotic Buddha |
| quote: | Originally posted by ahway26
whats a "mug"? |
its a kind of cup |
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| ahway26 |
| so im a cup....its prolly nothing good. |
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| StanVoid |
| hey i want a drink ... can you pay for me? |
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