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| LittlePoonzgirl |
no, not from partying...I want to party now more than ever
So my bf and I have been together for over 3 years, and living together for over 2 years. And, well, he's quite a bit older than me so the question of our future (ie. marriage) came up. To be sure we are right for each other we decided to go on a temporary 'break'.
has anyone else gone through something like this? |
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| Floorwhore |
so by break, does that mean you guys are allowed to see other people?
if so.......
UNLEASH!!! |
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| El Kay Dee |
ive been on a "break" with this girl for several years now....i wonder when the "break" ends...
:nervous: |
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| Moral Hazard |
| srsly, what constitutes a break and is there a solid reconsiliation date? Who's idea was this? |
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| LittlePoonzgirl |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
srsly, what constitutes a break and is there a solid reconsiliation date? Who's idea was this? |
break=a time to see other people
how long=I don't know, I guess until we are ready (perhaps a few months)
who's idea=both of ours, more him though seeing as I'm still young and have plenty of time...he's not quite as young and doesn't have as much time
LKD, I think unfortunately that 'break' is a 'break-up' *big happy hug to make you feel better* |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
break=a time to see other people
how long=I don't know, I guess until we are ready (perhaps a few months)
who's idea=both of ours, more him though seeing as I'm still young and have plenty of time...he's not quite as young and doesn't have as much time
LKD, I think unfortunately that 'break' is a 'break-up' *big happy hug to make you feel better* |
a) I would set a definate end date on which you will meet to discuss the events of the past few months and decide your future.
b) What type of contact will the two of you maintain, if any, during this time? |
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| The Highroller |
| quote: | Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
break=a time to see other people |
*Fumbles around for cell phone and quickly looks for Michelle's number* ;) :D |
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| El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
LKD, I think unfortunately that 'break' is a 'break-up' *big happy hug to make you feel better* |
noooooooooooooo
and i have been keeping a reserved sign on me for all these years?? thats it...im back out on the prowl now....
LAYDEES I IS SINGLE!!!! |
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| Euphorica |
| i know of quite a few people who have done this. |
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| Summer21 |
In my opinion a "break" is a bunch of B.S... it's like cheating but with an excuse. If you feel the need to see other people, then you're not meant to be together, and/or there are some serious problems in the relationship. I never understood this approach.
Sandra |
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| DigitalMP |
| quote: | Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
no, not from partying...I want to party now more than ever
So my bf and I have been together for over 3 years, and living together for over 2 years. And, well, he's quite a bit older than me so the question of our future (ie. marriage) came up. To be sure we are right for each other we decided to go on a temporary 'break'.
has anyone else gone through something like this? |
wanna come over? |
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| r5a |
| quote: | Originally posted by Summer21
In my opinion a "break" is a bunch of B.S... it's like cheating but with an excuse. If you feel the need to see other people, then you're not meant to be together, and/or there are some serious problems in the relationship. I never understood this approach.
Sandra |
Agreed. |
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