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Never bring your "ex" girlfriend to a party! (pg. 5)
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by TrinityGirl
sorry to say that but it looks like she just knows how to play the game better than you! |
thats the problem. u bitches think things are a game.
we aint got time to around tho.
which is prolly why u find urself cuddled up to a tub of ice cream watching oprah beside a box of kleenex's every couple of months |
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| Jayx1 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
thats the problem. u bitches think things are a game.
we aint got time to around tho.
which is prolly why u find urself cuddled up to a tub of ice cream watching oprah beside a box of kleenex's every couple of months |
Problem is that canadian guys get played like pianos for the most part. See the example in this thread for instance.
Guys that let themselves get played like that deserve the women they get. Sadly though it just makes it hard for those with a spine. |
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| neuromancer |
anybody interested in the girl's phone number ? i can share it ...
lol .. just joking ... :whip: me bad .. hahahahahha |
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| Jayx1 |
| quote: | Originally posted by neuromancer
anybody interested in the girl's phone number ? i can share it ...
lol .. just joking ... :whip: me bad .. hahahahahha |
sounds like he'd be better off if you took over his problems...
LOL |
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| Vivid Boy |
ill take her number.
"hey i got an idea why dont u give me head, thatll REALLY piss him off"
:P |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
thats the problem. u bitches think things are a game.
we aint got time to around tho. |
Amen brotha.
Some of us, at least, have better things to do than play head games. The people I respect (of which there are many, whether or not some of the hippies here believe it) have always been up front and not hypersensitive. And I simply don't have the patience to pretend to have respect for the others just for the sake of getting laid. Maybe that's extreme on the other end of the spectrum, but at least I don't cry for an hour every week because of some ho.
You can't respect someone who always kisses up to you - it's sickening. If you act like this, you'll always eventually end up getting treated like crap when they find out you're a doormat. |
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| Jayx1 |
That doesnt mean you have to play games and be an ass to them either. Many guys are like that too.
The most true way you can be is nice to someone until they do something that disrespects you. Then you have to syand up for yourself. And being nice doesnt mean buying things. Being nice means having respect for someone and being honest. Most girls dont know how to handle honesty and prefer the lies. Id even say that most canadian women even force guys to lie to them because they dont want the truth. But eventually u will find the girl who appreciates a guy for who he is, not what he has or how easy he can be walked on. It takes a bit longer this way but its all about quality, not quantity.
If you are a guy who gets abused or is abusive then you will get nothing but grief for the rest of your life from the opposite sex. |
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| Superstring |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
ill take her number.
"hey i got an idea why dont u give me head, thatll REALLY piss him off"
:P |
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
Ok on a serious note.. this thread is getting too long. I think someone already posted on this.. Always follow your gut in this situation.. don't tell that quiet voice to shut up, listen to it! Shoulda dissapeard into the crowd and talked to some nice ladies, just for the heck of it. You can doooo eeeeeiiit!
Cheers,
-Roman
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* I do not mean leave her at the club, all alone, without any means of getting home or sleeping in a comfy bed.. but do go and get the scoop on the place yourself, check out who is present, etc.
In short, coming and leaving together doesn't mean you're together 100% of the time.. |
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| Mortyman |
WOW, some of you are guys are absolute morons :rolleyes:
Like I said, there's more background than I care to share. It was coming to the end of the night. We came together, we were gonna leave together. She had no place to go and ALL her belongings were at my house in St. Catharines. I'm not about to leave a girl that I cared for stranded in a huge ing city where she doesn't know a single person and doesn't know where the to go. (midya though, she coulda just stayed with one of the dudes she met :rolleyes: )
But I'm not an . Vivid Boy. You obviously are. There's no room for discussion there, so I'm not even going to bother with your responses.
Let me clear this up. Yes, she was acting very immaturely in front of me, but she probably thought I thought nothing of it. And that's what I wanted her to think because it would've turned into another 3 hour arguement about the same bull over and over again! I avoideda bigger headache than I already got!
When we got back to mine I told her to take the Greyhound to Toronto that night and to stay in a Hostel. At first, she said ok, I was happy... then it turned into, I'm tired and don't want to make the trip anymore. WTF!! Typical, can't make her mind up. I told her NO, again, and again, until she went to my room and cried in the dark. So I guess I'm an again... well guess what, I'm not, so I told her fine, she can stay the night and she has to leave in the morning.
Because knowing FULL-WELL that if I slept in the same bed as her, we were gonna . There's no if, ands or buts! It's the way our relationship worked... it was based on sex... cause when it's good it's good. And I know that's why she wanted to stay one more night... that one final . Well, that's why I slept on the couch, my payback for the night before ;)
I also took into account, which some of you haven't yet, that because she doesn't know anybody, that's why I didn't "walk away" from her. I gotta be there to make sure she's ok. She's in a strange city and doesn't really know how people can act when they are all ed on coke and E. Remeber I spent most of the night away from her in the first place. There was ample opportunity for her to flirt and pick-up while I wasn't around... and then I wouldn't care!
Again, the issue at hand... It was right in front of me! |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mortyman
Like I said, there's more background than I care to share. It was coming to the end of the night. We came together, we were gonna leave together. She had no place to go and ALL her belongings were at my house in St. Catharines. I'm not about to leave a girl that I cared for stranded in a huge ing city where she doesn't know a single person and doesn't know where the to go. (midya though, she coulda just stayed with one of the dudes she met :rolleyes: ) |
That kind of rationalizing is exactly why you got treated the way you did. She knew that she could do whatever the hell she wanted and still have a ride and a warm bed (without you in it :rolleyes: ) at the end of the night.
I don't mean to be callous but you don't realize how ridiculous you sound. You let her stay with you just because you didn't want to argue? How about dumping her at the first motel you find instead of arguing?
This type of thing will happen to you over and over again unless you stop rationalizing these poor decisions and stop trying to make it THEIR fault. Yes, she was a bitch, but you didn't have to put up with it and in fact had several opportunities to either ditch her or shut her up. |
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| Mortyman |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jayx1
And being nice doesnt mean buying things. Being nice means having respect for someone and being honest. Most girls dont know how to handle honesty and prefer the lies. Id even say that most canadian women even force guys to lie to them because they dont want the truth. |
Soooo true. |
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| Mortyman |
| Diginut, you and Vivid-boy need to get together and write a novel on how to treat a woman. :rolleyes: |
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